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auntblabby
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23 Jul 2013, 2:59 am

outside of this present lifetime is where karma truly works.



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23 Jul 2013, 3:01 am

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outside of this present lifetime is where karma truly works.


Only for those who believe in afterlife (or beforelife)



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23 Jul 2013, 8:32 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
outside of this present lifetime is where karma truly works.


Only for those who believe in afterlife (or beforelife)


if there is an afterlife and/or a beforelife, does that mean that we are currently in between life?


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23 Jul 2013, 9:03 am

Well, you're better without her.

But I don' see why her behaviour is related to Asperger. She just didn't care and didn't have any respect for you. This is not Asperger, this is defined by another not very polite word.

I have been dealing with this s**t most of my 30s. Nowadays, it's like most of modern women are like that. Or at least, most of women that remain single after 25-30.

A few years ago I took a break from dating and I'm still there. Sometimes I have been thinking about going back but truth is after all those years of dealing with this s**t, I felt incredibly lazy about it. Everytime I was thinking in dating somebody, it was like 'oh, just a few more months alone, and then I go back'.

This s**t burns you out. It burnt me out. So my piece of advice: wait for some nice girl that comes well recommended by friends and people you trust. Until then, girls that you pick here and there... just for sex. Don't get involved. The odds of finding a good one are close to zero. And the only thing you'll get is getting hurt.


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23 Jul 2013, 10:13 am

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Aww. :( I'm really sorry you had to go through such a torturous situation, and if I could I'd send a cockbump your way. Not every Aspie girl is into gay roid porn, if it makes you feel better. :)

Be strong.


I suspected she's aspie when I found she like roid buffs

Because I know a handful bunch of aspie girls into this *hint*


Don't stereotype. Pretty sure liking roid buffs isn't an ASD trait in the DSM. :shameonyou:



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23 Jul 2013, 10:15 am

WTF I CAN´T BELIEVE YOU´RE DOING THIS, BOO!
I TOLD YOU TO KEEP QUIET ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP AND NOW YOU´RE JUST PUTTING IN OUT HERE FOR EVERYONE TO READ.

I HATE YOU! GLAD YOU DUMPED ME!



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23 Jul 2013, 10:18 am

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WTF I CAN´T BELIEVE YOU´RE DOING THIS, BOO!
I TOLD YOU TO KEEP QUIET ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP AND NOW YOU´RE JUST PUTTING IN OUT HERE FOR EVERYONE TO READ.

I HATE YOU! GLAD YOU DUMPED ME!


Aww, don't feel too bad. We've all heard about how mean those awful guys can be.... :wink:



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23 Jul 2013, 10:31 am

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I've decided to ditch my Aspie girlfriend, for good.

I've been fighting with her since week 1 I moved to her place: cups, dishes, vases ... were of the few things broken in the process, and she always made me buy new ones despite she started the fights 80% of the times, if I start the fight she makes me pay for the losses because I started it, and if she starts the fight she makes me pay too because she says I was the one who caused her anger, so it's always my fault she says either way!! Not to mention the injuries she caused, she's a policewoman and a former grenadier in the army, so I was no match for her.
The one who throws is the one responsible. Beside that I would leave the moment something is thrown at me. At walls its ok, as long as noone tells me to be responsible for it, if I had not thrown, but throwing stuff on people is a nogo.

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Not only that, but I 've caught her several times masterbating over Roid-buff gay porn on her laptop at night, just besides me, in bed while I was sleeping!! ! I mean hey I know it's her bed, her room, but couldn't she go to some other room to do it?? no respect at all! and no consideration for my feelings :(.
So I think our cultures are a bit different about that, but I agree, when I am in the same room and available, it was unpolite at least to not even ask me if I may want to have some fun, instead of simply starting to watch some porn.

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And she always called me names, I don't even recall the last time she called me with my name: Shrimp, donkey, imbecile, you son of b*** are some of the most used names.
And again we go...exactly meant that way.

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And she kept telling me of Mustafa's enormous willie, her colleague policeman, not sure how she knows the size but she claimed that toilets/showers are shared in their HQ.
The prude the USA are, I hardly can believe them having double sex washrooms, if not necessary?

