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01 Dec 2010, 8:05 pm

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I've read some of the topics posted on this part of the site and it seems that most hot women in the US are skanks, are stuck up, have bad attitudes, are snobby, mostly look for the most handsome but empty headed guy etc..... I guess you understand what I'm trying to say. Another thing I've seen on the forums is that some aspies long for hot women and some posters reply, saying average looking guys with aspergers cannot get those hot women and should move on to something else. When I read all that, I wanted to post that they shouldn't give up so easily that if they wanted they could really get those women. But then I realized that I don't live in America, I live somewhere else and that women are different depending on the continent/country where you live.
I want to mention that I live in Europe and I don't want to generalize because that would be wrong, but the super hot girls that I know personally or that I've encountered in my country are actually very nice to everyone, even nerds or any other kind of people. I also know some hot girls that actually date ugly guys. This doesn't only apply to women but also to men, most people that I encounter are usually nice and not stuck up. But I digress, Like I said, women here actually seem to be smart and not only go for looks but mostly for personality and other stuff, they actually go for regular kind of guys.

I guess what I want to say is, obviously this is an American site so most posters here are from The US but there are also posters from other countries where life might be completely different and where people behave differently so I wouldn't generalize to much and say all persons are the same.
I also want to mention that I'm not discriminating US girls or citizens in general, I'm not someone who discriminates people. It's just a feeling that I had, after all I don't live in the US so I don't know everything about people that live there, and I know that not all people in the US are the same.


"Skank: a slang term for a promiscuous person, usually a woman (low sexual morals)"

I do not think you can make the judgement that most hot women in the US are skanks. I have heard that Europe is actually more sexually liberal than the US.


Yeah probably should have looked the word up before I typed it.



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01 Dec 2010, 8:08 pm

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Heres my opinion on this thread:

Bla bla f***ing bla I read the first couple of sentences and it was enough. Why don't you people find some hobbies or something?


Unfortunately I didn't have anything else to do at that time so I thought I would make a topic about something that intrigued me.



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01 Dec 2010, 8:10 pm

What bothers me are he generalisations. Its not different in America, its the same everywhere. Its to do with idividuals personalities, and exotic appeal of others.



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01 Dec 2010, 8:15 pm

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What bothers me are he generalisations. Its not different in America, its the same everywhere. Its to do with idividuals personalities, and exotic appeal of others.


It's not the same everywhere, it's obvious it differs in each country. And yes it has to do with individual personalities I understand that, it's just that some countries are more prone to have these kinds of people.



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01 Dec 2010, 8:18 pm

kruger4 wrote:
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Heres my opinion on this thread:

Bla bla f***ing bla I read the first couple of sentences and it was enough. Why don't you people find some hobbies or something?


Unfortunately I didn't have anything else to do at that time so I thought I would make a topic about something that intrigued me.


I also fail to believe most men here who harbor such convictions as yours about "hot" women, have actually interacted with a "hot" woman because they are so intimidated by their own (mis)perceptions and social awkwardness. I postulate that it's some of the men here who have never given "hot" women a chance.

I would also like to point out that some "hot" women are stuck up, but it usually has nothing to do with thinking they are better than anyone, and more to do with past experiences at being harassed by men they were friendly to in the past, who took that friendlyness as them being interested in dating them or having sex with them, and then became hostile when it did not pan out they way they had expected.

And remember, it's much easier for a woman to get pegged as cold or stuck up than a man, because people expect women to be overtly warm and friendly. This has been addressed in previous topics.



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01 Dec 2010, 8:19 pm

kruger4 wrote:
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What bothers me are he generalisations. Its not different in America, its the same everywhere. Its to do with idividuals personalities, and exotic appeal of others.


It's not the same everywhere, it's obvious it differs in each country. And yes it has to do with individual personalities I understand that, it's just that some countries are more prone to have these kinds of people.


Maybe. But you will likely find if you are born into a white western country, you will feel that way about it. There was a guy on here earlier saying how Australian women are stuck up snobs.

NZ guys think the same of NZ women. English guys bitching about english women, you get the picture.



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01 Dec 2010, 8:27 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
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What bothers me are he generalisations. Its not different in America, its the same everywhere. Its to do with idividuals personalities, and exotic appeal of others.


It's not the same everywhere, it's obvious it differs in each country. And yes it has to do with individual personalities I understand that, it's just that some countries are more prone to have these kinds of people.


Maybe. But you will likely find if you are born into a white western country, you will feel that way about it. There was a guy on here earlier saying how Australian women are stuck up snobs.

NZ guys think the same of NZ women. English guys bitching about english women, you get the picture.


Well like I said, I actually like the women in my country, they're mostly nice even the beautiful women. I also have never been to America so I don't know how it is there, it's just that I felt it was this way by looking through the forum.



