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^^ thats me spending some of my forty grands worth of welfare money. I expect it's volodjas time to start accumulating debt sometime soon. Good luck with that.

I'd rather we focus on the reality of the situation rather then be distracted by childish diversions of a passive-aggressive nature that indicates we are in the territory of uncomfortable conversations?

Because real men internalise all their problems and blame themselves for the s**t education they recieved, the s**t healthcare they didnt get and start DOING SOMETHING TO IMPROVE THEIR SITUATION. That something means assimilating to the society that failed them and jumping through hoops for it. Well counts me out! I've got balls, i'm not snivelling little bootlick.

so what do you want?
to be a princess on a pedastal while some poor woman goes and works her ass of for you to sit at home and do nothing?

You really think thats what aspies have done who have managed to gain some kind of success?

You haven't a clue jamieboy wake up and smell the coffee. Some of us have had to get where we are not because we "jump through hoops" or "assimilate" but because we actually had no choice in the matter.

I have dedicated my career and probably the rest of my life in my endevours IRL to helping other people who are marginalised and outcasts from societies through accident of birth or literally an "accident" that has rendered them to have disability.

I tell you something jamie please volunteer to work with people who have disabilities and actually see for yourself how people born with little or no expectations have managed to struggle and survive through life against all the adversity, prejudice and odds in order to attain basic things such as their own flat, a part time job at morrisons or even to have somewhere to go with friends to hang out with.

You have opportunities those people will never have and you have CHOSEN to spend your time on this god forsaken earth being a passive-aggressive man-child who wants to overindulge in self pity and remorse. I and others on this thread are giving you advise because you asked for it. If you choose not to listen if you feel somehow being an eternally emotionally ret*d man-child is your calling in life. You are welcome to it.

I am washing my hands of you and other aspies of your kin. I do not have time for people like you who think mocking those of us who you see as having trivial issues are going to just sit back and take this BS. I've had my share of blood sweat and tears and i'll be more then happy to share those experiances with you if you want my help. But i'm not going to offer that while you continue to show a complete lack of respect continuing to self sabotage and push away those trying to help.

I honestly wish you to suffer a nervous breakdown and to reach the full ebb the absolute bottom of the pit of existance and to build yourself up. You seem to be absolutely in love and fully embracing of suffering and I think if we take that away from you, god forbid all your joy in life might just as well dry up along with it. You might actually have no life of any meaning without suffering. So fine have it your way jamie continue your life of self isolation and we'll see you back here when you've reached the post-crisis point.

The discussion has ended Jamieboy.

Your childish rant at me just goes to prove my point further that your only interest in pursuing this is to passive-aggresive knock off and push away people and now your showing your true colours for all to see.

You don't care about those other aspies jamie your only concerned about yourself and your little cosmos. If you care so much for others then demonstrate that in your actions not your words. Your actions so far are more empty and vacant and lack credibility. You dismiss other peoples problems as trivial and you bring the conversation always back to you and solely you and your situation.

I wish you luck in your endevours. When you are able to move on from your current indulgence let us know how it all works out for you. In the mean time enjoy the suffering and the silence you are welcome to it.

I'm interested to know since your a real man and i am but a small child whether you'd ever have an ounce of soul and balls admit you're wrong about cutting people benefits when there's not enough work to go around. Thats what real men do. They admit their mistakes.

I might even give you a chance to act superior and hey isn't that just what you love to do!