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25 Nov 2016, 8:40 pm

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In what way do you find this person appealing?
She's female. She's less than 30. She's not asexual. She's not obese. She's actually kind of pretty.

As for her personality, she's career minded (is it bad that I don't want to date poor girls?) Also she doesn't have depression like about two thirds of the girls I dated had. That's great! Dating depressed girls is a drag. I hate hearing them berate themselves. I hated it when that girl I was with for a few months went into her depressed phase and became hypercritical of me and didn't have enough energy to come out of her bedroom and did things that made her depression worse like not socialising and eating a low-nutrition, comfort food based diet. It was a visious cycle. Even before she dumped me she was very distant, like the absent girlfriend.
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Maybe take her up on the offer? (but bring protection!)
I'll have to. Unlike ex, she doesn't have a contraceptive implant.


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25 Nov 2016, 8:42 pm

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How long have you been talking for? and i thought it was movies then sex ;)
No. Waiting for a whole movie to finish could lead to massive sexual tension. Believe me, I've tried. The movies are for us to watch while we recover.
I thought that was the point to build the tension. One movie before then one after. Then again me and my partner rarely get through the first half and end up having to start the film from the beginning
Noo, the slow, drawn-out foreplay is for building tension, espeically for her. A friend gave me some good advice. Don't have sex until she's begging for it. It really works.


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25 Nov 2016, 9:02 pm

RetroGamer87 wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
How long have you been talking for? and i thought it was movies then sex ;)
No. Waiting for a whole movie to finish could lead to massive sexual tension. Believe me, I've tried. The movies are for us to watch while we recover.
I thought that was the point to build the tension. One movie before then one after. Then again me and my partner rarely get through the first half and end up having to start the film from the beginning
Noo, the slow, drawn-out foreplay is for building tension, espeically for her. A friend gave me some good advice. Don't have sex until she's begging for it. It really works.

when a person gets old like me, the hydraulic perseverance goes down the drain, so how does one stay totally erect when doing foreplay for a half-hour or more?



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26 Nov 2016, 4:16 am

auntblabby wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
How long have you been talking for? and i thought it was movies then sex ;)
No. Waiting for a whole movie to finish could lead to massive sexual tension. Believe me, I've tried. The movies are for us to watch while we recover.
I thought that was the point to build the tension. One movie before then one after. Then again me and my partner rarely get through the first half and end up having to start the film from the beginning
Noo, the slow, drawn-out foreplay is for building tension, espeically for her. A friend gave me some good advice. Don't have sex until she's begging for it. It really works.
when a person gets old like me, the hydraulic perseverance goes down the drain, so how does one stay totally erect when doing foreplay for a half-hour or more?
Grinding. Girls love grinding during the make out phase.

If sex was chess then I'd say your opening is the most important phase of the game.


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26 Nov 2016, 5:42 am

ah, sex just isn't for men past their sell-by dates. :|



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26 Nov 2016, 6:58 am

I sense that Blabby's parts are merely dormant; they're certainly not extinct.



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26 Nov 2016, 7:07 am

about as unemployed as a priest's.



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26 Nov 2016, 7:57 am

LOL......that could mean that you're having orgies every night.

Even a few Popes were notably profligate.



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26 Nov 2016, 4:40 pm

only with silicone suzie :nerdy: