how not to piss off women

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30 Oct 2013, 9:10 am

if you say hi to women and you look like this, you will probably be considered a creeper.

but if you say hi and you look like this, then women will be like "omg plz talk to me more"

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30 Oct 2013, 4:16 pm

Kjas brings up some very good points and I have seen that in my dating experience as well. It's actually quite similar to what I mentioned about women "needing a constant in their life" IMO. (referring to the part where you refer to people refusing to leave incompatible relationships.)

However, I often view the passive aggressive "silent treatment." as "it's over" if it happens early. If a problem happens that quickly, what's the point in continuing?

I find it funny that the social skills issue is always pinned on Aspergers, but the social skills men and women have (regardless of diagnosis) is obviously very different from eachother as pointed out, and as experienced.

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30 Oct 2013, 5:20 pm

Codyrules37 wrote:

if you say hi to women and you look like this, you will probably be considered a creeper.

but if you say hi and you look like this, then women will be like "omg plz talk to me more"

unfair.

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30 Oct 2013, 6:13 pm

so,here's what happen with the four women,I
pissed off

lady A:I ask her to buy me coffee(to be fair,
it was the Christmas season)
Lady B: she is engaged,and I
told her,''marriage was stupid,
and a waste of time''
Lady c,d:I have no idea what I did.
they just started hating me for
some reason.

beside them ''mad'' ladies,I made
3 new female friends,so,yeah for me.

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30 Oct 2013, 6:17 pm

^^^
lucky you, you're doing way better than me.

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30 Oct 2013, 6:23 pm

auntblabby wrote:

^^^
lucky you, you're doing way better than me.

thanks. I just talk to alot of ladies.
alot of trial and error.

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30 Oct 2013, 6:26 pm

billiscool wrote:

So for Ladies A & B, I think my advice works. Stop asking Lady A to buy you things, and stop telling Lady B that her major life decisions are stupid. Don't do either of those things to any other women either, and I think you will lessen your chances of pissing them off.

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30 Oct 2013, 6:29 pm

yellowtamarin wrote:

sure,I'll try.

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30 Oct 2013, 9:22 pm

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Lady B: she is engaged,and I
told her,''marriage was stupid,
and a waste of time''

so I'm just sitting here dumbfounded at how you couldn't see that that was insulting and that it was a REALLY BAD IDEA to say it.

I mean, my jaw is literally hanging open.

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31 Oct 2013, 8:59 am

Well most of us aren't that ugly or attractive. (the two pictures I posted). Most of us fall in the middle of attractiveness and that's okay.

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31 Oct 2013, 9:03 am

Make sure you pay them as soon as you get through the door.

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31 Oct 2013, 12:19 pm

Well, one of the things that I'd like myself in a male would be for him to be a gentleman.

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02 Nov 2013, 11:15 am

Just be nice and play nice too.

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02 Nov 2013, 11:30 am

Some women deserve to be pissed off. :twisted:

I mean that in both senses.

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02 Nov 2013, 2:16 pm

My point was I look up to people (stars)I admire, anything else is most probably hoped for by some men, in vain.

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02 Nov 2013, 2:45 pm

I can think of plenty.. leave the toilet seat up, hide the toiletpaper in the bathroom also sing this song! [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kmuqq729DPM[/youtube]those with short fuses will take this song seriously and get really pissed! Others will say oh gawd thats not true and chuckle and know not to take it seriously. Mentioning kitchens and sandwitches will make them really mad! I wouldnt recommend doing this to all women unless you want them to chase you with torches and pitchforks but maybe only to women that you dont like that are jerks to you.

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