Valentine's Day is coming around again and...

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Waaaaaait a second. Valentines day is a useless christian design to celebrate a murderer (lol@romantic implications there) who hit on a 9 y/o girl.

Halloween though, now that's formerly a pagan holiday to celebrate the dead. In other words, it's awesome. All Hallows Eve is a great holiday and Halloween is as well. Completely different things, but that's good imo.

Also Ricky5, not all virgins are whiners or have any intention of using a woman or buying the services of one. There are a few of them that can manage to live just fine without sex and aren't asexual either. Rare, but they do exist.

While that may be true for some people, it isn't for all. My mom and dad are still best friends after being married for 26 years.

Also wtf does marriage have to do with it? You don't have to marry someone just because you love them this isn't the 1900s. There are people that're in relationships but aren't necessarily married. Maybe you should take a lesson from gay people to learn that.

I wasn't saying that all virgins are whiners. Just going off of my own experiences. Many of the ones I've bumped into have a very misguided view of relationships that will not help them in the long run.

Personally, I'd rather tell the right girl that I still possess said v-card than tell her I lost it to a hooker, or even just lose it to a hooker beforehand at all...



To be honest, it looks like you are the one that has a misguided view of relationships. Well, okay, probably not misguided, but you're looking for something a little more baseline physical out of it, which is perfectly fine; you just need to find a woman looking for the same thing. But for me, I'm looking for that deep emotional connection more than any physical thing (which is why sex isn't at the top of my list)

If you tell her you are a virgin, she will subconsciously think less of you. That's PickUp 101.

Have you ever experienced that "deep emotional connection"? Or is it just something that you have an idealized vision of?

Well at least I know what kind of person you are based on this little comment...

Nuff said.

Passive-aggressive much?

But all kidding aside, I don't want the original poster to spend so many of his years being all mopey and whiny about being a lonely virgin. That's what it boils down to.

Only if it's just sex that you're after. Which, as you said "pickup 101", I'm assuming you are. Not saying that's wrong or anything, just realize that not all guys are in it for just sex...


Yes, I have. The relationship itself didn't work out (she had attachment anxiety), but the connection I felt was quite deep and quite emotional. In fact, we still share that kind of connection today, just not in a romantic context anymore. I know that probably sounds alien to you to be involved in an ex-girlfriend's life, but when you start thinking about women in terms other than purely sexual ones, you'll realize how much more a woman can mean to you...

Correct me if I'm wrong, but having emotional feelings for someone is meant to make sex better too, isn't it?

I kinda hate Halloween more than I do Valentine's

Halloween has become such as a party holiday that I feel even more depressed when I dont have Halloween parties to go to.

Now Valentine's Day doesnt really bother me cuz there's no social obligation to go out. Not everyone is gonna go out or do things on Valentine's Day so it's more relaxed. Plus these days you might as look at Valentine's Day along the lines of other days like "Mother's Day", "Father's Day", or even "Veteran's Day". It's not gonna kill you to get up on those days if you dont have a reason to celebrate them.

My boyfriend lost his virginity with me when he was 26 and it was very beautiful and special and full of love, Im very glad it was with me and it makes me feel very lucky and makes me feel closer to him.

I Wear Black Forever.

And you have a witch makes you a....

Not if she's intelligent at all! I'd prefer a virgin- one who's saved it. Not saying every girl is like that. But she certainly won't "think less of you".

I've experienced the deep emotional thing.

Btw, I dunno if you were responding to someone specifically, so sorry if I butted in here. XD

I'm not in it 100% for the sex...I just want to be able to have the ability to make friends of the opposite gender...yeah sex would be great but I just want a friend...someone I can talk to, have fun with that's a girl....I just don't get it that's all because even though I haven't been diagnosed with it yet, im positive I have Asperger's (even description about it fits me to a T.) So I just need to figure it out, with some help...should I see a Shrink...I'm a nervous wreck all the time, I feel depressed and lazy to do anything, I'm really pessimistic but I believe I have every reason to be...

I couldn't stand high school and couldn't wait till it was over in thinking things would get better...I had a 92 GPA but still got denied enrollment in my state college (which I dreamt about staying when I visited)...I still can't find a job, I'm not even exaggerating, I have been to over 50 places around the area I live in...it's the same thing all the time, it's like everyone has a picture of me that says "BEWARE...DON'T HIRE THIS KID." Then I never catch any breaks when I do things, like bowling. I have 7 299 games...what has happened 6 of the 7 times...perfect shot but I get robbed. Then I went one day with my friends to the casino to play poker. I'm pretty good, but the run of bad luck I have is absurd. To simplify my luck playing cards, I'll just say %...I was 92% to win a hand with 1 card left to come...my opponent could have only gotten 3 cards in the deck to beat me and guess what...I just don't get any breaks or have any luck...and I know people say you make your own luck. Well I try my hardest in anything I do and it still doesn't do s**t in the end for me...so why bother going to community college when you won't get hired, or why try to be outgoing when you know it will never work out for you. I'm not suicidal at all and would never kill myself...but I just wonder what should keep my going at this point...the only thing I can think of is I'm already at the bottom of the bottle and things can only go up...but it seems like the bottom never ends.

How did you figure out I am a Wizard???

Who told you??