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25 Feb 2013, 7:24 am

periphery wrote:
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I think a lot of the "women only like douchebags" comes from guys who think they are entitled to female attention because they are "nice" and are resentful when women don't comply.

The reality is that the vast majority of women *don't* like a**holes who abuse them, and it's borderline misogynist to believe otherwise.


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Obviously women don't like guys that abuse them personally. But abusing others is more than okay with them.

Also, genuine nice guys are nice to everybody until they deserve otherwise. They're not just nice to women despite what they think.

I always wonder exactly who these mysterious women are. Certainly never anyone I've come across or known in my 31 years, and I have known or been exposed to a large cross section of society. And same goes for guys that are 'jerks' for the most part, except for maybe when I was in highschool. Do these theories apply to the adult world?


Just a few of those "mysterious women" are ones that got physically abused by their boyfriend/husband because they counted on him only abusing other guys at first(which they liked), but then it backfired on them much later when he also did it to them. And then they started whining about it.



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25 Feb 2013, 8:22 am

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And why doesn't the language filter work anymore? :o


Damn you motherfucka, you are hurting my virginal eyes.



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25 Feb 2013, 8:42 am

Venger wrote:
periphery wrote:
Venger wrote:
Grisha wrote:
I think a lot of the "women only like douchebags" comes from guys who think they are entitled to female attention because they are "nice" and are resentful when women don't comply.

The reality is that the vast majority of women *don't* like a**holes who abuse them, and it's borderline misogynist to believe otherwise.


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Obviously women don't like guys that abuse them personally. But abusing others is more than okay with them.

Also, genuine nice guys are nice to everybody until they deserve otherwise. They're not just nice to women despite what they think.

I always wonder exactly who these mysterious women are. Certainly never anyone I've come across or known in my 31 years, and I have known or been exposed to a large cross section of society. And same goes for guys that are 'jerks' for the most part, except for maybe when I was in highschool. Do these theories apply to the adult world?




Just a few of those "mysterious women" are ones that got physically abused by their boyfriend/husband because they counted on him only abusing other guys at first(which they liked), but then it backfired on them much later when he also did it to them. And then they started whining about it.



God forbid someone whine about domestic violence.



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25 Feb 2013, 9:36 am

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It'd be funny if it weren't so sad. I remember once in my formative years I'd noticed how the mean guys were getting more attention and gfs than I was. So after a time, I tried my hand at a bit of what I'd describe as 'meanness lite'. I don't even remember what it was that I did...some comment. But I do remember the reaction: "I THOUGHT YOU WERE ONE OF THE NICE GUYS."

And so being put in my place, I remained a nice guy, and without a gf for many years.


This is my life in a nutshell. Except recently I've mostly stopped being so nice.


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25 Feb 2013, 11:23 am

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God forbid someone whine about domestic violence.

Why not? The rates of domestic violence is almost equal for men and women so there's plenty of whining to do.



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25 Feb 2013, 11:32 am

periphery wrote:
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I think a lot of the "women only like douchebags" comes from guys who think they are entitled to female attention because they are "nice" and are resentful when women don't comply.

The reality is that the vast majority of women *don't* like a**holes who abuse them, and it's borderline misogynist to believe otherwise.


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Obviously women don't like guys that abuse them personally. But abusing others is more than okay with them.

Also, genuine nice guys are nice to everybody until they deserve otherwise. They're not just nice to women despite what they think.

I always wonder exactly who these mysterious women are. Certainly never anyone I've come across or known in my 31 years, and I have known or been exposed to a large cross section of society. And same goes for guys that are 'jerks' for the most part, except for maybe when I was in highschool. Do these theories apply to the adult world?


Yeah, sure, no such women (or men) exist at all. Are you testing yourself here to see how good you can be at convincing yourself of BS?

What is this society that you speak of that lacks abusive men and women?



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25 Feb 2013, 11:43 am

I did mention an example a page ago... it was conveniently skipped over. Pretending it didn't happen was the only way to make a "those women don't exist - you must be crazy" comment. ;)



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25 Feb 2013, 1:14 pm

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Why are there only jerks and nice guys? What happened to dicks, p*****s and a**holes?


Any credible source of information has to update its terms every now and then so that people dont think that its stuck in the past.

