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12 Apr 2013, 5:42 pm

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Why do you come on here and post it? Just go do it already. I can't tell whether you're trying to convince yourself, convince us, or just brag when you post. You don't listen to advice the vast majority of the time, you dodge a lot of the things people post... I just don't get it. Why do you bother to post if you're constantly getting the same people say derogatory stuff to you, etc.? No, I'm not attacking you; I'm just very confused.


Because those will be the same people who are sitting in their basements afraid to post their pictures on here whilst I will continue having thousands of followers, women finding me desirable. I will be the one with a sole business whilst they have to log on here just to criticize someone who is doing something positive. I'm going with what is important and what is important to me is my business and starting a beautiful lifestyle with a new girl.


Thousands of followers?!

This is starting to sound like some kind of cult! 8O


I don't impose my beliefs on others except some people are ready to take the high ground with their sense of self righteousness and justice. This isn't written by someone with a secret or shameful sin as I am upfront about everything, the perfect person hides their shame but the honest man stays true to his word I am not an academic who has spent many times reading books.

If you want to be a monk and reflect, go ahead but you shouldn't try to dictate other people like some type of religious leader.


I was referring to your 'thousands of followers'

How do you know there's thousands?


Look at my Facebook page in my link below this post.


I don't use Facebook

you should specify Facebook followers


You can still view it even if you are not a member of Facebook.

I have seen it a million times in religions, figures of authority trying to control their social hierachies, trying to fit in with the pecking order but when someone steps out of that boundary, they don't know how to respond so they simply become a pack of wild animals like they are. They have to see themselves as they want to see themselves, they have to see the world and people in their self invented definitions and I can't let myself conform to that standard.

So if you do want to make sense to me, try being an individual instead of simply dancing to the rhythm.



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12 Apr 2013, 5:45 pm

Wolfheart wrote:
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Wolfheart wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Kinme wrote:
Why do you come on here and post it? Just go do it already. I can't tell whether you're trying to convince yourself, convince us, or just brag when you post. You don't listen to advice the vast majority of the time, you dodge a lot of the things people post... I just don't get it. Why do you bother to post if you're constantly getting the same people say derogatory stuff to you, etc.? No, I'm not attacking you; I'm just very confused.


Because those will be the same people who are sitting in their basements afraid to post their pictures on here whilst I will continue having thousands of followers, women finding me desirable. I will be the one with a sole business whilst they have to log on here just to criticize someone who is doing something positive. I'm going with what is important and what is important to me is my business and starting a beautiful lifestyle with a new girl.


Thousands of followers?!

This is starting to sound like some kind of cult! 8O


I don't impose my beliefs on others except some people are ready to take the high ground with their sense of self righteousness and justice. This isn't written by someone with a secret or shameful sin as I am upfront about everything, the perfect person hides their shame but the honest man stays true to his word I am not an academic who has spent many times reading books.

If you want to be a monk and reflect, go ahead but you shouldn't try to dictate other people like some type of religious leader.


I was referring to your 'thousands of followers'

How do you know there's thousands?


Look at my Facebook page in my link below this post.


I don't use Facebook

you should specify Facebook followers


You can still view it even if you are not a member of Facebook.

I have seen it a million times in religions, figures of authority trying to control their social hierachies, trying to fit in with the pecking order but when someone steps out of that boundary, they don't know how to respond so they simply become a pack of wild animals like they are. They have to see themselves as they want to see themselves, they have to see the world and people in their self invented definitions and I can't let myself conform to that standard.

So if you do want to make sense to me, try being an individual instead of simply dancing to the rhythm.


Er I'm no conformist!

you're the one doing all the NT stuff, not me!

I raised the idea of a cult and you ineptly tried to turn it against me

I hope you've got a good business strategy - that's all I'll say!



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12 Apr 2013, 5:49 pm

nessa238 wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Kinme wrote:
Why do you come on here and post it? Just go do it already. I can't tell whether you're trying to convince yourself, convince us, or just brag when you post. You don't listen to advice the vast majority of the time, you dodge a lot of the things people post... I just don't get it. Why do you bother to post if you're constantly getting the same people say derogatory stuff to you, etc.? No, I'm not attacking you; I'm just very confused.


