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14 Jul 2016, 2:26 pm

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Btw, ladies, the many of you, please....stop pretending that you are the less shallow gender and the less visual - the "women are less visual in dating" is a total myth.

Well, that's generally true. There's a reason women tend to be the top consumers of erotic novels, while men are the top consumers of pornography.



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14 Jul 2016, 2:32 pm

Barchan wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Btw, ladies, the many of you, please....stop pretending that you are the less shallow gender and the less visual - the "women are less visual in dating" is a total myth.

Well, that's generally true. There's a reason women tend to be the top consumers of erotic novels, while men are the top consumers of pornography.

So dating a guy who can write such novels is the ultimate thing?


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14 Jul 2016, 2:54 pm

Barchan wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Btw, ladies, the many of you, please....stop pretending that you are the less shallow gender and the less visual - the "women are less visual in dating" is a total myth.

Well, that's generally true. There's a reason women tend to be the top consumers of erotic novels, while men are the top consumers of pornography.


This is all due to marketing and social conditioning.

and what's done behind the doors is not the same as publicly claimed.



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14 Jul 2016, 3:28 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
The most common sentence on women's profiles on tinder is "NO Hookup please!" or something like that.


Probably to deter the hordes of men who would like to hook up with them without having a succulent body like that of the guy in your pictures.


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14 Jul 2016, 4:19 pm

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MissAlgernon wrote:
Of course we're just as visual as men ! Personally, I'm not visual but most of my friends are, I know that I'm not the majority in my preferences.
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It's good that you are honest about, but the "We are less visual than men" or 'we don't care about looks' is something you hear a lot.


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It's just that it isn't because you want to look at a sexy picture that you're necessarily interested in doing something more than just looking


Believe me, they want to date him too, don't be so naive :P.


I have not heard very many females state that they don't care about looks or are less visual than men.

Also, pretty sure it's possible to find a guy attractive without wanting to date him.


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