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18 Feb 2016, 7:41 pm

helloarchy wrote:

Please tell us if/when you find out - this is getting interesting XD

I wish the coffee house was finished being remodeled, it's like it never going be finished, someone did say on Facebook that the coffee house will open in March

this is killing me!! I miss him so much, I wonder if he miss me. I been trying to find him, but I don't know where to look. I usually don't go to the coffee house everyday or to another place, I rather save my money. This is my first time going to the coffee house everyday. I hope this guy is paying for my lunch if not him then I have another man interested in me, I WANT HIM! This is like a movie. This NEVER happened to me before, my last boyfriend was over 20 years ago.

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18 Feb 2016, 7:55 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

Frankly, if the guy is paying for her lunches and dinners, and is NOT interested in her, I would think he's either stupid or up to something not quite right.

I don't go there everyday, I only have lunch there. I went there today to get their fish tacos.

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18 Feb 2016, 7:56 pm

Did the guy pay?

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18 Feb 2016, 8:06 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

Did the guy pay?

No.

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18 Feb 2016, 8:09 pm

Sorry about that!

I hope he pays tomorrow. I also hope he introduces himself to you.

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19 Feb 2016, 4:31 am

kraftie, let's make a bet: I bet it's the restaurant management doing a gesture at times for a very frequent customer(even if it's not everyday, she's obviously a frequent eater there) - there's no secret admirer.

You bet it's an amazing secret admirer.

The loser of the bet should post a picture of him in undies.

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19 Feb 2016, 12:00 pm

^ what happens if it's both

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19 Feb 2016, 12:39 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

You have statistics against you. What are the odds for a girl both having somebody pay occasional lunches at a restaurant, and an admirer at a coffee-shop, which also appears to seek contact outside of his work? Not very big, so I'd say you lose. :mrgreen:

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19 Feb 2016, 12:45 pm

rdos wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Where are you getting that he appears to seek contact outside of his work from? Sounds more like the OP has an infatuation with this guy and because of this just hopes he's the admirer paying for her lunch...she hasn't said the guy tries to seek her out outside of his work just that she wishes she knew how to find him. Also she has no way to know whether or not this guy she is thinking of even found out she ate at that restaurant or not.

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19 Feb 2016, 3:43 pm

Has the OP been paying it forward? If someone pays for your lunch, you should pay for the next person's. That's creating good karma and good things will come to you as a result. The more you give away, the more you will receive in return.

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19 Feb 2016, 3:57 pm

Feyokien wrote:

^ what happens if it's both

Then we both get naked!! !

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19 Feb 2016, 4:47 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:

Where are you getting that he appears to seek contact outside of his work from?

I think she wrote that in another thread.

Sweetleaf wrote:

Sounds more like the OP has an infatuation with this guy and because of this just hopes he's the admirer paying for her lunch...

Sure, but this happens very rarely, so the chance this happened just by coincidence is very small. I've been a regular customer at a few places, but on the rare occasions I got a free lunch they always mentioned it was because I was a regular customer. It never happened in a context where the restaurant didn't disclose the reason. The restaurant of course have every reason to let me know they were the one's that offered me a free lunch, because then I will think well of them and continue to show up. There is no point in doing this without telling the reason. In the case of the OP, it's most likely that the guy suspected she would connect it to him, which is why he did it.

Also, my daughter happened upon a real strange lady just before Christmas that offered to buy her a pair of shoes. She let her chose a pair, passed through the cashier and paid, and outside handed them over to daughter. However, this was not anonymous either, rather she probably wanted to do a good deed, and she certainly announced it was her paying for it.

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19 Feb 2016, 4:56 pm

I'm not going to the restaurant today, I'm going to take my cat to the vet, she is heavy to carry