Because those will be the same people who are sitting in their basements afraid to post their pictures on here whilst I will continue having thousands of followers, women finding me desirable. I will be the one with a sole business whilst they have to log on here just to criticize someone who is doing something positive. I'm going with what is important and what is important to me is my business and starting a beautiful lifestyle with a new girl.


Thousands of followers?!

This is starting to sound like some kind of cult! 8O


I don't impose my beliefs on others except some people are ready to take the high ground with their sense of self righteousness and justice. This isn't written by someone with a secret or shameful sin as I am upfront about everything, the perfect person hides their shame but the honest man stays true to his word I am not an academic who has spent many times reading books.

If you want to be a monk and reflect, go ahead but you shouldn't try to dictate other people like some type of religious leader.


I was referring to your 'thousands of followers'

How do you know there's thousands?


Look at my Facebook page in my link below this post.


I don't use Facebook

you should specify Facebook followers


You can still view it even if you are not a member of Facebook.

I have seen it a million times in religions, figures of authority trying to control their social hierachies, trying to fit in with the pecking order but when someone steps out of that boundary, they don't know how to respond so they simply become a pack of wild animals like they are. They have to see themselves as they want to see themselves, they have to see the world and people in their self invented definitions and I can't let myself conform to that standard.

So if you do want to make sense to me, try being an individual instead of simply dancing to the rhythm.


Er I'm no conformist!

you're the one doing all the NT stuff, not me!


I give them something they can't get elsewhere and that is honesty, no illusions, what you see is what you get and I don't deny that it isn't a rollercoaster at times but if you are going to live your life like that, of course not every situation is going to go to plan. How do you know that you aren't conforming by using labels like NT? You could be conforming to this new term that people on spectrum should be a certain way or should do certain things, once again making assumptions based on your self perceived definitions.



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12 Apr 2013, 5:52 pm

Wolfheart wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Kinme wrote:
Why do you come on here and post it? Just go do it already. I can't tell whether you're trying to convince yourself, convince us, or just brag when you post. You don't listen to advice the vast majority of the time, you dodge a lot of the things people post... I just don't get it. Why do you bother to post if you're constantly getting the same people say derogatory stuff to you, etc.? No, I'm not attacking you; I'm just very confused.


Because those will be the same people who are sitting in their basements afraid to post their pictures on here whilst I will continue having thousands of followers, women finding me desirable. I will be the one with a sole business whilst they have to log on here just to criticize someone who is doing something positive. I'm going with what is important and what is important to me is my business and starting a beautiful lifestyle with a new girl.


Thousands of followers?!

This is starting to sound like some kind of cult! 8O


I don't impose my beliefs on others except some people are ready to take the high ground with their sense of self righteousness and justice. This isn't written by someone with a secret or shameful sin as I am upfront about everything, the perfect person hides their shame but the honest man stays true to his word I am not an academic who has spent many times reading books.

If you want to be a monk and reflect, go ahead but you shouldn't try to dictate other people like some type of religious leader.


I was referring to your 'thousands of followers'

How do you know there's thousands?


Look at my Facebook page in my link below this post.


I don't use Facebook

you should specify Facebook followers


You can still view it even if you are not a member of Facebook.

I have seen it a million times in religions, figures of authority trying to control their social hierachies, trying to fit in with the pecking order but when someone steps out of that boundary, they don't know how to respond so they simply become a pack of wild animals like they are. They have to see themselves as they want to see themselves, they have to see the world and people in their self invented definitions and I can't let myself conform to that standard.

So if you do want to make sense to me, try being an individual instead of simply dancing to the rhythm.


Er I'm no conformist!

you're the one doing all the NT stuff, not me!


I give them something they can't get elsewhere and that is honesty, no illusions, what you see is what you get and I don't deny that it isn't a rollercoaster at times but if you are going to live your life like that, of course not every situation is going to go to plan. How do you know that you aren't conforming by using labels like NT? You could be conforming to this new term that people on spectrum should be a certain way or should do certain things, once again making assumptions based on your self perceived definitions.


