o.O Oh my gosh.

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I want some pictures, too! Please? I need it for my... uh... research on... uhhhh... Call of Duty clans.

I was bored and couldn't think of any productive way to respond.

And I can see why she would be interested in someone like that if that's all she's been used to dealing with.

She's not the threat, her clan is.

If her dad isn't involved that much, can't he say that he is the father to the daughter and that they'd have to accept that, or she can say that herself if she has the confidence to tell the clan that it's her choice and they have to accept it.

KKK and clan, cult has different meaning in the USA.

I'd do this next time, Tell her where you are not going, then see what she does when you don't show up.

Well, to get its Middle-eastern meaning, think of it as "House", like the House Harkonnen and House Atreides in the Dune series, or like the clans in ancient japan.

Alternatively, the other locals refer to the as the "Arabians", since clans are ethnically viewed here as direct 'true Arabs' since they're direct descendants of Arabian tribes versus the other locals who are descendants from mixed Arabian and non-Arabian Semitic groups (Canaanites, Phoenicians, Syriacs..etc), but are now all recognized (linguistically) as Arabs.

For instance, the rulers of Jordan are of clan/House of Hashim.

She's offering me an apartment, she's either totally crazy or playing some game.

The King of Jordan was staying at a resort a couple miles down the road from me a few years ago. He was touring Oregon on a motorcycle.

It's been a game from the very beginning... and it's too late to run now, isn't it?

She's nothing but trouble.

Her cousin texted me from her phone while pretending to be her and he was like "I was just testing you and you're like all guys, I do not allow any guy to touch me" then I was like "so you were fooling me all this time and just testing me?"
he asked "would you allow your sister to date and a such things" - I was like "she's adult enough (36)". He replied "then for what you're her brother, you have no honour".

Then I ringed her and a grown-up male voice yelled at me "I am gonna f**k your sister! I am gonna f**k your sister!" and closed, I got shocked. After a half-hour I found her on skype so I ringed her and she replied.

It was a trap.


Translated:

Me: "Wtf just happened? Why was your cousin using your phone?
Her: "I don't know, I just found him fiddling with my phone and started to ask me questions about you and me.
Me: "You're too careless, this wasn't the first time, first you borrow your phone to your brother, then the other time I find your little niece replying my text, and now this! Yet you always tell me to be very careful."
Her: *crying* I am the one in trouble now, not you, but maybe you should change your phone's nb.
Me: Everything ends here between us, I am gonna blocking everywhere, no more messages, no more texts, no more calls, nothing.
Her: ok, of course."


The stores were all closed due to the Pope's visit and there was no way to change my number but I did her everywhere but I couldn't block her phone number since the iphone has no such option.


Then her cousin called me again from his number this time. He threatened me and I was like "Calm down, I only saw your cousin once, there was nothing physical between us"

Him: "but you two were planning to! ! Your reply to me proves that" - and then he continued: "this is your corrupt Beirut environment, listen boy, here we do not allow anyone to date our girls, even Allah himself, do you understand that?".
Me: "Ok so be it, seem our values are too different but now I really don't want anything to do with her and your clan anymore, I am leaving your girl alone"
Him: "no, you''re gonna pay for the consequences either way"
Me: "Like how, gonna try to rape my sister like you threatened me first time?! I warn you if..."
Him: "No, you're going to come to us, with your family, and gonna expose you and it's gonna in a very ugly situation"
Me: " How? you will try to kidnap us?"
Him: "No, I am not of the Meqdad house, I abide by the law, and i am gonna use this against you.
Me: "Your first threat was against the law, you know that?"
Him" I was furious, but you're gonna pay for your doing legally!"
Me: "Why not to set up the meeting right now then and talk face to face then, legally?!"
Him: "I...I....... I do not want to see your face!! but I am telling, one day you're gonna be summoned by the law and it's gonna be an ugly lesson for you!!" /closed.


Honestly, I tried to be courageous as much as I can but the clan thing isn't a joke, I was bit afraid but a friend of mine (a wise older one) told me he's obviously a jealous pal with empty words and just wanting to scary me off, cousin-marriages are the norm in clans.



She re-called me again today! Telling me she's sorry for causing me any concerns and told me : "do not believe this animal!! Nor believe his threats because he knows nothing about you< I grabbed the phone before him knowing anything , he can't hurt you and he's all just a big mouth. He has been trying to propose me for long time and I keep refusing him , that's all"
Me: "It doesn't matter, you have been too careless, how comes your phone always falls in others' hands?? I no longer want anything to do with your family, including you, don't follow me anymore"
Her: "I am sorry... but worry not, he doesn't dare to tell anyone because it will cause a shame to the family and to me and he won't be able to marry me anymore, this is the last thing he wants"
Me: "I care not, I told you everything ends here.
Her: "ok, I understand, I want this too".


Installed iBlacklist today and blocked all the unwanted numbers

I can't believe how careless she was but I am starting to believe she was being careless on purpose!! !. She joked me once "why are you afraid of my clan, worst thing can happen is obliging you to marry me" - then she was "I am just kidding".
I believe she wasn't, probably she subconsciously wants want to reveal me to her clan so they come after me and force me to marry her, as by their customs!!

What happened to your girlfriend though? How come no sex life?

Muslims are so complicated...

and I have no gf

You broke up with the other one because you wanted the girl that wanted sex? Or it just turned out that way?

Lol

No it's totally unrelated, I broke up with the other one because she's too fundamentally Islamic for my liking (despite her "liberal" non-veil clothing).

Besides, she declared me as her bf before we mutually agree on being bf/gf...

You do not have to block a number if you do not want to answer a call. Just don't answer. Simple as that.

Why all the drama? If you don't want to speak to these people then why are you answering all their calls?

Why is it that so many people seem to think that if their phone rings, THEY MUST ANSWER? I don't get it. You are not a slave to your phone. Feel free to ignore it if you want. It's only a machine.