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03 Mar 2011, 6:41 pm

Deal! I also might get hold of a recipe for green cookies too...

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03 Mar 2011, 6:49 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

It's a deal then.

01001011---> the owner

Me-->the GM

zen_mistress--> the cake cook.

Jono--> the evil genius.

Grisha ---> the "caretaker".

jamieboy ---> the office boy

the "caretaker"?

I get the idea of some crazy loner who lives in a shack somewhere...

It's perfect!

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04 Mar 2011, 2:00 am

I don't know if I'm *completely* undateable, but taking RL into account ONLY, it sure looks that way.

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04 Mar 2011, 8:15 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

You're not undatable, you're just anti-dating. Huge difference.

Undatable means

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Well, there are some guys here who I believe are undatable (or at least cannot be sexually attractive to girls).

Looking at a few of the pictures of a few members in this forum, some guys are really not so good looking and have horrible poses and facial expressions and the mindset is probably so damaged that it can't change for the better (thus no improvement in appearance and character). No girl is going to fall in love with that.

^ this + what I said before here.

The two are not mutually exclusive. I comfortably fit into your criteria and you have not looked at my photo

But my character is much worse than my physical unattractiveness. I am socially isolated and I am not compatible with ordinary people. IRL I never talk socially to any girl in depth. I cannot imagine how a relation is like and I don't think there is anything I can offer.

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04 Mar 2011, 8:22 am

lotusblossom wrote:

I think it would be hard to date someone if you dont like to compromise on doing things the other person likes but I think there probably are a few women who share your tastes.

Precisely I don't see the point of changing JUST BECAUSE it makes finding a date easier. That is putting the cart before the horse.

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I dont understand why you want to call it undateable if you think not getting a date is a positive thing, why not the happy single club?

IMO 'undatable' has more humor in it.

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04 Mar 2011, 8:33 am

Member list:

01001011
The_Face_of_Boo
zen_mistress
Jono
Grisha
jamieboy

How about we have a motto for our club? Say

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If nobody wants us to join their game, start our own.

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04 Mar 2011, 8:47 am

01001011 wrote:

lotusblossom wrote:

I think it would be hard to date someone if you dont like to compromise on doing things the other person likes but I think there probably are a few women who share your tastes.

Precisely I don't see the point of changing JUST BECAUSE it makes finding a date easier. That is putting the cart before the horse.

I didnt mean changeing I meant compromising, for example I am slightly similar to you and would not choose to spend time on my own listening to music or watching films or TV, however I am able to tollerate doing these things when a boyfriend is visiting as I get pleasure from makeing him happy. Likewise my ex bf did not really like looking at dresses, but was able to tollerate occasionally looking at dresses when we had to go shopping and other similar mild sacrifices. I think its hard for anyone to meet someone who has exactly the same tastes, but people can take turns in doing the thing they like one day and the thing the other person likes another day. That is not changeing and making you like different things, that is just putting up with a little bit of discomfort for the sake of the over all relationship.

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04 Mar 2011, 1:34 pm

01001011 wrote:

Member list:

01001011
The_Face_of_Boo
zen_mistress
Jono
Grisha
jamieboy

How about we have a motto for our club? Say

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If nobody wants us to join their game, start our own.

"Because we refuse to be called Losers"

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04 Mar 2011, 1:35 pm

Grisha wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

It's a deal then.

01001011---> the owner

Me-->the GM

zen_mistress--> the cake cook.

Jono--> the evil genius.

Grisha ---> the "caretaker".

jamieboy ---> the office boy

the "caretaker"?

I get the idea of some crazy loner who lives in a shack somewhere...

It's perfect!

It's also a play by Harold Pinter I believe

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04 Mar 2011, 1:36 pm

Grisha wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

It's a deal then.

01001011---> the owner

Me-->the GM

zen_mistress--> the cake cook.

Jono--> the evil genius.

Grisha ---> the "caretaker".

jamieboy ---> the office boy

the "caretaker"?

I get the idea of some crazy loner who lives in a shack somewhere...

It's perfect!

Yea, you'll take care of the hea ...*ehem* , I mean , of the eggplants in the field.

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04 Mar 2011, 1:46 pm

Laz wrote:

Grisha wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

It's a deal then.

01001011---> the owner

Me-->the GM

zen_mistress--> the cake cook.

Jono--> the evil genius.

Grisha ---> the "caretaker".

jamieboy ---> the office boy

the "caretaker"?

I get the idea of some crazy loner who lives in a shack somewhere...

It's perfect!

It's also a play by Harold Pinter I believe

Haha nice bit of random information.

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04 Mar 2011, 2:01 pm

01001011 wrote:

TB wrote:

There are billions of females out there, it is just not true that nobody would date you. IT is more a matter of you not getting into contact with those females. Say you date a 100 females would every one of those not want to be with you ?, what if you date a 1000 ? would there still be no one that would want you?. Its all a matter of numbers. YOU know that there are people out there that would like you.

So please stop this undateable crap, you are worthy of being dated by someone out there AND YOU WELL KNOW IT.
Being unworthy of another person is a different thing then having the odds against you.

Chances are pretty bad for life happening but here we are. Billions of planets or billions of people its the same in that regard you only need one of them where all the conditions are right for it to happen.

Enough of this nonsense. On one hand you guys swear not to date a man like me
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt150508.html
On the other hand you there are some people who would date me and I should try to find one no matter how hard?

You may say that I should 'improve' myself and then find a date. That is just a wrong assumption from you - you are assuming a date is more important than everything. Why I (or any other club members) cannot be undatable AND happy????

In other words some random strangers on the internet try to help you to become more 'datable', and when you say you're giving up they tell you to keep trying! Yes that's terrible. :roll: