My opinion: Everyone was born with a free mind and a freedom to choose and it's not up to me what people do with their own freedom. I am sure anyone who is homosexual is sick and tired of hearing people say "It's not right", "it's not natural", "Men and women were made to reproduce, so people of the same sex shouldn't be together..." all that stuff...it's said so much that I kind of laugh whenever people say it. Do they expect that someone who is gay will see it and say "Wow! I never thought of that! I'd better be straight because this just isn't right!"
I've also heard people say that "even if they can legally marry, in the eyes of God they will not be married." But here's the thing...I don't think they care, it's about legal rights, not having a church wedding and being married in the eyes of God. Married people have different legal rights because they are legally considered family. I wouldn't like not being able to get updates on the medical condition of my partner of 10 years from the hospital...or having no legal rights over children who called me "mommy"
And to the "it makes a mockery of real marriage" statement. Well to me, us straight people are doing a fine job of making a mockery out of marriage already...with our high divorce rates, cheating and spousal abuse the idea that the marriages of today are a sacred and holy union is just an illusion. How many people have had many multiple sexual partners before meeting their spouse? I don't view homosexual sex as any more "dirty" or "wrong" than this premarital sex...it's recreational, and done with absolutely no intention of starting a family. (And don't get me wrong, I do not agree with promiscuity. I am nearly 23 and a virgin who has dumped guys *because* they wanted to have sex within a few dates)
I'm not saying that people who have such "holy unions" don't still exist...but they're rare. And they are fooling themselves if they think the idea of sacred marriage is not already mocked. Plus, they've got to be pretty insecure of their own marriages to find two people who have nothing to do with them( and who they don't even see married in the eyes of God)
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I am straight, I am Christian-but I think this is a legal issue, not a church one.
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