A WP guide to getting women, by women.

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It's so disgusting, this is why i am going to lie to my next dates about my career (not even kidding, aleady lied on my tinder profile). I will then tell women the reason im renting out a room is because im saving up to buy a house. Their judgement is unfair and i dont agree with any of it so i am left with no choice but to fight and make the situation fair to me. I feel no shame because women feel no shame. I dont give a f**k what a woman does with her personal or professional life, the only woman that matters to me is the one she is when she's with me! And that is the only moral and right way to value a person.

If women think status/money its an easy yardstick to measure a man, well im her to break that yardstick in half.

We're gonna have a whole lot of women (and some men) come in here and try to fight me on this point, but it's literally one of the things that stops some men from ever finding a relationship.

Once a man figures out that, hey, nobody cares about how we act (see: any discussion about nice guys and finishing last), and that people only care about a man if he's accomplished some so-called "worthwhile" task like making money or learning to talk to everybody under the sun, life becomes easier.

I have a friend who is 45 years old and, just 2 years ago, got into a relationship. His very first one. He is NT. Wanna know why the woman dumped him? Because he didn't make enough money. It doesn't matter that he was able to stay at the company for 25 years and is a hard worker, what mattered was the money, and she was tired of him not having money to take her wherever even though he did have enough for the bare necessities.

Then a week after she dumped him, he came into the break room at my work and started crying. When he left, one of the women in there (a paltry "pharmacy technician" who makes like 8 dollars an hour) started saying "well, I think it's kind of lame that he has been working for this company for 25 years and is still in the same position. I wouldn't date him either." I wanted so bad to cuss her out, but it's endemic of how society views men. We are judged by our accomplishments, not by our character. Women can complain about being judged for their looks or whatever, but at least men won't totally down a woman for not being the CEO of a company after working for it for 20 years.

What gets me is the hypocrisy. Women who have jobs like working at Mickey D's for 5 dollars and change an hour, but they expect the man they end up with to be as rich as Bill Gates and as handsome as whoever women consider handsome now.

And even having plans for the future/ambition isn't enough, though some will say it is. Having ambition but no way to follow up on it is seen as being just as bad as working at Mickey D's......for 5 dollars and change an hour. Does that sound right to you?

It's objectification. I defy anybody to find reasons why it's not.

And really, Boo hit the right notes again in his post on the second page. The thread should have been over after that.

Good thread.

It's mostly just the Love and Hating subforum. Stay away from it like the plague.

Great thread if you're not the dude scanning software contractor paperwork all day for the aforementioned reasons...

It's hilarious how you keep repeating this BS. Even men would disagree with you. From your posts it seems you have a very black-white way of thinking.

Then explain it?

Give us some insight into why women tend to judge men by status / money instead of personality.

A man is not his job, his friends or how much money he has in the bank.

Your assumption is black and white and bullshiteous. The same as me saying men judge women by their beauty instead of their personality. It's a black and white and dumb assumption so there is nothing to explain about it. You sound extremely bitter and hostile.

Your avoiding the question! As if it's something men are not allowed to understand! By not answering women are just proving the reason must be shameful. Why do women tend to judge men by status / money instead of personality?

An answer would sound like "Well heres the reason women tend to judge men by status / money first:"

And yes its true men go after physical appearance first and yes it is shameful. I almost don't want to be human because those ARE the standards that make me attracted to a woman first.

There is no god, none of it is fair, evolution hardwired us and it doesn't care.

So just out with the explanation, we are all same demented creatures.

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Do you have trouble reading? Your bitterness must have damaged your brain. I do not agree with your premise so I cannot explain anything.

"As if it's something men are not allowed to understand! By not answering women are just proving the reason must be shameful". You are just proving your mental issues.

Still avoiding the question and shaming ME to shut me up. As if i am about to uncover a shameful secret about evolutionary hardwiring.

While there are 50 shades of gray(the intensity spectrum), there are two very distinct endpoints.

Men judge women on their looks when it comes to sexual attractiveness, but there is more than just physical attraction that is needed when it comes to sustaining a relationship. You see, superficial matters like looks, wealth, status, and innate abilities(be them social, athletic, artistic, intellectual, etc. etc.) are not everything but they are something and they can never be completely overlooked. But black and what aside, you need to think it terms of percentages. When I say "most" referring to a collection of things or people, I mean 60% or more. Fuzzy logic is no less logical than binary logic, even though there is more combinatorial complexity.

Tbh, you're being too over-sensitive and unfairly calling every man trying to understand the opposite sex bitter and hostile.

There was nothing hostile and bitter in his post (there was no insulting, naming...etc) even if it's stereotyping.

And yes, from my personal experience, a lot of women (I can also say like him "women tend to...") care a lot about the status in men, in varying degrees.

Oversensitive is subjective. So is 'unfairly'. I DO find this person to come across as bitter and hostile, even though he did not explicitly insult or call names.
From my experience, it's a lot less black and white than the way he states things. Then again, I find you to be a black and white thinker a lot of the times as well, just as Echolalia said.

THIS I agree with.