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16 Dec 2011, 8:09 pm

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Girls don't have types. They just need to feel safe in as large a world as possible.

I think you may have just won "The Most Sexist Thing Said Today" award.

Congratulations. It's engraved and everything.

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16 Dec 2011, 8:17 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

fraac wrote:

Girls don't have types. They just need to feel safe in as large a world as possible.

I think you may have just won "The Most Sexist Thing Said Today" award.

Congratulations. It's engraved and everything.

Saying that girls have 'types' is sexist. They're people. If you can make them feel safe, and connect them with as large a world as possible, they'll love you.

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16 Dec 2011, 8:22 pm

fraac wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

fraac wrote:

Girls don't have types. They just need to feel safe in as large a world as possible.

I think you may have just won "The Most Sexist Thing Said Today" award.

Congratulations. It's engraved and everything.

Saying that girls have 'types' is sexist. They're people. If you can make them feel safe, and connect them with as large a world as possible, they'll love you.

Interesting! I really had no idea what you meant by that statement. Thank you for expanding on it.

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16 Dec 2011, 8:25 pm

fraac wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

fraac wrote:

Girls don't have types. They just need to feel safe in as large a world as possible.

I think you may have just won "The Most Sexist Thing Said Today" award.

Congratulations. It's engraved and everything.

Saying that girls have 'types' is sexist. They're people. If you can make them feel safe, and connect them with as large a world as possible, they'll love you.

Sexist comment expanded. Thank you.

Women often have types. Not all of us will fall for someone that makes us feel safe, either. :roll:

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16 Dec 2011, 8:32 pm

Types for casual sex preference maybe. If you're saying a woman couldn't fall for anyone, you're badly underestimating them.

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16 Dec 2011, 8:41 pm

Well, now that we're at it, I always thought men are those who are more likely to fall for anyone. But any generalization of this kind is bad.

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16 Dec 2011, 9:13 pm

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Types for casual sex preference maybe. If you're saying a woman couldn't fall for anyone, you're badly underestimating them.

Jesus f**k tits, man! You're talking *to* a woman! I do know enough about myself to know you have no idea what you're talking about.

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16 Dec 2011, 9:15 pm

If you ARE a woman then you must be the definitive authority on woman! Obviously! I find your ideas sexist and not representative of the wider female experience, tbh.

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16 Dec 2011, 9:26 pm

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If you ARE a woman then you must be the definitive authority on woman! Obviously! I find your ideas sexist and not representative of the wider female experience, tbh.

Nice way of avoiding what I'm saying. Keep turning it on me. It amuses me.

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16 Dec 2011, 9:30 pm

fraac wrote:

If you ARE a woman then you must be the definitive authority on woman! Obviously! I find your ideas sexist and not representative of the wider female experience, tbh.

This is an aspie forum and your unlikely to find mainstream female ideals here. So in light of that Tea's ideas are quite representational and more often than not spot on.

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16 Dec 2011, 9:36 pm

I haven't known any aspie women. NT women, the good ones anyway, are open to anything. If you aren't connecting with her it won't be because you aren't her type, it'll be personal because you aren't on the same level.

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16 Dec 2011, 10:17 pm

curlyfry wrote:

Tea's ideas are quite representational and more often than not spot on.

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16 Dec 2011, 10:18 pm

It occurs to me that one woman is far more representational of the whole 3.5 billion than one man who opines about said 3.5 billion.

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16 Dec 2011, 10:27 pm

I find it hard to believe that aspie girls see things the same way as uncool NT girls.

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16 Dec 2011, 10:31 pm

What the hell is going on right now!?

Did I start a fight?

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16 Dec 2011, 10:53 pm

fraac wrote:

I find it hard to believe that aspie girls see things the same way as uncool NT girls.

I find it hard to believe billions of people with no more in common than sex confided their ways of thinking in a random, lone guy.

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