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13 Feb 2015, 1:45 pm

Women who think lowly of me as a man? I never really paid to much attention and if they do then they aren't worthy of my presence and aren't worth my time or effort. I shall reciprocate those feelings since it is mutual I have got better things to do like focus on myself, my car and my work as well as my obsessions *my car included* I feel much better and free without worrying about trivial things like that. Im done playing that stupid game trying to be someone I am not just to try to get women to like me only to dump me later, it is a waste of time, a waste of energy and emotionally draining, I prefer being just me and doing my own thing. I would rather be happy and single being myself than miserable and in a fake relationship constantly changing myself for someone else who only likes the fake me and not the real me let alone having to hide my true self like pretending to be NT 24/7. I am an aspie I am also an Otaku dont like that or think im a loser then piss off and go somewhere else your not worth my time since you judge me by my cover your probably a boring person anyway. Anywho semirantmode now /off I had to say it and I feel much better.


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13 Feb 2015, 1:59 pm

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I can see why women around here might want foreign men. Canadians can be very apathetic when it comes to people being rude to them.


But then I'm British and Canadians fascinate me 8O If I met a Canandian man I would probably
want to talk to him more.



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13 Feb 2015, 2:00 pm

hurtloam wrote:
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I can see why women around here might want foreign men. Canadians can be very apathetic when it comes to people being rude to them.


See, this is what I was saying about the grass being greener on the other side. But then I'm British and Canadians fascinate me 8O If I met a Canandian man I would probably
want to talk to him more.



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13 Feb 2015, 10:07 pm

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Women who think lowly of me as a man? I never really paid to much attention and if they do then they aren't worthy of my presence and aren't worth my time or effort. I shall reciprocate those feelings since it is mutual I have got better things to do like focus on myself, my car and my work as well as my obsessions *my car included* I feel much better and free without worrying about trivial things like that. Im done playing that stupid game trying to be someone I am not just to try to get women to like me only to dump me later, it is a waste of time, a waste of energy and emotionally draining, I prefer being just me and doing my own thing. I would rather be happy and single being myself than miserable and in a fake relationship constantly changing myself for someone else who only likes the fake me and not the real me let alone having to hide my true self like pretending to be NT 24/7. I am an aspie I am also an Otaku dont like that or think im a loser then piss off and go somewhere else your not worth my time since you judge me by my cover your probably a boring person anyway. Anywho semirantmode now /off I had to say it and I feel much better.



I don't know... I just want to feel like normal people do... I know that can't happen, but I just want to know what its like being on the inside for once...



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14 Feb 2015, 12:44 am

Men in my area tend to be rednecks and Hispanics. Hard workers and generally OK people, but they cant give me the intellectual stimulation I crave.



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14 Feb 2015, 9:06 am

SwissPagan wrote:
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If western women would not play hard-to-get, and maybe even show a little gratitude for the attentions of a courtly gentleman, maybe western men would not be so interested in eastern women, who seem to appreciate being treated well.
Not every western woman is playing hard to get. In fact, I appreciate any attention I get from a guy unless it's creepy. And when I mean creepy, I mean in a "let's have sex even though I KNOW you're a minor" kind of way.
kinda why I keep my distance, unless the girl makes the first move. I can't tell when something is creepy, so I keep my distance unless the girl makes up the distance...
Any luck with that?
maybe, if the girls I end up in relationships with weren't all international students...
... and the reason that they're all international (e.g., foreign) students is ... ?

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14 Feb 2015, 11:30 am

Halfmadgenius wrote:
Men in my area tend to be rednecks and Hispanics. Hard workers and generally OK people, but they cant give me the intellectual stimulation I crave.


Because it's impossible for a Hispanic or small town guy to be smart or interesting enough for you to talk to? Racist and classist much??



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14 Feb 2015, 11:41 am

KayteeKay wrote:
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Men in my area tend to be rednecks and Hispanics. Hard workers and generally OK people, but they cant give me the intellectual stimulation I crave.
Because it's impossible for a Hispanic or small town guy to be smart or interesting enough for you to talk to? Racist and classist much??
Rednecks are people who express a lack of sophistication in glorious ways, like shouting "Hey! You all gotta watch this!" as their last words, or making a jacuzzi out of a trolling motor and a kid's wading pool.

As for Hispanics ... I have to wonder how many of those whom Halfmadgenius refers to speak English, and what they might have to talk about if they do. Around here, I sometimes overhear my neighbors speaking near-perfect English; but when I try to talk to them, all I get is "No Anglais, señor". It is they, not I, who display reluctance to communicate with people of another race.


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15 Feb 2015, 2:34 pm

Fnord wrote:
KayteeKay wrote:
Halfmadgenius wrote:
Men in my area tend to be rednecks and Hispanics. Hard workers and generally OK people, but they cant give me the intellectual stimulation I crave.
Because it's impossible for a Hispanic or small town guy to be smart or interesting enough for you to talk to? Racist and classist much??
Rednecks are people who express a lack of sophistication in glorious ways, like shouting "Hey! You all gotta watch this!" as their last words, or making a jacuzzi out of a trolling motor and a kid's wading pool.

As for Hispanics ... I have to wonder how many of those whom Halfmadgenius refers to speak English, and what they might have to talk about if they do. Around here, I sometimes overhear my neighbors speaking near-perfect English; but when I try to talk to them, all I get is "No Anglais, señor". It is they, not I, who display reluctance to communicate with people of another race.



All Hispanics refuse to speak to you? By pretending they speak no English? Really?!?

It sure sounds like there is SOMETHING else going on!



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17 Feb 2015, 2:56 am

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In England I knew a girl who only wanted a boyfriend if he was Italian, also my sister in law had an Italian boyfriend for a long time.


Yeah, but that's understandable. Who wouldn't want an Italian boyfriend? ;-)

I'm Italian, and I don't (necessarily) want an Italian boyfriend.


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17 Feb 2015, 3:18 am

It seems like guys in my area seem to prefer girls WITHOUT Asperger's, bleach their hair blonde, and gossip like crazy. Maybe I'm living in the wrong area....