Don't have a sweetheart on valentines day?
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Don't worry! She'll just suck it up and get over it.

Exactly. I will. Thats the point of it.
Get over yourself and eh, grow up too.
I seem to be the grownup one in this little conversation.
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Furthermore, your happiness doesn't depend on extraneous things such as being single on Valentine's Day. It depends on YOU. The moment you start regulating your own emotions and deciding how you are going to feel, that's the moment your emotions aren't so turbulent and you can embrace happiness much more easily.
Ninja1992, meet goldfish21. goldfish21, meet Ninja1992.

I mean, c'mon.. seriously.. 1992? That'd make him/her ~21/22 years old... that's waaaaaay too old for me!

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Exactly. I will. Thats the point of it.
Get over yourself and eh, grow up too.
I seem to be the grownup one in this little conversation.
I'm not the one with my head wedged up my behind, darling.
I have a man! He might be furry, have four legs and a tail and no balls, but he's still a man!! !! !!
Right?
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Furthermore, your happiness doesn't depend on extraneous things such as being single on Valentine's Day. It depends on YOU. The moment you start regulating your own emotions and deciding how you are going to feel, that's the moment your emotions aren't so turbulent and you can embrace happiness much more easily.
Ninja1992, meet goldfish21. goldfish21, meet Ninja1992.

I mean, c'mon.. seriously.. 1992? That'd make him/her ~21/22 years old... that's waaaaaay too old for me!

It's him. I was thinking of a steamy bromance. Here's another guy who claims to have overcome autism. You two seem to have a lot in common.
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Exactly. I will. Thats the point of it.
Get over yourself and eh, grow up too.
I seem to be the grownup one in this little conversation.
I'm not the one with my head wedged up my behind, darling.
you're the one whining like a little b***h though.
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Furthermore, your happiness doesn't depend on extraneous things such as being single on Valentine's Day. It depends on YOU. The moment you start regulating your own emotions and deciding how you are going to feel, that's the moment your emotions aren't so turbulent and you can embrace happiness much more easily.
Ninja1992, meet goldfish21. goldfish21, meet Ninja1992.

I mean, c'mon.. seriously.. 1992? That'd make him/her ~21/22 years old... that's waaaaaay too old for me!

It's him. I was thinking of a steamy bromance. Here's another guy who claims to have overcome autism. You two seem to have a lot in common.
Aw, bromance.

I've transparently shared what my experience has & continues to be. Articles keep coming out about specific probiotic strains missing in the guts of Autistics, gut dysbiosis being researched as a cause of Autism, probiotic therapies reducing Autism symptoms in mice etc. I've experienced the human equivalent and continue to treat myself. I'm ever nearing the stage of loading up on probiotics, but I know based on my observations of symptoms that my digestive tract is not 100% completely cleared yet so I'm continuing to work on that. Further, I have to do a little research into finding supplements that contain the specific strains said to be missing from the Autistic gut. I think I may have found one, just need to read the details and confirm. Another possibility would be people doing fecal transplants from the guts of healthy balanced individuals via sterile water solution enemas - but to perfect that with certainty would require lab testing of stool samples for specific strains of microorganisms. However, if someone knew someone they considered very well "balanced," and healthy, it would require lab testing to know that their gut was plenty more balanced than one's own and it wouldn't hurt anything to take on their bacteria & would likely benefit greatly. More gross science, but I'm just sayin'..
And IF he's made these claims somewhere I haven't read them, but IF he has, that would mean we have one thing in common - which by my books isn't "a lot."
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Nothing about the op was mean spirited. If that's your perception of it, it's due to your own depressive thinking.
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Nothing about the op was mean spirited. If that's your perception of it, it's due to your own depressive thinking.
No. The big tough OP was inferring those peoples problems are insignificant to her own. Because she's tough and SHE can take it and it makes her better than them. She needs shoving off her high horse.
Furthermore, your happiness doesn't depend on extraneous things such as being single on Valentine's Day. It depends on YOU. The moment you start regulating your own emotions and deciding how you are going to feel, that's the moment your emotions aren't so turbulent and you can embrace happiness much more easily.
Ninja1992, meet goldfish21. goldfish21, meet Ninja1992.

