any women here who have never dated, never had a boyfriend?

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22 Aug 2016, 1:06 pm

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(despite me practically handing him a manual for my peculiarities - verbally, not in actual print form :lol:

Nah, m'lady, print form is the way to go. :tongue:

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22 Aug 2016, 5:13 pm

I've talked to several and they certainly are out there. Social anxiety, depression, introverted to the point of complete isolation, low self esteem, resting b***h face. Tends to be some issues prevented a normal dating life. Not including asexuals.

It's definitely more more common for guys to complain about FA stuff online.

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23 Aug 2016, 1:51 am

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Men outnumber women here, but it's not only here that I see this.

Since 2014 on a variety of websites including here, Reddit, Citydata, Bodybuilding.com Misc, Yahoo Answers, Quora and Facebook, it seems for every single female who complains of being miserably lonely, there are 10 males who feel the exact same way.

"2. Women are less likely to turn to online forums to vent about their single status.

Anyway, yes, I am single, and have had just as much difficulty finding a partner as the men here."

Because some women are probably happier being single, or at least tolerate it better. And they say women are the one's typically supposed to be the hopeless romantics?

If anything, I have never met or even seen a woman who identifies as a hopeless romantic, online or real-life. Ever.

Also, I would have never known.

In past posts I saw you have struggled with love and dating and predicted you were single, but you never at any point showed you feel extremely miserable loneliness and depression for several hours each and every single day, (not just minor or moderate loneliness) and if you don't and never have? Well, then you wouldn't know how it appears most single men feel.

Regardless of how I feel about anything, you should understand that people express and share emotions in different ways, and you should not conclude that a person who does not express themselves as you do, feels differently than you do.

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23 Aug 2016, 2:19 am

whatamievendoing wrote:

MsV wrote:

(despite me practically handing him a manual for my peculiarities - verbally, not in actual print form :lol:

Nah, m'lady, print form is the way to go. :tongue:

Darn it, I knew I messed up somewhere :lol:

Oh well, there's always next time

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23 Aug 2016, 6:45 am

Amity wrote:

I know one woman who fits the description.
She is a very shy private person so Ive never discussed this with her, but I think her general/social anxieties, the fear of rejection and breaking social conventions has kept her single.
I know she has had crushes, and maybe a date or two but for her I don't think it's ever gone beyond shyly showing interest.

So the count is only ....5 for now? Chronos, slw, hurtloam, androbot and the private person you mentioned.

Any other?

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23 Aug 2016, 6:56 am

my dd 27, not on wp though!

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23 Aug 2016, 7:01 am

^ is she aspie?

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23 Aug 2016, 7:20 am

for me yes, but she's choose bi-polar, and that's as good as it can get (in france)

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23 Aug 2016, 8:52 am

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Back to the topic, there's only 3 adult female users whom I am aware that they never had a bf or any form of relationship before: Chronos, hurtloam and slw.
Androbot also says she never had a serious relationship before too, but only a bad fwb.

Don't forget about goofygoobers.

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23 Aug 2016, 9:02 am

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Don't forget about goofygoobers.

Nope, she got a bf a while ago, didn't she?

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23 Aug 2016, 4:31 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

RetroGamer87 wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Don't forget about goofygoobers.

Nope, she got a bf a while ago, didn't she?

Really? First I heard

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23 Aug 2016, 4:39 pm

Goofygoobers has a boyfriend.

Androbot is no relationship virgin, in my eye.

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24 Aug 2016, 1:20 am

So are the relationship-virgin aspie women on WP are afraid to speak up here because we "a scary bunch in a male dominated forum and we may bite them".....

....or.. the more logical explanation is: relationship-virgin aspie women are simply....rare?

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24 Aug 2016, 1:21 am

or maybe they don't see a point in talking about it. always a possibility

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24 Aug 2016, 1:33 am

^ There seem to be more content being singles:
viewtopic.php?f=27&t=304404

but that doesn't mean they're relationship virgins (and doesn't even mean they're not currently having sex life)..

I only recognize Hermissinglink as never having a relationship before based on her post out of all the respondents.

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24 Aug 2016, 1:43 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

So are the relationship-virgin aspie women on WP are afraid to speak up here because we "a scary bunch in a male dominated forum and we may bite them".....

My avatar doesn't exactly help in that regard.

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