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Yeah sure what ever. Look I have a way with words since I'm a novelist and I've written almost five novels. You might have gotten the wrong idea. Just because the way I written things on my posts doesn't mean that I'm a life sucking bastard! Ok you guys can all be cruel and not give me an inch of any word of honesty. Do want me to pm you two my life story because I'll do it. Now that I think about it. Both of you can laugh all you want but the truth is I'm not looking for someone I can take care of the way your thought I was describing it but its actually totally the reverse. Check both of your inboxes soon. I mean it!

All right I'm having rough times. I've been through a lot. All the things that everyone has read are not lies but the truth. I am still looking for someone I could love. Just any girl from my age to 27 would do. Even though this is really like you're trying to sale your self. I'm open, honest. I love without any doubt. I kind of push things for fear of losing a friendship or that one girl I love. I hate being alone. My life is a total bore and I'm looking for a slow change. I feel as if everyone that I love I ruin. Yes I admit I can be obessive at times but its more from fear of losing the one I love. What girl would love me? I have no social life at all besides the internet. I only see people that aren't my family on every Sunday. I have only two friends that I only get to see at church. I have another friend who I've only met online and she and I email constantly but shes younger than I am. I have another friend that I have met outside of the internet and she emails me back and forth but she lives a great distance from me. I'm just open for some girl to love me. I'm not asking much I'm just asking for any girl to love. I'm almost to the point of giving up. I'm not yet but I might have given up already on this site I mean. I mean finding one to love me on this site. If I'm wrong then well tell me.

TigerFire: You're off your head! Your lengthy, rambling, ranting PM you sent me only confirmed this. You need to get some help, mate, because your attitude to people isn't healthy.

It wasn't ranting it was my whole life wrapped up in one PM. Yeah I know what you're talking about though. Thanks for the concern.

Don't take it so literally. He is just extremely devoted. He is aware of his issues and apparently is embarrased. He tries that is all that matters. Tigerfire I will be there to help you.

No one can see issues and compassion?

I do the same thing tiger fire. Same life and all. I am winning finally. I also find out I am damn good. I never tried.

My only outside friends are my brother;s girlfriend and my cousins. Most of them are girls. I think the other one of his friends thinks that way too. She was being all nice and not sarchastic. I glad to see you managed to remain cool. That is good social skills. I am embarrase also, I also try.

One of those girls was teasing me. Her name is Kristen. She is on myspace.com. She came to me and humped my back. She makes statements that she aroused, sexually by my presents. She is being sarchasitc. I look good so it makes it hard to tell. The other girl, Gianna is more sinsere. She is like yeah I can;t wait till summer when you are wearing tank tops. I have seen other nt do that too. I am in that mood to and I want to do that to others, but I am not sure how they will take it. I am embarrassed by my own actions in the past. Things which I had no way to deal with but can now. I have been isolated for 23 years, and I lost two girls at ounce. They both wanted me. It only happened when I was younger so It might have been true. They wanted to meet after school. My emotions tore me down in school too. I got straight f one year. I had straight a at one time. I could not go to my high school graduation. I said something that got misinterpeted and people threated me. They mistake that person as my brother. Authorites knew too. I don;t think these are anything to be embarrassed about. They were out of my controll. I got them back, I tried. My cousin Ashley was my best friend. We took baths together and ate icecream together. We were both fat. That was as babies. I am skinny know and can;t gain. I used to call for her all the time. Wanna hear something else funny? Cake was my first word not mommy or daddy. Look how they act. I have always had a strong intutive side and apparently even as a baby.

Ashley is a little chunky but she has a beautiful face and body in general. No I would date my cousin. She probably already notices she is beautiful.

I will bet you trust me more tigerfire. Did your other so called friends tell you about their family? I forgive you issues and all. We all have them. I can see how it seemed like I was NT and it looked like at previous situation was going to happen. You have your reasons I understand its for your protection. I do it to. Think about all the possiblites then which applies.

I know women only it would be gay otherwise, and I am not gay. (fooling around with attraction and stuff) Yeah I see why they do it. Its funny for those who can understand rude to those who don;t. I will bet they would do it people with disablilites, who are near functional ie aspies.

Hi. I'm 16 years old and male from the North East of England. I enjoy Sport (watching and playing), television and radio and music. In terms of my social skills, well, I dont have really severe AS, but I don't enjoy really enjoy getting drunk and going to parties and all of the other stuff that most people my age seem to like. Hence the fact I don't socialise much in that way, but am comfortable with doing things like playing Football and Badminton with people, which I enjoy. I am fine with having conversations with people who are interested in the same things as me. In terms of physical appearance, I've got ginger hair (which I suppose by default makes me unattractive ) I'm, ooh, around about 5ft 8inches and am of a slim build. I wouldn't mind a girlfriend, and this site is good because the members will understand me and the way I think better than one full of neurotypicals. To talk to a girl about their experiences of AS would be fantastic, and this would be more important to me than physical appearance. It wouldn't be that tragic if I didn't find anybody, though. I just think, hey, if it happens, it happens.