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22 Oct 2012, 8:03 pm

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there's no guarantee that the women who act interested online would have sex with me, even the ugly ones. most are flaky worthless gutter sluts.(truth)


...Someone is a slut for not having sex with you?

you didnt know? Shes a slut if she doesnt have sex with you, and a whore if she does


and wtfid, if you dont even try them then how do you know theyll all flake on you?



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23 Oct 2012, 3:06 am

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I think it's more that they just don't have the time to read every book out there, so they need some way to choose which they're gonna bother reading.


Eh? I thought women wanted love? Like it's the ultimate relationship/life goal is to find somebody to love and they're not prepared, or mature enough to do the work required? Talk about fairy tales.

I mean, even from a non-romantic perspective, I thought I wouldn't get on with some of my workmates when I first started, and now, five years later, I've been invited to weddings, birthdays, housewarming, funerals etc,. Genuine friends because I put my time into talking with them, helping them both inside & outside of work. I would even say that some of the girls I started with have become potential partners from investing time for them.

You have to give people a proper chance if you really want love. Like really want it. You can't dismiss a person because of how they look.


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But, if she were to take the time to really get to know evry guy who approached her, she'd have no time left to live her own life.


So then she is consciously choosing to stay single. It's a common mantra for guys that if you never ask (a girl) you'll never know (If she's the one) and girls need to learn that bloody fast.


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But there isn't really any reasonable way to give every guy a chance.

Yes there is, accept an approach, go for a date (Hell, she won't even have to pay) and then make an informed decision while giving the guy the equal opportunity. If all it works out, brilliant, if not, next guy.


I leave with this, which sums it all up perfectly:
"The world bursts at the seams with people ready to tell you you’re not good enough. On occasion some may be correct. But do not do their work for them. Seek any job; ask anyone out; pursue any goal. Don’t take it personally when they say “no” – they may not be smart enough to say “yes”.



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23 Oct 2012, 3:12 am

MXH wrote:
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there's no guarantee that the women who act interested online would have sex with me, even the ugly ones. most are flaky worthless gutter sluts.(truth)


...Someone is a slut for not having sex with you?

you didnt know? Shes a slut if she doesnt have sex with you, and a whore if she does


and wtfid, if you dont even try them then how do you know theyll all flake on you?
Rofl i have no intent to find out bc I have standards but the girls that I have tried with(who were far from models) either flaked when it came to meeting me or didn't like me after one date. I guess they have the right tonot like e, but a simple explanation would have been nice especially since the date lasted 2 plus hours for all of the girls I met ad I gave them various opportunities to escape rofl. One girl invited me to sit in her car with her..but still did not wish for a second date(and this was a big girl)


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23 Oct 2012, 3:56 am

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there's no guarantee that the women who act interested online would have sex with me, even the ugly ones. most are flaky worthless gutter sluts.(truth)


I have no idea why you can't get anyone. You seem like such a lovely person.


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23 Oct 2012, 4:08 am

Who_Am_I wrote:
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there's no guarantee that the women who act interested online would have sex with me, even the ugly ones. most are flaky worthless gutter sluts.(truth)


I have no idea why you can't get anyone. You seem like such a lovely person.
yrs of rejections will make you lovely ;)


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23 Oct 2012, 4:11 am

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there's no guarantee that the women who act interested online would have sex with me, even the ugly ones. most are flaky worthless gutter sluts.(truth)


I have no idea why you can't get anyone. You seem like such a lovely person.
yrs of rejections will make you lovely ;)


"Women don't like me. What's wrong with them?"

If you're getting rejected repeatedly "Everyone else is evil" is probably not the most reasonable explanation.


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23 Oct 2012, 11:44 am

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"Women don't like me. What's wrong with them?"

If you're getting rejected repeatedly "Everyone else is evil" is probably not the most reasonable explanation.


^This.

wtfid2, if you're writing things like how evil women are, on a forum for people who do understand communication problems, can you imagine how it's coming across to the women that don't? This is not a rhetorical question. I encourage you to consider how you're coming across to them, because I suspect it's as a woman-hater. NT women can sniff that out too. I've seen it done, and they will tell their friends. Yes, their friends, because many of them may be using the same online service to find a date.



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23 Oct 2012, 11:48 am

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"Women don't like me. What's wrong with them?"

If you're getting rejected repeatedly "Everyone else is evil" is probably not the most reasonable explanation.


^This.

wtfid2, if you're writing things like how evil women are, on a forum for people who do understand communication problems, can you imagine how it's coming across to the women that don't? This is not a rhetorical question. I encourage you to consider how you're coming across to them, because I suspect it's as a woman-hater. NT women can sniff that out too. I've seen it done, and they will tell their friends. Yes, their friends, because many of them may be using the same online service to find a date.


Its more than that. Theres a level of entitlement lingering around. Especially with past comments about him not wanting the girls that go for him. Well, sorry bud but you have two options there. Either stop complaining and try to go after the girls you want and hope one of them likes you back. Or take what you can and stop complaining about it.
This goes for billiscool and any other similar users too.



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24 Oct 2012, 8:02 am

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Its more than that. Theres a level of entitlement lingering around. Especially with past comments about him not wanting the girls that go for him. Well, sorry bud but you have two options there. Either stop complaining and try to go after the girls you want and hope one of them likes you back. Or take what you can and stop complaining about it.
This goes for billiscool and any other similar users too.