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01 Dec 2010, 8:29 pm

I guess the moral of the story is:

Until you've actually met people and actually gotten to know them, you really shouldn't make any kind of conclusions about them.



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01 Dec 2010, 8:29 pm

kruger4 wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
kruger4 wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
What bothers me are he generalisations. Its not different in America, its the same everywhere. Its to do with idividuals personalities, and exotic appeal of others.


It's not the same everywhere, it's obvious it differs in each country. And yes it has to do with individual personalities I understand that, it's just that some countries are more prone to have these kinds of people.


Maybe. But you will likely find if you are born into a white western country, you will feel that way about it. There was a guy on here earlier saying how Australian women are stuck up snobs.

NZ guys think the same of NZ women. English guys bitching about english women, you get the picture.


Well like I said, I actually like the women in my country, they're mostly nice even the beautiful women. I also have never been to America so I don't know how it is there, it's just that I felt it was this way by looking through the forum.


Just a piece of advice. Take everything thats said in here with a grain of salt. You have no idea what these men act like in real life, they could be more of the problem. You don't know if what they are saying is true or even semi true, with the abilities of a rejected or over-sensitive person to twist things in their favour of sympathy to the point of time curving over on itsself.



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01 Dec 2010, 8:30 pm

Chronos wrote:
kruger4 wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Heres my opinion on this thread:

Bla bla f***ing bla I read the first couple of sentences and it was enough. Why don't you people find some hobbies or something?


Unfortunately I didn't have anything else to do at that time so I thought I would make a topic about something that intrigued me.


I also fail to believe most men here who harbor such convictions as yours about "hot" women, have probably never actually interacted with a "hot" woman because they are so intimidated by their own (mis)perceptions and social awkwardness. I postulate that it's some of the men here who have never given "hot" women a chance.

I would also like to point out that some "hot" women are stuck up, but it usually has nothing to do with thinking they are better than anyone, and more to do with past experiences at being harassed by men they were friendly to in the past, who took that friendlyness as them being interested in dating them or having sex with them, and then became hostile when it did not pan out they way they had expected.

And remember, it's much easier for a woman to get pegged as cold or stuck up than a man, because people expect women to be overtly warm and friendly. This has been addressed in previous topics.


I have interacted with "hot" women and have many male friends who have and have experienced the same thing. Anyone who isn't in their direct social circle or can benefit them in some way is less than human to them.

And like I said, there's a difference between hot and attractive/beautiful/pretty. When I refer to hot, I'm talking about the diva types or the types that are escorts or strippers, not just any attractive or beautiful woman. Or the one in high school that everyone wanted.

The perfect example is the Mena Suvari character in American Beauty...and the way she treated her own friend even (Kevin Spacey's daughter)...those are the women I'm talking about.

I don't hate women, or have sour grapes. I dated a girl that was very pretty...an 8 on the 10 scale to most guys who saw her (and a 10 to me, which is all that matters)...but she wasn't that type of woman...she was more girl next door/down to earth. She knew she could get guys, but didn't have that air of superiority since she didn't grow up with a sense of entitlement.



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01 Dec 2010, 8:32 pm

Well, it's interesting to note that the type of guys that complain about women being stuck up probably don't get any action to begin with. That's usually how it is for everything. Most NBA starters don't complain about playing time, etc.

And I also find it interesting that everyone just ignored what I wrote and went right to the arguing. I think I summed it up pretty nicely, given my general lack of knowledge on women from other parts of the world. Just like with politics and religion, people like to argue about things such as this. Maybe this is a form of philosophy?



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01 Dec 2010, 8:33 pm

Does anyone notice HOt men acting the same? Or are you all too blind of your own gender obsessing over women?



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01 Dec 2010, 8:35 pm

Yeah, I wrote that on the first page hale bopp. Stuck up men go for stuck up women. That's how attraction works. You can't date someone that is stuck up and then turn around and say there is a bright line separating you from that other person.



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01 Dec 2010, 8:36 pm

@nilescrane - the way your posts reduce everybody, men and women alike, to either looks or/and ability to make money says a lot about you, not them.


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01 Dec 2010, 8:48 pm

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Yeah, I wrote that on the first page hale bopp. Stuck up men go for stuck up women. That's how attraction works. You can't date someone that is stuck up and then turn around and say there is a bright line separating you from that other person.


Exactly. I never said men were perfect either. There are websites dedicated to men getting casual sex with said women, or trying to become the stuck up hot guy.

I just enjoy talking about this stuff. It interests me.



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01 Dec 2010, 8:50 pm

And also sallamandria, you obviously ignored the parts where I said less-than-ideal looking men can win over a woman better looking than them with a social, outgoing, fun personality.