Have you ever questioned your sexuality before?

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Yes, and I'm bi.

I've often questioned my sexuality, I now conclude that I'm bisexual.

Yes... but then again, it is in my nature to question anything and everything.

I am (curently) asexual. I have NEVER been interested in either gender. If I am to ever try this "fall in love" thing I have been hearing about, I should hope that the gender of the object of my affection will not matter to me. I intend to just take things as they come.

I don't think I ever really questioned it. When I got to middle school I just sort of noticed I liked boys and not girls, so I went with it. I did however once question if it'd be any easier to find a mate if I'd been different.

I have questioned my sexuality a lot, and the story to go along with it is quite extensive so I will give the short version. When I was way younger I would hang out with a close family friend who is gay, and so I was introduced to the idea of it very young. From there I figured out quite quickly that I like girls. (Oh background not I am trans and I used to be a girl) Ok moving on, so I lived most of middle school as a lesbian, but something was still wrong with the situation. And not until recently have I figured out what was wrong, that I thought of myself as a man. Once I figured that out, I had to ask myself again, "what does that make me" and the answer that came to me was that I still like girls but now I am a straight man not gay. So yeah there it is, the short version.

I've been called a fag several times, but I'm not.
I can't imagine doing another guy, it doesn't seem that enjoyable from my perspective
I've written bisexual characters into my stories though.

For a while my best friend was trying to "recruit" me.

I watched a gay porn with him. It just looked like the big guy was hurting the little guy.

I tried streaking with him. It was dull. I didnt realize I was supposed to be turned on.

I stopped at a redlight and stared down a shirtless guy jogging.

Nothing.

I got a new best friend. Now SHES trying to get me into bed.

Nope. Never. I always knew I wanted to get married to a women and have a family. I have never once ever considered the possibility I was anything other then Hetero.

I'm pretty sure I'm straight.

Straight as a board....

I'm straight. Not interested in women. I am interested in men. But, here's the funny thing: I think about sex, but I have no sex drive. I don't even like to cuddle.

I was raped by my ex, but that was 5 years ago and doesn't hardly bother me now. Before then, I just felt pressure to have sex to become "normal". A few years after that incident, I was diagnosed as HFA and now feel 100% Aspie "normal". I feel stupidly in love (lust? obsession?) with a former co-worker at a former employment, but it turns out he was just making a fool of me. Now, I just broke up with my NT boyfriend (we almost lasted two months!) because I made a social mistake and made him a nice romantic dinner, but totally forgot that those sort of situations turn a man on. I was just trying to be nice. Thank god I now know never to cook for another man again unless I'm in the mood for sex.

I've been sick with three cases of strep throat, a case of food poisoning, and have been on antibotics for two months, and just haven't been in the mood. I'm not sure if I should have forced myself to have sex with him to make him happy, but I'm not even sure if that would have solved the issue. At any rate, I blew up and exploded at him in a rage because I was upset over the fact that he said that by my age (I'm 25), I should know certain things and I don't. It's a fact, I shouldn't have gotten into such a blind rage - but it happened. I hurt him and hurt myself even worse for being so mean to a guy who was so nice. I know by the age of 25 I should be a lot more experienced in terms of relationships, but the fact of the matter is that I am not. After my ex, I just didn't date because I was too upset at myself and dealing with the emotional issues.

I am confused. Am I asexual or do I just simply lack a sex drive? What ever the answer, I am slipping back into my self-created prison and only interacting with the outside world when I have to - otherwise, I hurt myself and I hurt others. It's just so, ugh. Why can't people just write books on these issues?

never questioned it.
found myself thinking, 'oh, she's hot!' more often than 'oh, he's hot!' and while it did bewilder me the first time, i mostly shrugged and moved on with life.

not really ive always known i like girls

In middle school someone spread a rumor about me being gay. With people calling me gay on a near daily basis, I questioned whether I was or not for a short time.

But I'm not, I'm straight as an arrow.

an arrow follows a curved trajectory lol