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Janissy
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10 Aug 2009, 11:03 am

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It would certainly explain why you are stuck in the friend zone. What is companionship without a sexual vibe? Friendship. So when you do match up, the woman will most likely be low libido. There are many, many low libido women out there. This is very do-able.


It's not that I have a low libido. Far from it. What I do see alot in the folks around me, however, is sex destroying relationships... perfectly fine relationships that start going down the tubes when the couple involved start having sex... I don't want to finally succeed only to have the relationship fail right then and there because we ended up rushing into sex... The sexual needs I can fulfill myself, but the emotional needs I absolutely need someone else...

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Then probably a "wait until marriage" woman would be right for you. Again, seems do-able. These days, "wait until marriage" is a liability for a woman since a lot of men don't want to make that committment until they've "tried the ride". Or have no patience and don't want to make that committment at all. So she's out there and she's been picked up and dropped like a hot rock after she wouldn't put out. You would be refreshing.



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10 Aug 2009, 11:09 am

Janissy wrote:
Then probably a "wait until marriage" woman would be right for you. Again, seems do-able. These days, "wait until marriage" is a liability for a woman since a lot of men don't want to make that committment until they've "tried the ride". Or have no patience and don't want to make that committment at all. So she's out there and she's been picked up and dropped like a hot rock after she wouldn't put out. You would be refreshing.


I'm not necessarily a "Wait until marriage" person either... I'm more of a "wait until we know that the relationship can actually handle it without going to s**t" kind of person... Whether that point comes before or after marriage is left to be seen...

In any case, however, I would never dump anyone that wouldn't "put out", as it were... at least sexually, that is... if she's not willing to express any affection for me, I would drop her really fast, since that is what I need...