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20 May 2011, 10:56 pm

dionysian wrote:
I don't think the "friend zone" would exist if the ladies really wanted to sleep with all their guy friends, deep down inside somewhere. We'd be hearing about it from the ladies, if it were true. As a group, they're very good at letting us know what's going on.


Yes, I totally agree. That's why if I found a woman who had this desire deep down inside her, I think I would realize it rather quickly, and would consider her VERY special (in a good way, of course).



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21 May 2011, 1:01 am

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Someone could fall for you at first sight.


Yes, but I think Toad's point is that the girl will get tired of waiting for him to make a move before Toad feels any romantic attraction towards her.


No she wouldn't, she would just think "Look at that hottie." and then jump him.

If a woman thought my fat unemployed ass was hot, i'd be running away. Because you have to be certifiably insane to think i'm hot...


Certifiably insane could be fun though.

And Toad, it's actually fairly awesome that you tend to have to know a girl for a while before the rest of you is sure if she attracts you. Fellas who lack discipline and get led around by the, ahem... "battle bridge"... usually encounter really uncomfortable situations regularly.



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21 May 2011, 5:31 pm

Shai-hulud wrote:
Well, my girlfriend and I were in the "friend zone" for four years before we got together, if that means anything to you.


That does give me some hope, thanks. :)

I have definitely been in the position of feeling for a girl, and never being able to get it past a friendship level. I have female friends, but never have had a relationship, in my life.

Did you date other people in the meantime, or did you pine away for her for four years, if you don't mind me asking? I have known my friend for two and a half years, and I just know I'm in the 'friend zone'. She sees me as just a friend.