10 reasons why being a man sucks!

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14 Mar 2014, 4:32 am

If you don't shave, you're a rapist
If you don't style your hair, you're a rapist
If you're shy, you're a rapist
If you're too nice, you're a rapist
If you don't act confident, you're a rapist
If you don't "enjoy" getting raped, you're a rapist
If you call a girl on a day she is in a bad mood, you're a rapist



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15 Mar 2014, 1:52 pm

a woman can live with her parents at pretty much any age and it won't affect her dating life/sex life but if a man still lives at home past a certain age, it looks much worse, most women will refuse to date him unfortuneately



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15 Mar 2014, 2:07 pm

Aaendi wrote:
If you don't shave, you're a rapist
If you don't style your hair, you're a rapist
If you're shy, you're a rapist
If you're too nice, you're a rapist
If you don't act confident, you're a rapist
If you don't "enjoy" getting raped, you're a rapist
If you call a girl on a day she is in a bad mood, you're a rapist


You missed one.

If you have non-consensual sex with someone, you're a rapist!



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15 Mar 2014, 2:25 pm

1. Everything everywhere makes you think of sex
2 -10 - see above



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15 Mar 2014, 2:59 pm

Marcia: Oh sure, make the list realistic. I thought the point of that list was hyperbole.


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15 Mar 2014, 8:08 pm

Marcia wrote:
Aaendi wrote:
If you don't shave, you're a rapist
If you don't style your hair, you're a rapist
If you're shy, you're a rapist
If you're too nice, you're a rapist
If you don't act confident, you're a rapist
If you don't "enjoy" getting raped, you're a rapist
If you call a girl on a day she is in a bad mood, you're a rapist


You missed one.

If you have non-consensual sex with someone, you're a rapist!


That's right. If I have coitus with someone, and I never consented to it, then I'm a RAPIST!



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15 Mar 2014, 8:23 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
a woman can live with her parents at pretty much any age and it won't affect her dating life/sex life but if a man still lives at home past a certain age, it looks much worse, most women will refuse to date him unfortuneately


Yup...just one of many reasons I'll only ever know loneliness and rejection :cry:


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15 Mar 2014, 10:12 pm

Aaendi wrote:
If you don't shave, you're a rapist
If you don't style your hair, you're a rapist
If you're shy, you're a rapist
If you're too nice, you're a rapist
If you don't act confident, you're a rapist
If you don't "enjoy" getting raped, you're a rapist
If you call a girl on a day she is in a bad mood, you're a rapist


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15 Mar 2014, 10:21 pm

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19 Mar 2014, 3:54 pm

newageretrohippie wrote:
WantToHaveALife wrote:
a woman can live with her parents at pretty much any age and it won't affect her dating life/sex life but if a man still lives at home past a certain age, it looks much worse, most women will refuse to date him unfortuneately


Yup...just one of many reasons I'll only ever know loneliness and rejection :cry:


I can accept and deal with it but that doesn't mean I have to like it or enjoy it



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20 Mar 2014, 10:32 am

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1. Everything everywhere makes you think of sex
2 -10 - see above

I guess that's one thing I don't have in common with most men and why I wanted to hang around with girls as a kid(although the feeling was NOT mutual). I would say the biggest difficulty in being a tall, emotional and sensitive man is that everyone expects you to be tough just because you are male when in reality I am a complete wimp and only pretend to be tough. You're pretty much in a double bind as a man: stand up for yourself and you are a bully/abuser and take it without doing anything and you are a wuss/wimp.

Even though until recently I related better to women and find them to have plenty of advantages with double standards (like having a car, money and living at home) I'm still happy and prefer to be male, I just wish being more sweet and sensitive than the average guy wasn't seen as such a bad thing. I would love to be a woman (or a "macho" man) for a month just to see what it's REALLY like though but that's obviously not going to happen.



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20 Mar 2014, 11:25 am

GiantHockeyFan wrote:
leafplant wrote:
1. Everything everywhere makes you think of sex
2 -10 - see above

I guess that's one thing I don't have in common with most men and why I wanted to hang around with girls as a kid(although the feeling was NOT mutual). I would say the biggest difficulty in being a tall, emotional and sensitive man is that everyone expects you to be tough just because you are male when in reality I am a complete wimp and only pretend to be tough. You're pretty much in a double bind as a man: stand up for yourself and you are a bully/abuser and take it without doing anything and you are a wuss/wimp.

Even though until recently I related better to women and find them to have plenty of advantages with double standards (like having a car, money and living at home) I'm still happy and prefer to be male, I just wish being more sweet and sensitive than the average guy wasn't seen as such a bad thing. I would love to be a woman (or a "macho" man) for a month just to see what it's REALLY like though but that's obviously not going to happen.



Do you hear the "but come on! you're a man!" or something similar from women a lot?



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20 Mar 2014, 11:43 am

My ex's dad was working on a roof and slid off,on the way down his penis got snagged on a nail.This is when it would really suck to be a man.


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20 Mar 2014, 12:02 pm

listen to you people, its all social economics. if we lived back in the ice age, lots of hair on either sex would be good, and so would be lots of fat.

Secondly, were doing something that is not natural just to please each other, that is not acceptance of who we are as human animal. Men also have to shave to look pleasing to the opposite sex, and our hair grows much faster on our faces then on a womans legs. if a mate wanted me to shave my balls I would have no problem with it. If I was a woman and wanted to shave between my legs, I would do it, screw what other females think. likewise if I really wanted a beard I would grow one.

If man cries women thinks he is weak for doing so, even though they say its OK because they can do it too. but they lose confidence in that male when he does, and male confidence is most everything to women. even though women don't have to be the same.

Gender roles; there has to be some differences for their to be male or female traits and characteristics that defines us as the sex that we are, or see our selves being, and to attract those of the opposite gender (or same). everyone is fighting for equality, where there is none, there cant be if were to have this division in nature. and any special rights for one only creates imbalances for the other sex.

As for me, why does being a man sux? women are the employers the men are the unemployed. and if I have any feminin traits that only keeps me unemployed even longer. its OK for women to want to be equal to man, even the same as men, but not men to women. if your not maleness enough for a women, forget it. while tomboys are totally acceptable.,

And I would totally love it if someone could explain to me how to get a woman to hit on me instead of me doing all the hitting and getting rejected. I would like to be the employer for a change. I would love it if some women thought I was worth enough to chase after and try and empress and hold onto. I am sick of trying to be that alpha for women. but to say I can be my self regardless dooms me to even less chances of being with a woman. women has more relationship options then men so they do not understand our dilemma. they figure we have the same rights as they do, when they now have a clear advantage. because their that employer. women only see what they cant have.


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20 Mar 2014, 1:59 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Do you hear the "but come on! you're a man!" or something similar from women a lot?

Naw, most single 20 something women just ignore me or flake. Now married women and mothers universally love me but that doesnt do a whole lot of good. Go figure I am presently dating a single mother so we will see how that goes. I know we are all sick of hearing "women love bad boys" but the simple fact us ALL my former bullies are married to high quality women they don't deserve or treat fairly while Im still single.

I do love the modern woman=employer comparison as its very accurate but lets not forget though they have the upper hand, employers still have to wade through a ton of garbage. I posted a online classified ad and took it down because it wasn't worth dealing with the headaches.



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20 Mar 2014, 2:18 pm

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I do love the modern woman=employer comparison as its very accurate but lets not forget though they have the upper hand, employers still have to wade through a ton of garbage. I posted a online classified ad and took it down because it wasn't worth dealing with the headaches.


So most men are garbage? how picky or spoiled are they? please do tell.


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