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WeatherFreak
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24 Apr 2011, 12:31 pm

I'm going to see how this plays out while keeping my options open!

I myself hate using the phone, prefer face to face and it takes a hell of alot of courage for me to talk to new people. But atleast i'll try and especially if it's a friend i'll answer it!



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25 Apr 2011, 3:06 am

WeatherFreak wrote:
I think i'll find someone else...

If she knew i was calling and told me " it was being charged ", but then telling me she hates talking on the phone, you can't go through life ignoring it...

I had asked a family member for advice on this from another woman basically :P, the signs were not good... Is she hiding something?, does she not want to talk in front of someone?, how long will she go through without talking to me on the phone?

I had an ex like that, would never talk on the phone found out she didn't like to talk incase she was drunk out of her head!


From my personal opinion, you know she hates talking on the phone but you still try to ring her? Why?
Maybe you better find someone else because you can't force people to talk on the phone.

I've known a lot of aspie guys who have done this to members of WP and other girls. It doens't work. My advice: STOP RINGING HER.

Send her a text message or internet message asking her if she wants to meet for a coffee.



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25 Apr 2011, 4:49 pm

WeatherFreak wrote:
Her reply

" it's ok i didn't take any offence, i just hate talking on the phone "

WeatherFreak wrote:
Talking on the phone i find is one of the hardest things for me, i hate talking on the phone

What is the problem?!? You sound perfect for each other...

I wish I could find someone who hates talking on the phone(!)



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25 Apr 2011, 7:03 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
WeatherFreak wrote:
I think i'll find someone else...

If she knew i was calling and told me " it was being charged ", but then telling me she hates talking on the phone, you can't go through life ignoring it...

I had asked a family member for advice on this from another woman basically :P, the signs were not good... Is she hiding something?, does she not want to talk in front of someone?, how long will she go through without talking to me on the phone?

I had an ex like that, would never talk on the phone found out she didn't like to talk incase she was drunk out of her head!


From my personal opinion, you know she hates talking on the phone but you still try to ring her? Why?
Maybe you better find someone else because you can't force people to talk on the phone.

I've known a lot of aspie guys who have done this to members of WP and other girls. It doens't work. My advice: STOP RINGING HER.

Send her a text message or internet message asking her if she wants to meet for a coffee.


WRONG!! !! !! !! !

She told me AFTER i rang her, thus i stopped

Anyway this thread is done as i'm going to look for someone else

Oh and RainingRoses, yes i do but atleast i still use the thing ;)

This thread is done and will no longer be replied to by myself :roll:



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25 Apr 2011, 7:17 pm

I'm getting confused. By the timely manner of the posts in here I was under the impression you tried to ring her again after she told you she didn't like phones.