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And oh, her cooking stinks, no salt, no spices, and she puts like the half qty of water needed for rice, she likes the rice crashing under teeth, and I was always the one who did the chores!
Thats a reason to practice cooking together more often, but none to leave a woman nowadays. ^^


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Then one day, the barista (a drop out psychology college student) of our local cafe had pointed out that my partner has Asperger's - ever since it all makes sense now!! it wasn't my fault at all! It was her nature, I can't change her, she won't change! ALL her jerky behaviors make sense now and I no longer feel guilty! She's an aspie girl so she can't help it.
Because of being an aspie girl, I must be a complete idiot, throwing things at my partner, blaming him for stuff I do, call him bad names... and cause my partner injuries? And cant help that in any way. Ohm ok, haven´t known of that yet.

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So I've finally built up the courage yesterday to break up with her!! Yeah!
The right step from my oppinion.

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but I need some support, especially from you aspie girls :'(
Dont you think its a bit weird, to tell us two sentences before that we were rude, unpolite, crazy, emotional manipulating people that cant help themselves, because of us having behaviour and then ask for support by that creatures? Have a clap on your shoulder, but I cant give into a hug right now.



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23 Jul 2013, 10:36 am

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WTF I CAN´T BELIEVE YOU´RE DOING THIS, BOO!
I TOLD YOU TO KEEP QUIET ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP AND NOW YOU´RE JUST PUTTING IN OUT HERE FOR EVERYONE TO READ.

I HATE YOU! GLAD YOU DUMPED ME!


YOU KEPT THROWING VASES AT ME YOU H***! ! YOU'VE ALMOST KILLED ME LAST TIME!! BESIDES IT'S YOU WHO JUST EXPOSED YOURSELF NOW!!

I HATE YOU EVEN MORE! STOP FOLLOWING ME!



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23 Jul 2013, 10:38 am

LOL Schneekugel.

The thread is a parody.



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23 Jul 2013, 11:38 am

Exactly how old are you, to think about that as something being funny?



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23 Jul 2013, 11:40 am

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Exactly how old are you, to think about that as something being funny?


There had been literally dozens of threads here relating all the spouses' jerky behaviors to Asperger's while the spouse isn't even officially diagnosed.



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23 Jul 2013, 12:07 pm

Schneekugel wrote:
Exactly how old are you, to think about that as something being funny?


And I am 9 years old, you have a problem with that?



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23 Jul 2013, 12:12 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
WTF I CAN´T BELIEVE YOU´RE DOING THIS, BOO!
I TOLD YOU TO KEEP QUIET ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP AND NOW YOU´RE JUST PUTTING IN OUT HERE FOR EVERYONE TO READ.

I HATE YOU! GLAD YOU DUMPED ME!


YOU KEPT THROWING VASES AT ME YOU H***! ! YOU'VE ALMOST KILLED ME LAST TIME!! BESIDES IT'S YOU WHO JUST EXPOSED YOURSELF NOW!!

I HATE YOU EVEN MORE! STOP FOLLOWING ME!


f**k YOU!



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23 Jul 2013, 12:35 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
WTF I CAN´T BELIEVE YOU´RE DOING THIS, BOO!
I TOLD YOU TO KEEP QUIET ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP AND NOW YOU´RE JUST PUTTING IN OUT HERE FOR EVERYONE TO READ.

I HATE YOU! GLAD YOU DUMPED ME!


YOU KEPT THROWING VASES AT ME YOU H***! ! YOU'VE ALMOST KILLED ME LAST TIME!! BESIDES IT'S YOU WHO JUST EXPOSED YOURSELF NOW!!

I HATE YOU EVEN MORE! STOP FOLLOWING ME!


f**k YOU!


BTW, WHERE'S MY XBOX360??? I DIDN'T FIND IT WHEN I LEFT!



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23 Jul 2013, 12:41 pm

Cafeaulait: From what I hear, the next appropriate step is to destroy his car. :jester: