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08 Feb 2010, 2:41 pm

Vyn wrote:
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raisedbyignorance wrote:
Do these if you're a female who wants to repel off men:

Wear makeup - [b]especially if you have freckles,[/b] if you can make yourself look slu*ty that's even better

Get a boob job! :lol:

Wear a leather jacket...something that will make you look rough and messy

Act like a dumb bimbo in his presence



It seems I'm doing a lot of these! D:


There's a difference between makeup and massive overappliance of makeup to make yourself look like a hooker. And there's quite a few different kinds of leather jackets lol


Well, I don't think I put on a hookerish amount. XD And hopefully my jacket is a non-rough/messy one. XD



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08 Feb 2010, 4:44 pm

raisedbyignorance wrote:
Vyn wrote:
Spazzergasm wrote:
raisedbyignorance wrote:
Do these if you're a female who wants to repel off men:

Wear makeup - [b]especially if you have freckles,[/b] if you can make yourself look slu*ty that's even better

Get a boob job! :lol:

Wear a leather jacket...something that will make you look rough and messy

Act like a dumb bimbo in his presence



It seems I'm doing a lot of these! D:


There's a difference between makeup and massive overappliance of makeup to make yourself look like a hooker. And there's quite a few different kinds of leather jackets lol


It's creepy but for some reason, I am attracting alot of guys without wearing any makeup at all. I have alot of freckles and apparently it's considered an attractive feature these days. I'm getting super sick of boys being attracted to me for this. They say it makes me look cute and I'm sick of it. I'd rather look like a slut and scare a majority of potential suitors away then to wear no makeup and be completely swarmed and harrass by men everyday. That is just me though :P


Looking like a slut won't scare the majority away, it'll only scare away the even halfway decent ones and attract the worst out of the lot. Including those ones that think "no means yes."

All in all that's a bad idea. I would go back to an earlier post of mine on page 3 or 4 I think having to do more with attitude than superficial appearance in order to intimidate people away.


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08 Feb 2010, 10:56 pm

just being myself was enough back in teh day.

I am uncertain now.



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08 Feb 2010, 11:03 pm

say you have aspergers. and then mention it is on the autism spectrum.



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09 Feb 2010, 1:40 am

(Stole this from Freakazoid)

Wear a black trench coat, walk with your head down, approach someone on the street from the back, and say in a whisper, "Want to see something strange and mystical"? It works every time!



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09 Feb 2010, 2:16 am

The best way to deter people from liking you is to be yourself. Most people like people who are most like themselves. Be an individual! Be yourself and there's a fair chance they won't like you.



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09 Feb 2010, 1:50 pm

This.

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I win! :lol:


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09 Feb 2010, 3:26 pm

pat2rome wrote:
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I win! :lol:
I lol'ed... 8O


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10 Feb 2010, 7:24 pm

Sorry for taking an unnecessarily didactic and serious tone here but after reading some of the posts I gotta say...

Believe the nonsense pessimistic magazine writers spew about men or women.


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10 Feb 2010, 8:21 pm

Darkword wrote:
Sorry for taking an unnecessarily didactic and serious tone here but after reading some of the posts I gotta say...

Believe the nonsense pessimistic magazine writers spew about men or women.


Dude... that might be going a bit far, you don't want her to get arrested...
:lol:


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10 Feb 2010, 10:07 pm

If you watch 2.5 Men, you could always use that.

"You're right, I DO have some crazy stories. I'll tell you about the time I threw up on someone's baby... i was at this coffee shop trying to patch things up with my fiance again... man, i was sooo drunk..."

If they haven't started running by then, break out the mace.


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10 Feb 2010, 10:49 pm

I have to say "build a bridge, and get over it!"

Just be yourself, and if god forbid someone should show you a little attention, just be grateful, smile, and say that your not interested, sorry. Its really not that hard.

No need for all the bull making yourself smelly, ugly etc all you do is alienate yourself from the rest of the world, piss everyone off, not just the guys.

You may not see the point in i now, but there will come a time when you will see the benefits of interacting appropriately with the world. people have this issue world over, so just be flattered and work out nice ways to deal with the attention.Who knows, you may meet someone who will bring you many benefits, why throw that away.