is it possible for women to be single
MXH
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...Someone is a slut for not having sex with you?
you didnt know? Shes a slut if she doesnt have sex with you, and a whore if she does
and wtfid, if you dont even try them then how do you know theyll all flake on you?
Eh? I thought women wanted love? Like it's the ultimate relationship/life goal is to find somebody to love and they're not prepared, or mature enough to do the work required? Talk about fairy tales.
I mean, even from a non-romantic perspective, I thought I wouldn't get on with some of my workmates when I first started, and now, five years later, I've been invited to weddings, birthdays, housewarming, funerals etc,. Genuine friends because I put my time into talking with them, helping them both inside & outside of work. I would even say that some of the girls I started with have become potential partners from investing time for them.
You have to give people a proper chance if you really want love. Like really want it. You can't dismiss a person because of how they look.
So then she is consciously choosing to stay single. It's a common mantra for guys that if you never ask (a girl) you'll never know (If she's the one) and girls need to learn that bloody fast.
Yes there is, accept an approach, go for a date (Hell, she won't even have to pay) and then make an informed decision while giving the guy the equal opportunity. If all it works out, brilliant, if not, next guy.
I leave with this, which sums it all up perfectly:
"The world bursts at the seams with people ready to tell you you’re not good enough. On occasion some may be correct. But do not do their work for them. Seek any job; ask anyone out; pursue any goal. Don’t take it personally when they say “no” – they may not be smart enough to say “yes”.
...Someone is a slut for not having sex with you?
you didnt know? Shes a slut if she doesnt have sex with you, and a whore if she does
and wtfid, if you dont even try them then how do you know theyll all flake on you?
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Your Aspie score: 101 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 111 of 200
You seem to have both Aspie and neurotypical traits
I have no idea why you can't get anyone. You seem like such a lovely person.
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Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I ! !! !
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
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I have no idea why you can't get anyone. You seem like such a lovely person.
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AQ 25
Your Aspie score: 101 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 111 of 200
You seem to have both Aspie and neurotypical traits
I have no idea why you can't get anyone. You seem like such a lovely person.
"Women don't like me. What's wrong with them?"
If you're getting rejected repeatedly "Everyone else is evil" is probably not the most reasonable explanation.
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Music Theory 101: Cadences.
Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I ! !! !
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I! I! I! I I I
If you're getting rejected repeatedly "Everyone else is evil" is probably not the most reasonable explanation.
^This.
wtfid2, if you're writing things like how evil women are, on a forum for people who do understand communication problems, can you imagine how it's coming across to the women that don't? This is not a rhetorical question. I encourage you to consider how you're coming across to them, because I suspect it's as a woman-hater. NT women can sniff that out too. I've seen it done, and they will tell their friends. Yes, their friends, because many of them may be using the same online service to find a date.
MXH
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If you're getting rejected repeatedly "Everyone else is evil" is probably not the most reasonable explanation.
^This.
wtfid2, if you're writing things like how evil women are, on a forum for people who do understand communication problems, can you imagine how it's coming across to the women that don't? This is not a rhetorical question. I encourage you to consider how you're coming across to them, because I suspect it's as a woman-hater. NT women can sniff that out too. I've seen it done, and they will tell their friends. Yes, their friends, because many of them may be using the same online service to find a date.
Its more than that. Theres a level of entitlement lingering around. Especially with past comments about him not wanting the girls that go for him. Well, sorry bud but you have two options there. Either stop complaining and try to go after the girls you want and hope one of them likes you back. Or take what you can and stop complaining about it.
This goes for billiscool and any other similar users too.
Its more than that. Theres a level of entitlement lingering around. Especially with past comments about him not wanting the girls that go for him. Well, sorry bud but you have two options there. Either stop complaining and try to go after the girls you want and hope one of them likes you back. Or take what you can and stop complaining about it.
This goes for billiscool and any other similar users too.
True that. I was on the thread where he complained about not getting the women he wanted. I made a suggestion there too, regarding his sentence structure and use of punctuation, but of course my suggestions were shot down. He sees nothing wrong with his behavior; it's all the womens' fault that he isn't getting what he wants.
