Roxas_XIII wrote:
...."Love isn't about finding the perfect person. It's about finding an imperfect person and learning to see them as they are, perfectly." This saying has really made an impression on me, because being able to see your partner's positive aspects while at the same time recognizing and acknowledging their faults while forgiving them at the same time, that is to me what a true relationship is about......
so you dont want to be in a true friendship with all the hurt and negative guys that hang around here whining all day? fair enough
I reckon its good karma to happily let them have their bleat, plus its good training for/if and when you want to have your own children......................
I got angry too, once or twice......hopefully [usually] only for effect..... A good parent [or friend] may give a nasty growl, (like the mods who have been extremely quiet lately.....) all the while smiling lovingly on the inside
Attacking the negative and hurt males, may possibly be a primordial response to improve your chances of mating with more women.....?? Kicking them when they are down?
Much like how some NT males bully and drive off aspies.... fearing they will taint the herd in some way with their **stuff**
Just trying to be a clear mirror on this one.... but I may be clouding the reality of things with my own **stuff**..... its what we all usually do
Last edited by Surfman on 29 Jul 2012, 11:23 pm, edited 1 time in total.