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13 Aug 2015, 10:30 pm

Catlover5 wrote:

Don't you guys ever get tired of fighting?

takes both people to stop.
she doesn't seem to like us being here. but I'm not going anywhere.

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13 Aug 2015, 11:50 pm

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Catlover5 wrote:

Don't you guys ever get tired of fighting?

takes both people to stop.
she doesn't seem to like us being here. but I'm not going anywhere.

Stop putting words in my mouth. I said nothing about not wanting you to be here. I said I'm tired of your constant negative comments - there's a difference. Why would I not want an Aspie to be on an Aspie website? I'm tired of your constant negative comments about me and women in general. It's gets to be old crap. I already told one person that I'm not going to answer him anymore when he makes snide comments about me and who I want to date. The same goes for you. I'm going to have to learn not to answer your negative posts, but its difficult when the posts are about me. So I would appreciate it if you didn't address me in any more posts. Thank you.

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13 Aug 2015, 11:58 pm

nurseangela wrote:

sly279 wrote:

Catlover5 wrote:

Don't you guys ever get tired of fighting?

takes both people to stop.
she doesn't seem to like us being here. but I'm not going anywhere.

if you stopped posting your negative post I'd wouldn't need to post negative as much, my posts are reactions to others posts. I'm not going to sit back and be called worthless and not say anything. you think so little of me and other guys because we don't' make enough money. that hurts us. doubt you'd like men posting about how worthless women like you are. it'd probably upset you. you'd probably post in reply.

i'd appreciate if you stopped bashing worthless men and treated us like equal humans with feelings.

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14 Aug 2015, 6:44 am

We don't try to be negative. We are simply realistic.
I don't think nurseangela bashed anyone here.

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14 Aug 2015, 2:01 pm

Is that Marcela in your avatar again?
Other than that, I just have one more thing to say: I'm sorry for the NTs who are married to aspies. Nobody deserves the horror of having an aspie in their life.

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14 Aug 2015, 2:49 pm

Cockroach96 wrote:

Is that Marcela in your avatar again?

No, that's Beata Szarlowska, one of the finalists in season 1 of Poland's NTM.

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Other than that, I just have one more thing to say: I'm sorry for the NTs who are married to aspies. Nobody deserves the horror of having an aspie in their life.

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14 Aug 2015, 3:10 pm

Cockroach96 wrote:

We don't try to be negative. We are simply realistic.
I don't think nurseangela bashed anyone here.

except where she bashed spider pig for showing his negativity ie realistic.
she did the same to me in another thread and she trouts the men are worthless if they don't make this much money line.
I responded to her post at spider pig . it started with her.
if she stopped touting that line at us and bashing us we might actually get along. but probably too far past that now

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14 Aug 2015, 3:15 pm

I can't help but wonder, how many locked threads will there be in this forum by, for example, the end of the year, in ratio to the number of unlocked threads?

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14 Aug 2015, 3:20 pm

You know, to the original poster, pretty much all of the insults you levelled at aspies can be applied to NT's. In case you haven't noticed, human are f*****g idiots, period.

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14 Aug 2015, 3:21 pm

Catlover5 wrote:

I can't help but wonder, how many locked threads will there be in this forum by, for example, the end of the year, in ratio to the number of unlocked threads?

far less. people make 20 more threads or more to each locked one.

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14 Aug 2015, 3:23 pm

Anyone who thinks most or all humans are idiots should have the guts to call each one an idiot to their face.

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14 Aug 2015, 3:25 pm

sly279 wrote:

far less. people make 20 more threads or more to each locked one.

Well, this forum is getting so messy now, it's just getting so clogged up with locked troll threads and threads where people have been fighting. It's a shame we can't delete threads, it would be so much better if we could. It would also make things a lot better if we had an ignore list function so that people could ignore the posts of others they don't like.

ETA: Ugh, this stupid thread has gained yet another page thanks to me :roll:

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14 Aug 2015, 3:52 pm

Catlover5 wrote:

sly279 wrote:

far less. people make 20 more threads or more to each locked one.

a lot of thread are started seeking help and get some good stuff posted before it becomes plagued with in fighting. to delete them would get rid of the good.
there are tons and tons and tons of pages of threads going back years. such is forums theyget clogged up over time. lol

yes the L&D section has become a battlefield between the women and few men who think worthless men should go a way or change despite them not being able to. and us worthless men fighting to just live.

they don't' want to help us because we are a upfront to everything they believe. we are living proof against their idea dream world. what do you do when something goes to prove you're propaganda wrong? you destroy the proof.

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15 Aug 2015, 4:09 am

Spiderpig wrote:

Anyone who thinks most or all humans are idiots should have the guts to call each one an idiot to their face.

Oh I would happily call you and everyone else an idiot, including myself. We are ridiculous creatures people. That's not really the point I'm making though. Nt's are no more functionally free, than people who are on the spectrum. It may appear they are more free from the list of constraints that started this thread, behind appearance though it's biological impulses driving us along that we (nt's, when I choose to think of myself as one) create a story for and pretend it's our own. All the time though it's the ridiculous life and death bell ringing, animating us into action. When death comes though, I'm sure I will want just a bit more ridiculous time, idiot i am.

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15 Aug 2015, 6:08 am

Imho, We have our positives and negatives whether that be N.T. or Aspie, along with differences between N.Ts and differences between Aspies.

I'd focus on the positive and just take full advantage of the fact you are aspie.

Yes we have difficulties and other problems but some of us can at least use our idiosyncrasies, unique perspective, etc. to our benefit.

Good luck.

And if you don't want to see the bright side of things, well then hope that ends well for you.

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