"Sweet" is now my least favorite word

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Ok guys, here some tips i learned to avoid to be viewed as 'sweet' and hence friendzoned:


1- Don't be too available: don't show up a lot to her, don't visit her daily, if you see her online go offline sometimes or just don't initiate conversation with her every time. Do not reply fast to her messages or texts.


2- Do not ever join any type of gossip talk with her and with her friends.

3- Sexual innuendos, use them in your humor.

4- Flirt with her.

5- Try to make her a bit jealous once in a while like "wow, that girl over there is really hot" , yea....TEASE her - it works. One time i kept my status 'busy' (and I was REALLY busy) not initiating anything with her and then after an hour she was like "so...with who you are busy all this time....busy with some girl?" - I was like "i wish it was the case" and then said "i might be now tho" and went not-replying for like 10minutes, she send me a text on the phone 'c'mon why aren't you replying? who's that girl taking your time?".


haha, when i said you should be a little ass, that what i mean.

hey, i am not changing for anyone, you should already know that I DO have a jerk side.

Problem is they getting they advice out of a magazines & or other friends or other things or been manipulated by they friends.

It goes against societys normal view of a male partner, is what it is. The stigma, the trouble couple. Thats why females say that line I posted early, because they taking the advice, rather than just giving someone a go, that the books are telling them to stay away from.

The ones who don't come under social engineering, are the ones who are not manipulated by external engineering. Does not matter what you say to them, they will form they own opinion.

Last edited by TechnoDog on 02 Apr 2012, 5:17 pm, edited 2 times in total.

^I've "friendzoned" guys for doing all those things, Boo. Except flirting, which I'm usually oblivious to, or the gossip thing, since I don't have friends.
Rating another woman's appearance while we're out together?

Yeah. Take me back home. Now, please.

women who are actually attracted to a**holes are so rare that they are not really a serious consideration.

No, i would never rate another woman with my date! this is a total lack of manner.

But i might doing it with a woman (once in a while) that i am desiring to date - big difference. It's a form of tease.

Last edited by The_Face_of_Boo on 02 Apr 2012, 5:31 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Seems to be the other way in this country, maybe its our binge drinking culture.

then most men must be a**holes.

(of course, that is not reasonable. most men are NOT a**holes, yet most men do go on dates. )

Yeah. Instant turnoff.

Well, you're asexual, so you wont' get this sexual-tension bullcrap games. I didn't get them myself before.... but only recently.

Last edited by The_Face_of_Boo on 02 Apr 2012, 5:34 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I must say females are now binge drinkers in this country.

I've friend zoned a few girls before. but its usualy because of a deal breaker like smoking or they raciest beliefs stuff like that.

And before it happens lets not turn this into a nice guys vs. jerks debate
it goes nowhere

I think saying too much of anything might be where the problem lies or maybe more precisely

too much of something happening too soon hence being "too sweet" or even "sweet" at all

that doesn't really have any bearing on whether the men they date are nice or sweet.

Face_Of_Boo, if a guy checks out other women when i am just getting to know him or dating him, i'm out of there. it's rude.

No, being asexual has nothing to do with my dislike for people who rate the looks of women on scales, and are so stupidly-insensitive as to share those ratings with other, insecure women in order to provoke a desperate, please-validate-me response. In fact, it's cruel.

Last edited by ValentineWiggin on 02 Apr 2012, 5:38 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I know quite a few guys who are a**holes in the company of other guys, but not in the company of girls.

that's an interesting point.