My point is that big, muscular, gym addict type of men are more capable than someone like myself who's 6 ft and 170 and has never had any kind of physical violent outburst in his life.
And I'm not going to stereotype and say all muscular/body builder types are crazy psychos...but there is a pattern. When I found out my cousin was getting beat up and cheated on by her husband (a wannabe cop type) it didn't surprise me. The minute I saw him I said to my brother "That guy's trouble." It goes beyond being big. It's a vibe.
The funny thing is, I can smell a crazy psychotic alpha guy a mile away...yet women can't see it and are surprised when it happens.
However, I don't think in any way they're getting what they deserve. No one deserves that. I do think, though, that they should go with logic over emotions and lust.