I mean, c'mon.. seriously.. 1992? That'd make him/her ~21/22 years old... that's waaaaaay too old for me!

It's him. I was thinking of a steamy bromance. Here's another guy who claims to have overcome autism. You two seem to have a lot in common.
Aw, bromance.

I've transparently shared what my experience has & continues to be. Articles keep coming out about specific probiotic strains missing in the guts of Autistics, gut dysbiosis being researched as a cause of Autism, probiotic therapies reducing Autism symptoms in mice etc. I've experienced the human equivalent and continue to treat myself. I'm ever nearing the stage of loading up on probiotics, but I know based on my observations of symptoms that my digestive tract is not 100% completely cleared yet so I'm continuing to work on that. Further, I have to do a little research into finding supplements that contain the specific strains said to be missing from the Autistic gut. I think I may have found one, just need to read the details and confirm. Another possibility would be people doing fecal transplants from the guts of healthy balanced individuals via sterile water solution enemas - but to perfect that with certainty would require lab testing of stool samples for specific strains of microorganisms. However, if someone knew someone they considered very well "balanced," and healthy, it would require lab testing to know that their gut was plenty more balanced than one's own and it wouldn't hurt anything to take on their bacteria & would likely benefit greatly. More gross science, but I'm just sayin'..
And IF he's made these claims somewhere I haven't read them, but IF he has, that would mean we have one thing in common - which by my books isn't "a lot."
Did I say anything about your "cure"? I was referring to your earlier sex claims. He says that it's easy for him to get laid, that he mastered pick-up artistry, that autism helped him build his body and that he's using his intelligence to overcome ASD. He's started a WP thread giving dating advice. Just look up the threads he started since joining WP today ... do I need to do all the work? Just though you might hit it off.
http://www.wrongplanet.net/forumssearch-search_author-Ninja1992.html
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Nothing about the op was mean spirited. If that's your perception of it, it's due to your own depressive thinking.
No. The big tough OP was inferring those peoples problems are insignificant to her own. Because she's tough and SHE can take it and it makes her better than them. She needs shoving off her high horse.
No, you little whiney b***h, thats not what I meant at all. I was so not lording it over people that I am married. LOL, oh hell no. You can have my marriage if you want, but wait, my husband wouldn't put up with you at all what with all that whining. The thing is, we ALL have to toughen up. The world is rough. It hurts. We will all get knocked around. To be able to stand up in it, we have to get tougher. I'm sorry that you think that everybody should make things soft and easy but thats not the case.
You got anything else to do today by any chance, or are you just gonna wait to see what I say so you can say something back?
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Nothing about the op was mean spirited. If that's your perception of it, it's due to your own depressive thinking.
BS.Im the furthest from depressed.And I'm not the only one that found her post cruel.If anyone's depressed it's her.And for good reason,her life does suck.
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Nothing about the op was mean spirited. If that's your perception of it, it's due to your own depressive thinking.
BS.Im the furthest from depressed.And I'm not the only one that found her post cruel.If anyone's depressed it's her.And for good reason,her life does suck.
Yeah it does suck. And my post wasn't mean spirited. When you pick up a pen and write, what prevents your finger from getting a blister? A callous does. How do you get a callous? By rubbing it on the pen and writing. In other words, you do have to develop a tough outer layer. You have one. I have one. Why is it so bad to want others to get one when it helps deflect the hurt?
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Nothing about the op was mean spirited. If that's your perception of it, it's due to your own depressive thinking.
"Other people have problems, therefore your loneliness is insignificant, basement dwellers" is helpful, well-intentioned advice. Thank you for keeping people informed.
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Some people can't really toughin'up.They are just naturally tender.Some kids will eventually punch their bully.Others will go home and kill themselves over mean texts someone sent them.
Some make adversity their b***h and others jump off a bridge.
I guess some people are rabbits in a wolf world,they can't really change that.I don't think the meek will inherit anything,certainly not the earth.Someone will take it from them.I just feel sorry for all the people at work and other places and they see people getting all this stuff and no one sends them anything.If they are already feeling down on themselves and insecure,this day really hammer it in.
I don't expect to get anything and not bothered by it,the younger crowd suffers more from that I think.All their friends going out and they have no one.
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