Well you can't get more NT than facebook or 'fan pics'
or thinking you need to be down the gym all the time in order to get a girlfriend

it's all pretty standard NT stuff as far as I'm concerned

Yet you seem to think you hold the answers to the mysteries of the universe and talk like the I-Ching - it's funny! lol

It's like some badly written self-help book!

Fair play to you if it works for you though...



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12 Apr 2013, 6:25 pm

DON'T DRINK THE KOOL-AID!! !


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12 Apr 2013, 6:25 pm

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I don't impose my beliefs on others except some people are ready to take the high ground with their sense of self righteousness and justice.

Yeah, you do. You spread your "advice" on how to pick up women all the time... knowing full well that you don't intend to stay with ANY of them. This isn't about self-righteousness, it's about not hurting people.

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This isn't written by someone with a secret or shameful sin as I am upfront about everything, the perfect person hides their shame but the honest man stays true to his word.

Funny, since you don't actually tell ANY of these thousands of female followers that you don't intend to settle down for any of them, that they're only playthings to satisfy your ego. If you showed any honesty and up-front tell them they're only there to please you, most will disappear in revulsion.

You wouldn't have tears and drama if you were being honest and up-front about wanting nothing more than a sexual romp before blasting her ego to smithereens and moving on to the next victim.
...and you wonder why these women cry or get angry?? Sheesh!

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If you want to be a monk and reflect, go ahead but you shouldn't try to dictate other people like some type of religious leader.

You don't need to be a monk to know that hurting people is bad.

Only psychopaths are unable to grasp that concept.



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12 Apr 2013, 8:28 pm

So are we back to avoidance and attention whoring? That fresh breath of air lasted short this time



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13 Apr 2013, 12:05 am

Wolf, I recall having more Facebook friends than you do and I don't refer to them as my "followers". Secondly, you have specifically asked people to like some of your photos etc.

Back to the OP, I recall well that every girl that you told me about or have spoken about here you have been convinced that they are someone you will get serious with. However, each you have cheated on within one month, usually far less. I wouldn't encourage making plans about Australia yet.

Lastly, I'm not certain if that thing in the fan photo is classified as male human or Chewbacca.


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13 Apr 2013, 12:07 am

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I don't impose my beliefs on others except some people are ready to take the high ground with their sense of self righteousness and justice.

Yeah, you do. You spread your "advice" on how to pick up women all the time... knowing full well that you don't intend to stay with ANY of them. This isn't about self-righteousness, it's about not hurting people.

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This isn't written by someone with a secret or shameful sin as I am upfront about everything, the perfect person hides their shame but the honest man stays true to his word.

Funny, since you don't actually tell ANY of these thousands of female followers that you don't intend to settle down for any of them, that they're only playthings to satisfy your ego. If you showed any honesty and up-front tell them they're only there to please you, most will disappear in revulsion.

You wouldn't have tears and drama if you were being honest and up-front about wanting nothing more than a sexual romp before blasting her ego to smithereens and moving on to the next victim.
...and you wonder why these women cry or get angry?? Sheesh!

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If you want to be a monk and reflect, go ahead but you shouldn't try to dictate other people like some type of religious leader.

You don't need to be a monk to know that hurting people is bad.

Only psychopaths are unable to grasp that concept.


^^^ And this.


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13 Apr 2013, 1:54 am

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Wolf, I recall having more Facebook friends than you do and I don't refer to them as my "followers". Secondly, you have specifically asked people to like some of your photos etc.

Back to the OP, I recall well that every girl that you told me about or have spoken about here you have been convinced that they are someone you will get serious with. However, each you have cheated on within one month, usually far less. I wouldn't encourage making plans about Australia yet.

Lastly, I'm not certain if that thing in the fan photo is classified as male human or Chewbacca.


Lilya, it is a complicated situation as the old girl I was seeing before just sent me a text asking what I want in terms of a relationship but I like this new girl as well. It is a difficult situation and I don't know what to do, I really need to give it serious thought before making my next move.



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13 Apr 2013, 2:33 am

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I don't impose my beliefs on others except some people are ready to take the high ground with their sense of self righteousness and justice.

Yeah, you do. You spread your "advice" on how to pick up women all the time... knowing full well that you don't intend to stay with ANY of them. This isn't about self-righteousness, it's about not hurting people.


