I played a mind game on my gf.

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28 Oct 2013, 9:10 am

I wonder how many people read the whole thread before posting.

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28 Oct 2013, 9:30 am

Shau wrote:

I wonder how many people read the whole thread before posting.

Went it through, you haven't improved your arguments since the first page.

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28 Oct 2013, 9:39 am

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Shau wrote:

I wonder how many people read the whole thread before posting.

Went it through, you haven't improved your arguments since the first page.

If you look in the previous page, I already got to the root of it, which makes...

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Also you have to sort out the root of the problem, if you want your relationship to be fine.

...seem a little spurious. That said, I could just as easily criticize you for being willing to quickly throw away a relationship just because a guy used a mind game to push back against his domineering girlfriend.

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28 Oct 2013, 9:49 am

Shau wrote:

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Shau wrote:

I wonder how many people read the whole thread before posting.

Went it through, you haven't improved your arguments since the first page.

If you look in the previous page, I already got to the root of it, which makes...

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Also you have to sort out the root of the problem, if you want your relationship to be fine.

Negative, I see you having sorted out nothing with her. Just defending yourself to the critique here.

Personally, I don't go for bad relationships so I don't see your point.

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28 Oct 2013, 9:57 am

^ Well she's stopped it with the domineering, so I think I made a point. That said, it's been a good relationship so far, but it hasn't been without it's bumps.

Are you SURE you've read the whole thread? Or have read my other threads about her?

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28 Oct 2013, 10:19 am

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I have read the whole thread. Have you? You seem to have missed a few essential points what people have been making.

Other threads, no, I haven't been here for a while.

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28 Oct 2013, 10:28 am

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I have read the whole thread. Have you? You seem to have missed a few essential points what people have been making.

Other threads, no, I haven't been here for a while.

Oh yes, I've been a bad man. Both of us have, that horrible domineering she-devil and me, horrible mind game-playing Machiavelli. We have such a horrible relationship!

But don't worry, I don't plan on playing this card again. Now that we've "broken the ice" about the issue hopefully talking should be sufficient in the future.

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28 Oct 2013, 10:35 am

Shau wrote:

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I have read the whole thread. Have you? You seem to have missed a few essential points what people have been making.

Other threads, no, I haven't been here for a while.

Let us hope so. I have a feeling that this isn't the last thread you'll make about your current relationship :roll:

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28 Oct 2013, 10:49 am

Was there anything stopping you from talking directly and candidly about the issue with her instead of playing the "breakup card?" You are setting a bad precedent.........

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28 Oct 2013, 10:53 am

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Was there anything stopping you from talking directly and candidly about the issue with her instead of playing the "breakup card?" You are setting a bad precedent.........

You know what's funny? I've already been asked that question in this thread, and answered that very question.

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Let us hope so. I have a feeling that this isn't the last thread you'll make about your current relationship :roll:

I'm sure it's going to be a rollercoaster, darling.

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28 Oct 2013, 11:14 am

Shau wrote:

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Was there anything stopping you from talking directly and candidly about the issue with her instead of playing the "breakup card?" You are setting a bad precedent.........

You know what's funny? I've already been asked that question in this thread, and answered that very question.

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Let us hope so. I have a feeling that this isn't the last thread you'll make about your current relationship :roll:

I'm sure it's going to be a rollercoaster, darling.

It still sounds to me that being all "macho" is more important to you than the actual state of your relationship.

I'd kindly like to ask you not to "darling" me or use any similar pet names.

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28 Oct 2013, 11:32 am

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I'd kindly like to ask you not to "darling" me or use any similar pet names.

Just a common word for any person where I was raised, Lilya, except between men. That said, the "acting macho" came after she kept trying to domineer me, and she admitted this herself. So I "acted macho" for a bit and she backed off, and that's when the admission came.

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt241632.html

This is the thread where I talk about how being nice to her is how I originally gained her as a girlfriend. To be honest, what I think happened is that she had to make sure I was packing a bit of spine with some of that nice. Let's face it, no girl wants a pushover boyfriend.

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28 Oct 2013, 11:51 am

Typical wrongplanet woman behavior. Trying to swing nuts that she doesn't even have. :salut:

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28 Oct 2013, 12:03 pm

^ how's about not intentionally riling people up kthx.

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28 Oct 2013, 12:09 pm

Ok master shau.

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28 Oct 2013, 12:14 pm

lost561 wrote:

Ok master shau.

Yes, call me master cause I'm the big bad alpha now. :lol:

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