Would you date a girl who doesn't wear dresses?

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When you decide to buy a home, would you base your decision on the curtains?

No, people usually say "nevermind, I can change that once I own it".

You'd honestly be surprised how many people *don't* say that with certains. I think this is definitely one of the areas that ASD people excel. My dad worked in the real estate field for awhile and you would not believe how many people would decide in favor of or against a house based on things that wouldn't even be there once they bought it - furniture, curtains, etc. - or things that can be changed for about $100 (like paint) so are really inconsequential when looking at a $300,000+ house.

Anachron's point is right that anyone rationale wouldn't base their decision on curtains, nor are their decisions based on clothes (whether one looks well-kept or not can matter, but not whether that's with pants or skirts), so not disputing his point...just having a mini-rage about all the people who are buying houses without the common sense to do so.

Yes I would. I would buy her a dress that fits(along with a pair of high heels) and try to persuade her to wear it. It sounds like you lack confidence in your body and that's something you really need to work on. You DON'T have to have a specific figure to wear dresses, skirts, and heels!! !

So you would date her, but pressure her to change for you.
Imagine a woman saying, "I would date a man who doesn't like sports. I would buy him a football jersey and take him to football games."
That doesn't make any sense, does it?

I don't think he meant it that way. I'm in no way shape or form trying to change for men. I like the look of dresses skirts and heels.

Lazar: you're not likely going to have another date after you try to dress a woman up. The mere idea that you think you could find something that fits her when you barely know her, that you understand what her tastes might be when it comes to something she doesn't want in the first place, and that she wouldn't be sorely tempted to knock you into the next century is a major red flag! She ain't Barbie, and Julia Roberts' "Pretty Woman" was a prostitute!

I was once wildly turned on by a woman who only wore torn-up jeans and tee-shirts.

I wouldn't like it if a woman wore dirty clothes, though. I wouldn't try to "dress up her," though.

Where written is the stupid rule that a girl can only be and look confident while wearing dresses/skirts and heels?

If you wanna make a girl feel confident tell her she looks lovely in whatever she's comfortable wearing and leave it at that.

Well I am married but if I were not this would be no problem for me.
That would be a deal breaker for me, as one of gifts that Asperger's has bestowed on me is a hyper reactived sensory system and most perfumes aftershaves and a few flowers contain scent elements that are overwhelming to me. On the plus side I can detect gas leaks before everyone else I have ever met and with a few exceptions like getting too close to lilacs the scent of spring blossoms seems to be a greater favorable experience for me. But then I cannot go into the soap and laundry aisle in the grocery store unless I hold my breath the entire time I am there. I have to know where the "safe soap products" are. Hold my breath, go get what I want and then escape before my next breath. Most people don't notice unless it is a very long aisle and I have to run in and out . We aspies can seem weird sometimes. I also have to deodorize some items I check out of the library because of hand lotions that have left lots of perfume residue.




I try not to let fear of never finding a boyfriend because I can dress perfect (tight dresses and heels). I wear makeup, I shower, I wear Victoria's Secret perfume (along with other brands), I wear women's clothes, I read manga, I love anime, I play a large variety of video games and feel like I am a total package minus my ability to wear dresses.[/quote]

No cloths at all would be awesome!

You are absolutely correct. Besides being an Aspie, I am a naturist. I sometimes go for days without wearing clothes (unless you count the shoes for my very tender feet) I walk for hours in my woods with nothing on. It is probably part of my Aspiness, but my hyper responsive nervous system gives me absolutely wonderful feelings as the breeze bathes the entirety of my body. Curiously enough with all my skin bare my body temperature is able to self regulate for a surprising range of air temperatures. Whole body exposure to cool air causes my metabolism to ramp up to keep me warm, and if it is too hot perspiration can evaporate from the entirety of my body to cool me. I can do heavy labor or slowly amble through my woods and meditate in comfort with pleasant stimulations, It is a great way to meditate and reliably brings a sense of peace and well being. Fall and Spring are the best as there is more variety to the environment and a lot fewer bugs, especially ticks.

Your woods? Is this public woodland near your place, or do you have woodland on your own property? If the latter, I'm very envious I'd run around naked in my own woods too! (Or bush, as we call it here, which sounds like no less of an innuendo )

You quickly lose all interest in being naked when in the forest/bush if it's remotely serious country (which Oz tends to be).

In retirement we bought a home on about 10 acres(4.05 hectares) with a 1.8 acre (.73 hectare) pond and due to a screwup in the title, and title insurance our holding doubled to about 20 acres(8.1 hectares) About 3/4 of this is wooded and besides the pond the rest is lawn or open field. The additional 10 acres are all wooded with growth mostly being 20 years old and the other woods probably 40 to 60 years growth. All of it was too dense to easily move through so I set about cutting trails through it and now have something like 1 to 1.5 miles (1.6 to 2.5 Km) of trails through it, front to back and side to side. I keep the trails clear with a riding mower, and the soil being slightly acid the trails develop a carpet of green moss. Essentially the property is a private park. We share it with Deer Racoons, Possums, Turkey Rabbits, Squirrels and assorted other wildlife. I am a bit of a "piker" as one of the other naturists not too far away has a similar place of about 100 acres (40.47 hectares) on a south slope mountain side with two streams and a lake, a pond and several springs and a small log second home he escapes to from the city.

If you want to see my woodlands, I have a gallery of photos atChristian Naturist Village, (I am known there as "Bare_Truth") but you will have to hang around there long enough to get 10 posts before you get gallery access. Just a curious aside, there are a surprising number of Aspies there, I have come to the opinion that there must be some sort of affinity for being clothes free among aspies. There are many countries represented there and we also have some Aussie's there but we probably have more Aspies than Aussies.

So now returning to the original posters subject/question "Would I date a girl who doesn't wear dresses?": Yes! If I were not married, I would, but preferably if she was comfortable wearing nothing when in a naturist venue. However I will not be on the dating market unless I were a widower, and I would never want that because I have the most wonderful caring gentle wife who can actually understand and accept my Aspiness AND my penchant for wandering about starkers, even though she partakes in neither.

Your property sounds beautiful, and your relationship does, too--I'm happy for you. Your post has me SOL (smiling out loud)!