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Kilroy
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28 Apr 2007, 9:47 pm

well I think I'm nice because I care about people...even if I don't know you-I love helping and I've spent the more of 12 years doing volunteer work and what not :D it's been a good thing for me...
now I think that makes me nice



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28 Apr 2007, 9:53 pm

Kilroy wrote:
well I think I'm nice because I care about people...even if I don't know you-I love helping and I've spent the more of 12 years doing volunteer work and what not :D it's been a good thing for me...
now I think that makes me nice


Replace this with,

I think I'm nice because I hate people...even if I don't know you-I love killing and I've spent the more of 12 years doing violence and what not :D it's been a good thing for me...
now I think that makes me nice

See any significant difference in the argument?

Look, I have no reason to believe that you are
NOT a nice person, perhaps even by MY standards,
but I haven't met anyone whom I would consider
wholly good.



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28 Apr 2007, 9:55 pm

well I have bad to me everyone does...I'm far from perfect...

and yeah I see some signifacances I never want to hurt anyone...



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28 Apr 2007, 10:05 pm

What's fundamentally better about helping vs. harming?



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28 Apr 2007, 10:08 pm

helping makes the world better-harming hurts people and makes them sad



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28 Apr 2007, 10:20 pm

Kilroy wrote:
helping makes the world better-harming hurts people and makes them sad


I'll agree with the latter (for most people - some thrive on being hurt)
But, all the same, I'm unconvinced that you have any insight into the
true 'good' as it were. Neither do I, but for aesthetic reasons, I believe
that destruction is perfection.



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28 Apr 2007, 10:23 pm

well I don't and I know more than you think


saying that I say good day to you
*tips hat*
good day



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28 Apr 2007, 11:59 pm

Oh Geez.

I've opened a big can of wormz.


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29 Apr 2007, 6:35 am

mmm...worms.



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29 Apr 2007, 9:11 am

I helped an old-lady with her groceries at the checkout today.
Usually would not, but the checkout girl was really fit.
Not that i had any chance, she was much too young for me.
(The checkout bird, not the old-lady.)



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29 Apr 2007, 5:33 pm

Wait, and see how things work out with her and her boyfriend. In the meantime... quit pining and keep your options open. You can still go after other girls... you never know, maybe one of them will turn out to be more suited to you.



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29 Apr 2007, 8:16 pm

Kosmonaut wrote:
I helped an old-lady with her groceries at the checkout today.
Usually would not, but the checkout girl was really fit.
Not that i had any chance, she was much too young for me.
(The checkout bird, not the old-lady.)


Beautifully and honestly put.
I would actually probably have
kept myself from helping the
old lady on moral grounds here
though - as my intentions would
be questionable. Right makes
might and all.