Dont believe me? even churches have been known to update their terms(ie removal of purgatory not so long ago)



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25 Feb 2013, 2:42 pm

BlueMax wrote:
Venger wrote:
Grisha wrote:
I think a lot of the "women only like douchebags" comes from guys who think they are entitled to female attention because they are "nice" and are resentful when women don't comply.

The reality is that the vast majority of women *don't* like a**holes who abuse them, and it's borderline misogynist to believe otherwise.


:roll:
Obviously women don't like guys that abuse them personally. But abusing others is more than okay with them.

Also, genuine nice guys are nice to everybody until they deserve otherwise. They're not just nice to women despite what they think.


This is often overlooked! A lot of girls love Mister Testosterone who's willing to bully others to secure resources for her.
...like the jerkwad who lives upstairs from me and bullied me out of my unofficial parking space to give it to his new wife. She just laughed as they took it from me together... :evil: Far from the first example in my life - won't be the last. This kind of woman looooves her "strong" man who protects her from imaginary foes and gives her nice things... even better if she knows he was strong enough to TAKE it from someone else! So manly! *tackles him for rough sex*

Horrible human beings... :eew:



Perhaps it's time to start collecting random and assorted shards and metal chunks and start surreptitiously leaving them in that parking space..



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25 Feb 2013, 3:24 pm

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Why are there only jerks and nice guys? What happened to dicks, p*****s and a**holes?

See, there's three kinds of people: dicks, p*****s, and a**holes. p*****s think everyone can get along, and dicks just want to f**k all the time without thinking it through. But then you got your a**holes. And all the a**holes just want to s**t all over everything! So, p*****s may get mad at dicks once in a while, because p*****s get f****d by dicks. But dicks also f**k a**holes. And if they didn't f**k the a**holes, you know what you'd get? You'd get your dick and your p**** all covered in s**t!



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25 Feb 2013, 3:33 pm

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Why are there only jerks and nice guys? What happened to dicks, p*****s and a**holes?

See, there's three kinds of people: dicks, p*****s, and a**holes. p*****s think everyone can get along, and dicks just want to f**k all the time without thinking it through. But then you got your a**holes. And all the a**holes just want to sh** all over everything! So, p*****s may get mad at dicks once in a while, because p*****s get f**** by dicks. But dicks also f**k a**holes. And if they didn't f**k the a**holes, you know what you'd get? You'd get your dick and your p**** all covered in sh**!


'MERICUH!! F#$% YEAH!!

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Perhaps it's time to start collecting random and assorted shards and metal chunks and start surreptitiously leaving them in that parking space..

:twisted: My... how unfortunate that might be...



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25 Feb 2013, 3:42 pm

MXH wrote:
blue_bean wrote:
Why are there only jerks and nice guys? What happened to dicks, p*****s and a**holes?

See, there's three kinds of people: dicks, p*****s, and a**holes. p*****s think everyone can get along, and dicks just want to f**k all the time without thinking it through. But then you got your a**holes. And all the a**holes just want to sh** all over everything! So, p*****s may get mad at dicks once in a while, because p*****s get f**** by dicks. But dicks also f**k a**holes. And if they didn't f**k the a**holes, you know what you'd get? You'd get your dick and your p**** all covered in sh**!


It's like rock-paper-scissors, dick beats a**hole but a**hole beats p****, however p**** beats dick.

Conclusion? Gays are the luckiest.

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27 Feb 2013, 3:44 pm

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Perhaps it's time to start collecting random and assorted shards and metal chunks and start surreptitiously leaving them in that parking space..

:twisted: My... how unfortunate that might be...

Surplus antitank mines, man... that's the way to go. :wink:
(or, if you're worried about the collateral damage, just get a portable hole)



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27 Feb 2013, 3:48 pm

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28 Feb 2013, 6:05 pm

spongy wrote:
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Theres a movie that starts with its take on this and how its damaging future relationships for girls.

Of course its a romcom so most people will overlook whatever it says since its a fact that romcoms cant teach us anything[/sarcasm]


Yeah..it's a fairly recent movie too...I saw it in the theater and remember the female narrator saying essentially "boys being mean equates to love"

Can't remember the name of it though.


He is just not that into you


rename it "She's just not into you" nd you have tha story of my life