Where have I specifically given this advice? My advice has never been set to using pick up artist techniques and I haven't used them or read any books written by the pick up artist community. Topics of mine have covered presentation, body language, using marketing to reach a higher platform or being in the right mindset.

I do intend to settle down with one but it is about finding a girl with similar ambition and passions, could this new girl be the right one? Nothing is set to stone, people are torn between faith and doubt everyday, people have to date to find the right person. I have taken the positives from previous experiences and used them to grow, I am taking a more serious role now instead of withdrawing myself so I am making good progress.



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13 Apr 2013, 4:34 am

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Why do you come on here and post it? Just go do it already. I can't tell whether you're trying to convince yourself, convince us, or just brag when you post. You don't listen to advice the vast majority of the time, you dodge a lot of the things people post... I just don't get it. Why do you bother to post if you're constantly getting the same people say derogatory stuff to you, etc.? No, I'm not attacking you; I'm just very confused.


Because those will be the same people who are sitting in their basements afraid to post their pictures on here whilst I will continue having thousands of followers, women finding me desirable. I will be the one with a sole business whilst they have to log on here just to criticize someone who is doing something positive. I'm going with what is important and what is important to me is my business and starting a beautiful lifestyle with a new girl.


But that doesn't explain why you come on here and post when you're clearly upsetting lots of people. I don't know if it's because your being autistic is getting in the way of you seeing that or what. People have explained that the things you say come across as sexist and that you're going from woman to woman without taking them into consideration. I honestly don't think, and I hope, that you do not do these kinds of things to women to blatantly hurt them, but that is exactly what you're doing, and that is why people jump on your case. It isn't that they are jealous of your success, Wolf. This isn't about that. I have no idea why you think that's the reason. The way you are toward people can really come across as though you're superior and that you do no wrong. I'm not saying this to hurt your feelings. I am being honest.



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13 Apr 2013, 5:03 am

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Why do you come on here and post it? Just go do it already. I can't tell whether you're trying to convince yourself, convince us, or just brag when you post. You don't listen to advice the vast majority of the time, you dodge a lot of the things people post... I just don't get it. Why do you bother to post if you're constantly getting the same people say derogatory stuff to you, etc.? No, I'm not attacking you; I'm just very confused.


Because those will be the same people who are sitting in their basements afraid to post their pictures on here whilst I will continue having thousands of followers, women finding me desirable. I will be the one with a sole business whilst they have to log on here just to criticize someone who is doing something positive. I'm going with what is important and what is important to me is my business and starting a beautiful lifestyle with a new girl.


But that doesn't explain why you come on here and post when you're clearly upsetting lots of people. I don't know if it's because your being autistic is getting in the way of you seeing that or what. People have explained that the things you say come across as sexist and that you're going from woman to woman without taking them into consideration. I honestly don't think, and I hope, that you do not do these kinds of things to women to blatantly hurt them, but that is exactly what you're doing, and that is why people jump on your case. It isn't that they are jealous of your success, Wolf. This isn't about that. I have no idea why you think that's the reason. The way you are toward people can really come across as though you're superior and that you do no wrong. I'm not saying this to hurt your feelings. I am being honest.


How have I said anything sexist at all? I haven't complained about women, made negative statements regarding women or said anything bad about women. I said there are a specific type of people that may be dynamic and that it doesn't agree with my personality, nothing to do with women at all. I love women, my girlfriend has hundreds of likes on her photos on Facebook, she is a very attractive, lovely and desirable girl.



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13 Apr 2013, 5:39 am

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Lastly, I'm not certain if that thing in the fan photo is classified as male human or Chewbacca.


That's called being a man, you might prefer a waxed pampered violin players but there are many women out there that like a hairy muscular rugged guy.



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That is called being a man unlike the modern metro sexual guys that choose to wax their entire bodies. Hair is natural and so it should be grown naturally, I like contrast between a man and a woman.

women also have body hair. that is called "being a woman".


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That is called being a man unlike the modern metro sexual guys that choose to wax their entire bodies. Hair is natural and so it should be grown naturally, I like contrast between a man and a woman.

women also have body hair. that is called "being a woman".


Smoothness is a sign of femininity whereas being hairy is a sign of masculinity.