True that. I was on the thread where he complained about not getting the women he wanted. I made a suggestion there too, regarding his sentence structure and use of punctuation, but of course my suggestions were shot down. He sees nothing wrong with his behavior; it's all the womens' fault that he isn't getting what he wants. :roll:



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24 Oct 2012, 10:50 am

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The real question is why the f**k do yall care so much. Find it unfair? Sucks to be you then. Enjoy being paid more for the same work. Unfairness tends to balance itself out.


Now now, Sir or Madame. A great deal of individuals desire and crave companionship. It is not like individuals sit down and go, "I am going to choose to feel alone so I can be miserable." I wouldn't personally fault *anyone* for wanting a partner, because that would make me a hypocrite considering I do wish to find a girlfriend that can deal with my Asperger's. Some individuals can be happy with being single, others want a partner to experience happiness. Individuals who have never experienced a relationship or love are likely curious as to how it feels. Yes, I know that some would say; "If you hold yourself up in your room all day being a recluse then you have no reason to complain." That begs the question. What if there are no areas to socialize in the real world at? What if you have crippling sensory issues? There are tons of factors to consider.


Im a guy. But most here seem to either forget or ignore many variables in the sex/relationship game. ill admit any girl can get laid, if she has no standards.
If this woman could find a guy to get her pregnant any can.
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The thing is shes likely not going to get any if shes looking for supermodels. Which is also something that can be said about many guys here. Ill bring one up, wtfid2, He claims he does get women interested in him, but he has higher standards than what they are. Then he complains he cant get laid. (sorry but its the truth). And then comes to threads like this one to bash women for being able to get laid more easily. While on the average spectrum its true women can get sex a lot more easily it doesnt mean guys cant get sex either. Last I checked it takes two to have sex, though the woman in that gif could have a threeway all by herself

Lots of men are willing to f**k her, I personally would stay away though.



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24 Oct 2012, 10:56 am

Yes, I know a few women.

Woman A: Very beautiful but impossibly high standards.

Woman B: Very Large, attracts only guys who have fat girl fetishes.

Woman C: Attractive but doesn't enjoy a lot of things people her age do thus has a hard time finding men.

Woman D: Very religious, needs someone who is on that level.



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24 Oct 2012, 1:09 pm

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Its more than that. Theres a level of entitlement lingering around. Especially with past comments about him not wanting the girls that go for him. Well, sorry bud but you have two options there. Either stop complaining and try to go after the girls you want and hope one of them likes you back. Or take what you can and stop complaining about it.
This goes for billiscool and any other similar users too.


True that. I was on the thread where he complained about not getting the women he wanted. I made a suggestion there too, regarding his sentence structure and use of punctuation, but of course my suggestions were shot down. He sees nothing wrong with his behavior; it's all the womens' fault that he isn't getting what he wants. :roll:
sentence structure is irrelevant when the girls you are into either say one word answers or don't respond to your initial message.
You also told me I come off bitter and as a woman hater to real life girls which could not be further from the truth.us because i come onto an internet forum to b***h about being a 50 yr old virgin doesnt mean im bitter irl.


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24 Oct 2012, 1:21 pm

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Its more than that. Theres a level of entitlement lingering around. Especially with past comments about him not wanting the girls that go for him. Well, sorry bud but you have two options there. Either stop complaining and try to go after the girls you want and hope one of them likes you back. Or take what you can and stop complaining about it.
This goes for billiscool and any other similar users too.


True that. I was on the thread where he complained about not getting the women he wanted. I made a suggestion there too, regarding his sentence structure and use of punctuation, but of course my suggestions were shot down. He sees nothing wrong with his behavior; it's all the womens' fault that he isn't getting what he wants. :roll:
sentence structure is irrelevant when the girls you are into either say one word answers or don't respond to your initial message.
You also told me I come off bitter and as a woman hater to real life girls which could not be further from the truth.us because i come onto an internet forum to b***h about being a 50 yr old virgin doesnt mean im bitter irl.


im sure you come off bitter. its not something you can hide.



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24 Oct 2012, 1:23 pm

MXH wrote:
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rosemund wrote:
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Its more than that. Theres a level of entitlement lingering around. Especially with past comments about him not wanting the girls that go for him. Well, sorry bud but you have two options there. Either stop complaining and try to go after the girls you want and hope one of them likes you back. Or take what you can and stop complaining about it.
This goes for billiscool and any other similar users too.


True that. I was on the thread where he complained about not getting the women he wanted. I made a suggestion there too, regarding his sentence structure and use of punctuation, but of course my suggestions were shot down. He sees nothing wrong with his behavior; it's all the womens' fault that he isn't getting what he wants. :roll:
sentence structure is irrelevant when the girls you are into either say one word answers or don't respond to your initial message.
You also told me I come off bitter and as a woman hater to real life girls which could not be further from the truth.us because i come onto an internet forum to b***h about being a 50 yr old virgin doesnt mean im bitter irl.


im sure you come off bitter. its not something you can hide.
nah im constantly making girls laugh irl.


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24 Oct 2012, 1:25 pm

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nah im constantly making girls laugh irl.


and? people laugh usually to be nice. Not cause something was funny or they like you. And it also avoids the point that you do come off as a bitter virgin irl



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24 Oct 2012, 1:36 pm

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nah im constantly making girls laugh irl.


and? people laugh usually to be nice. Not cause something was funny or they like you. And it also avoids the point that you do come off as a bitter virgin irl
no people laugh when you're funny, and idont come off as a bitter virgin..now please stop harassing me or ill tattle tale to the mods mr 149 iq but never went to college -_-


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