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05 Oct 2013, 1:35 am

theres a right way and a wrong way your saying. I'm going to leave it. I get on well with people at the pharmacy don't want to wreck that.



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05 Oct 2013, 1:56 am

First thing to keep in mind is to stop worshiping her.



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05 Oct 2013, 2:07 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
First thing to keep in mind is to stop worshiping her.


Ok



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05 Oct 2013, 2:12 am

actually ive lost interest, but maybe i was a tad obsessive



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05 Oct 2013, 2:44 am

I bet it's elkian's ewww reaction has discouraged you.



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05 Oct 2013, 2:48 am

no, it was how she said if I manage to walk the social tightrope



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05 Oct 2013, 5:18 am

Honestly, I think that asking out girls at clerical work happen only in PUA materials - your best bet I say that you learn her name *from her* by talking with her a bit - adding her on fb like after 2 days and from there try to chat with her.



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05 Oct 2013, 9:39 am

YOLO



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05 Oct 2013, 3:02 pm

so... cheating huh? whats with THAT!?



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05 Oct 2013, 8:05 pm

the_alchemist wrote:
so... cheating huh? whats with THAT!?


It appears to be an action related to Confucianism. In the manner that one is responsible for oneself, yet, there is only one life that you have been granted. It is living that life which is tantamount to the social constraints that are placed from the outside. Or, as many have coined:

YOLO!! !


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