30 Sep 2009, 10:01 am
anna-banana wrote:
mitharatowen wrote:
Regardless of sexist or no, I find LePetitePrince's comment to be offensive because he implies that attractive people should not "need" online dating. As if people with other alternatives wouldn't be looking online. It also carries the connotation that perhaps he doubts the OP's claim to be "not horrible looking."
I had a conversation with LPP about this once. I said it would be cool to have a sexlife without the burden of a relationship but finding dates is not as easy as he believes. you know what his advice was? "try becoming a sex worker". did I take offense? no - because that's just LPP. he makes logical conclusions even if they might seem brutal, but it would be even more brutal to expect him to adhere to social rules in a relaxed conversation. this forum is getting unfriendly to people with social difficulties because of the wishy-washiness and expecting people to be super considerate
Btw, keep in mind that I would be your first client if you apply my advice
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