Now now, Sir or Madame. A great deal of individuals desire and crave companionship. It is not like individuals sit down and go, "I am going to choose to feel alone so I can be miserable." I wouldn't personally fault *anyone* for wanting a partner, because that would make me a hypocrite considering I do wish to find a girlfriend that can deal with my Asperger's. Some individuals can be happy with being single, others want a partner to experience happiness. Individuals who have never experienced a relationship or love are likely curious as to how it feels. Yes, I know that some would say; "If you hold yourself up in your room all day being a recluse then you have no reason to complain." That begs the question. What if there are no areas to socialize in the real world at? What if you have crippling sensory issues? There are tons of factors to consider.
Im a guy. But most here seem to either forget or ignore many variables in the sex/relationship game. ill admit any girl can get laid, if she has no standards.
If this woman could find a guy to get her pregnant any can.

The thing is shes likely not going to get any if shes looking for supermodels. Which is also something that can be said about many guys here. Ill bring one up, wtfid2, He claims he does get women interested in him, but he has higher standards than what they are. Then he complains he cant get laid. (sorry but its the truth). And then comes to threads like this one to bash women for being able to get laid more easily. While on the average spectrum its true women can get sex a lot more easily it doesnt mean guys cant get sex either. Last I checked it takes two to have sex, though the woman in that gif could have a threeway all by herself
Lots of men are willing to f**k her, I personally would stay away though.
Yes, I know a few women.
Woman A: Very beautiful but impossibly high standards.
Woman B: Very Large, attracts only guys who have fat girl fetishes.
Woman C: Attractive but doesn't enjoy a lot of things people her age do thus has a hard time finding men.
Woman D: Very religious, needs someone who is on that level.
Its more than that. Theres a level of entitlement lingering around. Especially with past comments about him not wanting the girls that go for him. Well, sorry bud but you have two options there. Either stop complaining and try to go after the girls you want and hope one of them likes you back. Or take what you can and stop complaining about it.
This goes for billiscool and any other similar users too.
True that. I was on the thread where he complained about not getting the women he wanted. I made a suggestion there too, regarding his sentence structure and use of punctuation, but of course my suggestions were shot down. He sees nothing wrong with his behavior; it's all the womens' fault that he isn't getting what he wants.
You also told me I come off bitter and as a woman hater to real life girls which could not be further from the truth.us because i come onto an internet forum to b***h about being a 50 yr old virgin doesnt mean im bitter irl.
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MXH
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Its more than that. Theres a level of entitlement lingering around. Especially with past comments about him not wanting the girls that go for him. Well, sorry bud but you have two options there. Either stop complaining and try to go after the girls you want and hope one of them likes you back. Or take what you can and stop complaining about it.
This goes for billiscool and any other similar users too.
True that. I was on the thread where he complained about not getting the women he wanted. I made a suggestion there too, regarding his sentence structure and use of punctuation, but of course my suggestions were shot down. He sees nothing wrong with his behavior; it's all the womens' fault that he isn't getting what he wants.
You also told me I come off bitter and as a woman hater to real life girls which could not be further from the truth.us because i come onto an internet forum to b***h about being a 50 yr old virgin doesnt mean im bitter irl.
im sure you come off bitter. its not something you can hide.
Its more than that. Theres a level of entitlement lingering around. Especially with past comments about him not wanting the girls that go for him. Well, sorry bud but you have two options there. Either stop complaining and try to go after the girls you want and hope one of them likes you back. Or take what you can and stop complaining about it.
This goes for billiscool and any other similar users too.
True that. I was on the thread where he complained about not getting the women he wanted. I made a suggestion there too, regarding his sentence structure and use of punctuation, but of course my suggestions were shot down. He sees nothing wrong with his behavior; it's all the womens' fault that he isn't getting what he wants.
You also told me I come off bitter and as a woman hater to real life girls which could not be further from the truth.us because i come onto an internet forum to b***h about being a 50 yr old virgin doesnt mean im bitter irl.
im sure you come off bitter. its not something you can hide.
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AQ 25
Your Aspie score: 101 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 111 of 200
You seem to have both Aspie and neurotypical traits
MXH
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and? people laugh usually to be nice. Not cause something was funny or they like you. And it also avoids the point that you do come off as a bitter virgin irl
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