The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I've decided to ditch my Aspie girlfriend, for good.
I've been fighting with her since week 1 I moved to her place: cups, dishes, vases ... were of the few things broken in the process, and she always made me buy new ones despite she started the fights 80% of the times, if I start the fight she makes me pay for the losses because I started it, and if she starts the fight she makes me pay too because she says I was the one who caused her anger, so it's always my fault she says either way!! Not to mention the injuries she caused, she's a policewoman and a former grenadier in the army, so I was no match for her.
The one who throws is the one responsible. Beside that I would leave the moment something is thrown at me. At walls its ok, as long as noone tells me to be responsible for it, if I had not thrown, but throwing stuff on people is a nogo.
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Not only that, but I 've caught her several times masterbating over Roid-buff gay porn on her laptop at night, just besides me, in bed while I was sleeping!! ! I mean hey I know it's her bed, her room, but couldn't she go to some other room to do it?? no respect at all! and no consideration for my feelings

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So I think our cultures are a bit different about that, but I agree, when I am in the same room and available, it was unpolite at least to not even ask me if I may want to have some fun, instead of simply starting to watch some porn.
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And she always called me names, I don't even recall the last time she called me with my name: Shrimp, donkey, imbecile, you son of b*** are some of the most used names.
And again we go...exactly meant that way.
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And she kept telling me of Mustafa's enormous willie, her colleague policeman, not sure how she knows the size but she claimed that toilets/showers are shared in their HQ.
The prude the USA are, I hardly can believe them having double sex washrooms, if not necessary?
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And oh, her cooking stinks, no salt, no spices, and she puts like the half qty of water needed for rice, she likes the rice crashing under teeth, and I was always the one who did the chores!
Thats a reason to practice cooking together more often, but none to leave a woman nowadays. ^^
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Then one day, the barista (a drop out psychology college student) of our local cafe had pointed out that my partner has Asperger's - ever since it all makes sense now!! it wasn't my fault at all! It was her nature, I can't change her, she won't change! ALL her jerky behaviors make sense now and I no longer feel guilty! She's an aspie girl so she can't help it.
Because of being an aspie girl, I must be a complete idiot, throwing things at my partner, blaming him for stuff I do, call him bad names... and cause my partner injuries? And cant help that in any way. Ohm ok, haven´t known of that yet.
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So I've finally built up the courage yesterday to break up with her!! Yeah!
The right step from my oppinion.
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but I need some support, especially from you aspie girls :'(
Dont you think its a bit weird, to tell us two sentences before that we were rude, unpolite, crazy, emotional manipulating people that cant help themselves, because of us having behaviour and then ask for support by that creatures? Have a clap on your shoulder, but I cant give into a hug right now.