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06 Jan 2013, 6:18 am

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LADY!! !! I am NOT going to bring up a girl's chest hair if I'm not going out with her!! !!


Better chest hair than face hair, amirite?



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06 Jan 2013, 6:20 am

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Better chest hair than face hair, amirite?


I'd have to agree.



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06 Jan 2013, 6:21 am

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If it was me I'd go into problem-solving mode ie well how much hair is there? Is she bothered by it?
Go online to see what causes it and what solutions there are. Might she be suggestible to shaving it off or
dying it blonde? - just because you don't like an aspect of a person does not mean you can't help them to change it or get used to it.


LADY!! !! I am NOT going to bring up a girl's chest hair if I'm not going out with her!! !!


No, but you could mentally prepare what you were going to do while getting to know her
ie you think to yourself 'I'm not keen on the chest hair but I could look into getting her to do somethign about it at some point

You still haven't said how much hair there was either

I'm a bit suspicious about the whole story tbh - people who don't like to give details can often be lying



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06 Jan 2013, 6:24 am

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No, but you could mentally prepare what you were going to do while getting to know her
ie you think to yourself 'I'm not keen on the chest hair but I could look into getting her to do somethign about it at some point


I had a generic "She could probably pluck that amount out without a problem.....although I am curious as to why she doesn't already...."

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You still haven't said how much hair there was either


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[edit] I tried not to stare, I'd guess maybe 7? 10?


I edited that in after you edited in the question in the previous post. Note that the question isn't in my quote.



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06 Jan 2013, 6:26 am

Shau wrote:
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No, but you could mentally prepare what you were going to do while getting to know her
ie you think to yourself 'I'm not keen on the chest hair but I could look into getting her to do somethign about it at some point


I had a generic "She could probably pluck that amount out without a problem.....although I am curious as to why she doesn't already...."

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You still haven't said how much hair there was either


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[edit] I tried not to stare, I'd guess maybe 7? 10?


I edited that in after you edited in the question in the previous post. Note that the question isn't in my quote.


Well I'd be wanting the full gen on the hair so I could advise as there's a number of possible causes, some dangerous! I like medical stuff though so I'd see it as interesting.

http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/help-i-a ... airy-chest



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06 Jan 2013, 6:30 am

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Well I'd be wanting the full gen on the hair so I could advise as there's a number of possible causes, some dangerous! I like medical stuff though so I'd see it as interesting.

http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/help-i-a ... airy-chest


I gotta admit, it'd take more than a couple of beers to get me to actually go up to a girl and help her try to address her hirsutism if I wasn't going out with her, especially when she's a smart girl and has probably brought it up with her doctor already.

Any idea why she doesn't pluck them?



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06 Jan 2013, 6:37 am

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Well I'd be wanting the full gen on the hair so I could advise as there's a number of possible causes, some dangerous! I like medical stuff though so I'd see it as interesting.

http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/help-i-a ... airy-chest


I gotta admit, it'd take more than a couple of beers to get me to actually go up to a girl and help her try to address her hirsutism if I wasn't going out with her, especially when she's a smart girl and has probably brought it up with her doctor already.

Any idea why she doesn't pluck them?


I'm different as I ask a lot of questions anyway but I can see why you'd steer clear of the topic - it would be more appropriate in some ways to broach the subject if you were in a relationship but in another way it might be better to be upfront and show it wasn't bothering you

For all you know it could be her way of testing how shallow a man was or she could have been just unbothered by it.

Was she very skinny or overweight?

Was she very feminine looking?

Now of course I will be trying to diagnose what caused it!

Give me a general overview of how she looked and her personality please



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06 Jan 2013, 6:42 am

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I'm different as I ask a lot of questions anyway but I can see why you'd steer clear of the topic - it would be more appropriate in some ways to broach the subject if you were in a relationship but in another way it might be better to be upfront and show it wasn't bothering you


I can see that exploding in my face big time though.

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For all you know it could be her way of testing how shallow a man was or she could have been just unbothered by it.


Perhaps, but I still got shot down. >_< I guess not being shallow isn't quite enough!

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Was she very skinny or overweight?


Average, maybe a bit on the thinner side.

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Was she very feminine looking?


I'd say so. No real masculine traits I was able to notice.

