What type of girl do you not want?

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Smoking
Excessive drinking
Not able to manage money
Someone who treats others badly or is going to flirt with others while in a relationship (unfaithfulness)
Someone who has no appreciation for money, or is unreasonably stubborn
Someone who would be quick to give up on a relationship and refuse to talk things over

Would prefer someone to have a nice personality and be easy to talk to and be fairly clever-Able to hold an intellectually stimulating conversation.

I suppose I could grow to like someone I got on well with, unless they smoked (it aggregates my asthma badly)

Someone who uses illegal drugs or steals

These all sound reasonable and aren't too much to ask. would want to be with someone who looks after their health

-Smokes

-Drinks alcohol in excess

-Uses street drugs

-Not accepting of my AS

-Racist

-Sexist

-Homophobic

-Uncaring/self centered

-Hates people because they are {insert other reason here}

-Does not have a job

-Anti social

-Unfaithful in a relationship

-Has a car

-Is not attractive

-Controlling

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someone who desn't accept me for who i am: who thinks i'm "nice but eccentric" and tells me "if only i was a bit more "socially motivated".
someone who doesn't accept the way they are (if they suspect they might be on the spectrum but don't want to be associated with it)
someone with no sense of humour

before i get criticism from female half of the population, please note that the undesirable traits herein are applicable to both genders.

If I don't think she's cute (FTR I think most young women are cute). I'd be a bit wary of asking her out if she behaved erratically, suggesting significant trouble with mental illness. If a girl who left me for someone else later asked me out, I imagine I would say no. That's about it.

Someone who is like my mother and my sister.

Un ugly girl who doesn't like cats and has bad hygiene

I don't want a girl made of plastic.

come to think of it, the reason i've been single all this time is because there are so many female traits i either 1/ don't like or 2/ like but don't feel i can compete with (i'm like this, i always compare myself to others and i can never accept my deficits)

come to think of it, the reason i've been single all this time is because there are so many female traits i either 1/ don't like or 2/ like but don't feel i can compete with (i'm like this, i always compare myself to others and i can never accept my deficits)

A girl who can keep up with me during sex

Right-wing conservative girls are not desirable.

-one who is "not a feminist" because she thinks it's unattractive
-one who thinks the hetero attention our PDA attracts is "cute" or in any way desirable
-one who treats make-up/clothes like shared property (make-up sharing can get really gross)
-one who thinks bi or pan women are fakers
...

hmm, can't think of a lot of partner flaws that are specifically feminine

I disagree. They are the only kind I would consider dating, so long as they are also Born Again Christians and not sexually active.

As for other non-desirable traits:

Substance abuse
Smoking
Serious mental health issues like paranoid schizophrenia
Narcissism
Fashion consciousness (negotiable)
Tattoos (negotiable for the right girl)
Piercings other than ears and navel (also negotiable)
Chaotic lifestyle
Poor communication (hinting rather than directly saying things)
Party girl
Selfishness

I would also prefer someone who does not drink under any circumstances (like me) but realize I may have to settle in this area. I also want someone who loves and desires to have children. An aspie with similar interests and severity as compared to me would be nice to find too but that's not a deal breaker.

I can't stand 'artificial' looking women so I find it hard to be able to deal with:
Tattoos (visible ones are an instant deal breaker)
Body piercing (earlobes excluded)
Excessive jewellery (more than one necklace or say three rings)
Artificial hair colors

As well the usual dislikes
Smoking/Drug use/Heavy drinker
Bad with children or no desire to have them
Unmotivated (unemployed is fine)
Commits criminal acts
High maintenance
Princess syndrome (wow this one is common)
Racist/homophobic/Nationalist
Someone who I would be ashamed to introduce to my mother
Extreme or rigid political or religious views
Morbidly Obese (overweight is fine)

I dislike this thread.