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Be direct? Okay. Blue Max, you are a super-cutie. And Shrox has those eyes that seem to be looking at something beautiful. But he is soooo out of my league.

DH's anger issues have squished most of my feelings for him so...

Dang. My train of thought pulled out of the station and I just stood on the platform waving. Never mind.

I just realized DH can stand for two things--both of which are equally applicable to the individual in question.

Personality is like ice tea on a hot day. You can never have too much. Some people's are just a bit too sweet or way to bitter. You have just the right amount!

But I personify the concept of "go big or go home." - in size and in personality... (I am almost 7 feet tall)

Well thank you very much! I'm usually just called a pushy old lady, I like your version better. As for how many girls, that's up to you , where you live, what the dating scene is like there, etc. I would suggest though that at the beginning, you should go for quantity not just focusing on quality, for dating (I'm not talking about sex, I'm talking about dates, to practice going out and flirting and honing those skills to use on Miss Right, although for all anybody knows, one of the Miss Right Now's might turn out to be Miss Right herself) Don't go so overboard with asking girls out that they start thinking of you as a dog, but do be friendly, chivalrous (no matter what some people say, it's a good thing!) polite, and interested in them. That's honestly one of the most attractive things from a guy. Being interested in you. Don't be asking a million questions like it's an interview or anything, but do talk to her, draw her out some, listen to her or learn to pretend to be interested because that's a skill that everybody needs sometimes. Try going out with a group if that's easier for you at first, so it's not as much pressure as a one on one date. Don't ever just dump a girl and ignore her, try to remain friends because they can be your best source of information for what you are doing wrong or right later on. Also, every guy needs at least one female friend I think.

Perhaps... but it has been argued the other way... Like rain, a bit is enough, and sometimes a lot can be acceptable... but look what Katrina did to New Orleans... and she was, after all, just an upitty rain storm...

Please do not confuse my statements for low self esteem in any way. I am sure of who I am, and not likely to attempt to change this to please others... as a matter of fact, I am not sure I could change my force of personality if I wanted to...

But I personify the concept of "go big or go home." - in size and in personality... (I am almost 7 feet tall)

Have you ever thought of just starting over with somebody different?