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Give me a general overview of how she looked and her personality please


She loves fashion, likes to read, very kind and reasonable personality, honestly she's a real gem (except for...you know). Personality and looks seem more than sufficiently girly.



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06 Jan 2013, 6:57 am

Shau wrote:
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I'm different as I ask a lot of questions anyway but I can see why you'd steer clear of the topic - it would be more appropriate in some ways to broach the subject if you were in a relationship but in another way it might be better to be upfront and show it wasn't bothering you


I can see that exploding in my face big time though.

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For all you know it could be her way of testing how shallow a man was or she could have been just unbothered by it.


Perhaps, but I still got shot down. >_< I guess not being shallow isn't quite enough!

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Was she very skinny or overweight?


Average, maybe a bit on the thinner side.

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Was she very feminine looking?


I'd say so. No real masculine traits I was able to notice.

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Give me a general overview of how she looked and her personality please


She loves fashion, likes to read, very kind and reasonable personality, honestly she's a real gem (except for...you know). Personality and looks seem more than sufficiently girly.


Well she doesn't sound anorexic or obese so these can't be causes

Perhaps she's diabetic or it's just a general hormone imbalance

But surely her chest isn't going to be on display all the time anyway
I mean how far down her chest are the hairs? Does she always wear low-cut tops?



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06 Jan 2013, 7:05 am

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I can see that exploding in my face big time though.


You'd much rather be exploding in hers, amirite?

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But surely her chest isn't going to be on display all the time anyway
I mean how far down her chest are the hairs? Does she always wear low-cut tops?


Best thing to do, I'd imagine, is to ask a doctor or something. If not that, if you like the hairs for sexytime reasons or whatever, then just live with it.



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06 Jan 2013, 7:08 am

Tequila wrote:
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I can see that exploding in my face big time though.


You'd much rather be exploding in hers, amirite?

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But surely her chest isn't going to be on display all the time anyway
I mean how far down her chest are the hairs? Does she always wear low-cut tops?


Best thing to do, I'd imagine, is to ask a doctor or something. If not that, if you like the hairs for sexytime reasons or whatever, then just live with it.


Now we're back onto laddish territory

I'd like to see men who like the idea of 'exploding' in a person's face take it in their own face



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06 Jan 2013, 7:09 am

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But surely her chest isn't going to be on display all the time anyway
I mean how far down her chest are the hairs? Does she always wear low-cut tops?


Her shirts don't tend to bare much of the chest, I found out cause we went to the beach... and they're toward the bottom of the sternum if I recall (once again I tried not to directly look after first noticing them).



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06 Jan 2013, 7:21 am

Shau wrote:
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But surely her chest isn't going to be on display all the time anyway
I mean how far down her chest are the hairs? Does she always wear low-cut tops?


Her shirts don't tend to bare much of the chest, I found out cause we went to the beach... and they're toward the bottom of the sternum if I recall (once again I tried not to directly look after first noticing them).


this is weird

To me, going to the beach and wearing some kind of bikini in front of a person you've only just met would be far more embarrassing than having sex with them!



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06 Jan 2013, 7:23 am

nessa238 wrote:
Now we're back onto laddish territory


I'm just being juvenile and vulgar in my humour, because I'm a rather juvenile and vulgar person.

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I'd like to see men who like the idea of 'exploding' in a person's face take it in their own face


Just squirt them with mayonnaise at the dinner table. :D



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06 Jan 2013, 7:30 am

Tequila wrote:
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Now we're back onto laddish territory


I'm just being juvenile and vulgar in my humour, because I'm a rather juvenile and vulgar person.

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I'd like to see men who like the idea of 'exploding' in a person's face take it in their own face


Just squirt them with mayonnaise at the dinner table. :D


I'm already with a juvenile-humoured person so know the territory

Sometimes it's funny, other times a bit tedious

And as for mayonaise I'd take the 'explosion' over mayonnaise any day - it's disgusting stuff and I'd be sick
if I had to eat anything with mayonnaise on it



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06 Jan 2013, 7:50 am

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This is weird

To me, going to the beach and wearing some kind of bikini in front of a person you've only just met would be far more embarrassing than having sex with them!


I've actually known the girl for a while, she's a friend I decided that I liked after a while (I tend to operate that way).