I'm going to Talk to that Guy

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If you have a crush on somebody, it almost always means you want to date that person.

Probably not a good idea LOL. Don't even mention Starbucks to that guy!

OMG!!


I don't really know if he is interested in me. I never looked down there.

Do it, that signals to him that you want the D and few mere mortal men can resist women who clearly want the D.

Dead serious too, if you like this guy and would do anything to be with him, then showing him you're horny because men love women who love sex.

If you have a crush on somebody, it almost always means you want to date that person.

OMG!!


I don't really know if he is interested in me. I never looked down there.

Hey there's nothing wrong with just wanting sex maam assuming thats what you want. Just something wrong with society. Who says that only dudes want sex or casual sex? Just be careful since you are a female, make sure the dude isn't like a cereal killer rapist.

But if you actually want a genuine relationship and wanna take the sex stuff slow, then just talk to him and show interest. Men like it when girls they find attractive or even average walk up and talk to him. Do it consistently though because he may seem uninterested but he's actually shy and he will gradually open up to you.


Go get your dream guy! I always like to say reject is better than regret.

If a guy look at you that means he interested in you? I think he is interested in me, months ago, I think he did try to get my attention & I could talk to him, I didn't know months ago. I don't remember when I first saw him, I think it was in August, I just moved on my own. I wasn't coming in the coffee house too much back then, when I did go to the coffee house, I was in line for someone to take my order & one person was there, the guy said something when he saw me, I think he was happy to me. I dropped something twice & I saw him looking at me then later I coughed, he looked at me. Last week, I was walking home & I saw that guy behind me, I cross the street & then I lost my balance, I fell down & he saw it, I think he was worried about me, when I got up, I saw him looking at me, falling down wasn't the only bad thing, I also hyperventilated. I went to the coffee house the next day, someone else took my order, he was doing something else & then after that, he came over, he asked me something, he acted like nothing happened. Also last week, he was looking my way unless he was looking out the front door. Could this be the true? He is interested in me & wanting to get to know me. I'm scared that I'm believing in something that may not be true, I been hurt soooooo many times, I been hurt by men, friends, people that were almost friends, I been hurt by my dad & by a doctor. I'm too scared to see if this is true about him. What should I do? This is hopeless.

When I go to other places, they are not friendly like him, this guy is too friendly to customers, he asked how are they, but doesn't talk to me, he only talk to me when he takes my order.

Maybe he felt rejected by you, it has happened to me before completely unintentionally on my part. i.e. I did not realise it. Don't hang around there for hours, just work out what day he goes in and just go in for a coffee, more if you get talking to him. If he picks up the vibes from you that you're interested, he might become interested back. Yet if he felt rejected before, he may be more hesitant. Don't be too afraid to look at him, unless he never looks back, in which case he may be trying to avoid eye contact. Men know a womans' interest from her looking at them frequently, or at least that's how they intepret it, and can find it flattering.

Men know a woman's interest from her looking at them frequently....