What Do You Like About Women?

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I don't think it would quite be possible for me to answer the question directly. It might be easier for me to describe what I don't like about men instead, for example. Perhaps instead I will describe what I like about several of the girls I like at work individually...

There's the little girl that tickled my back as she said goodbye on the way out of work - I didn't expect that, but it made me happy that she did that, as I rather like her. She's new on her first job, and I helped train her. I think that from a purely physical standpoint I would normally prefer a taller, somewhat larger girl. But there's something about they way this girl just seems to enjoy everything she does - I love the way she smiles occasionally as she concentrates, she seems to really enjoy learning something new, too. She seems very self-motivated and she catches onto things quickly, but she doesn't talk very much, so I find it difficult to tell how smart she really is.

There's the woman who was my assistant on the project I worked on last year. She's a single mother, and I take it she's seen her share of rough times growing up, but she's only mentioned it in the most indirect way on one or two occasions, and only as a way of saying that something positive came out of it in the end. She's a very hard worker, maybe not the smartest girl I'm working with but she more than makes up for it by focusing on things, studying hard, and being very, very thorough. She is always extremely calm, and I really admire her dedication and responsibility. She thinks the world of her son; I've met the little boy, and he's extremely polite, quiet, and well-behaved. I think she'd be a great wife and mother - I can't help thinking the guy she left behind must be kicking himself for losing her, if he realizes at all exactly who he let get away from him.

The supervisor over a project in my building is a very tall, athletic woman. Another single mother, too - for some reason, I like them a lot. I think I usually go for the quiet girls, but she's rather loud, and for some reason, that's alright with me. She's also rather blunt, something I never expected to appeal to me. She seems rather independent, and she seems to think the world of her little daughters. She has put in an amazing amount of overtime on the job, is clearly very tired, but I've never seen her get mad or anything.

There's the girl I had struck up a random conversation with - another tall girl, but she's rather thin and graceful, quiet, and somewhat depressed-looking. But when she smiles, it's one of the prettiest smiles I've ever seen; I've barely seen her the last three days, but today she walked behind me while I was distracted, touched my shoulder, smiled, and said maybe a half-dozen words, but it was like sunshine. She's another single mother... "single mommy" is the way she put it, and I take it she's making some big sacrifices for her little daughter, as she can barely afford to make ends meet, and doesn't know anyone in this area as she recently moved here. There's something vaguely child-like about her, but I can't put my finger on it; that's something that doesn't normally appeal to me, but she otherwise seems so responsible and patient, I'm alright with that. She's so quiet and insulated most of the time, she seems rather hard to approach, but it's like that smile: whenever she warms up, it's worth the trouble, and I'm surprised how easy it is to connect to her.

One of the new women I helped train a couple weeks ago is extremely shy and almost fragile-looking; fragility doesn't normally appeal to me, but it works in her case for some reason. The poor thing doesn't smile very much, and seems somewhat pessimistic, but she seems fairly stable and predictable, even somewhat boring - I don't know why, but that appeals to me in general. My experience while training her is that she doesn't feel confident with something until she's tried it over and over and over - I think I like her attachment to safety, security, and predictability.

I could go on, but I guess I've beaten my point to death already: these ladies are all very different and I like them all for different reasons. They have nothing in common as far as physical appearance goes except that they're female (different skin tones and hair colours, different body and face shapes, different heights and weights, and so on.) However, I guess there are some common themes running through my descriptions anyway: predictability, reliability, stability, hard work, intelligence, patience, gentleness, quietness, optimism, fairness, support, independence, self-motivation, reliability, self-reliance, curiosity, playfulness, and shyness.

And yes, I've got a crush on about a dozen girls at the same time, and I wish it were possible for me to make them all happy in their own way at the same time, full time. (I know, I'm pitiful and disgusting that way I've got to resist a creepy but powerful urge to just collect them all....)