This lady has some serious issues with Aspies

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Genital herpes is potentially contagious, ASD is not.

No none is born with genital herpes, it is acquired due to ones own mistakes of sleeping with someone else who has it.

People are born with ASD

ASD is purely mental, herpes may not bring any harm but it would be unsightly to have it on ones body.

Mouth herpes can be gotten by waterbottles towels, etc it is far more acceptable because it is gotten by accident.

Genital herpes is a more preventable accident.

Just to add this means you could go for years and years without showing signs of either oral or genital so wouldn't have to tell someone and could keep secret (especially as it's not contagious when it's non symptomatic)

I glanced at the page & I have better things to do than get p!ssed off reading that cr@p.

my main point wasnt even about the herpes i was just adding to what sly was saying about people hiding kids.

My main point is wouldnt you rather not be with someone who is judgmental of something that is essentially part of you.

Like someone with herpes wouldn't want to date someone who finds it gross and doesn't understand that it is easy to prevent it spreading. If you don't like it fair enough but wouldn't you want to know early on so you didn't get too involved.

the woman in the op clearly has issues and isnt worth thinking about

edit: actually i didn't even compare herpes and ASD. In Slys post he mentioned people not telling partners about children is worse and i responded or not telling someone about herpes and mentioned because people do worse doesn't make it right.

People have to demonstrate the capacity to understand the information you give them, something like herpes is pretty straight forward where as being on the spectrum needs to be understood which is besides the point that one is an incurable communicable disease and the other being a development condition. No, it's not my responsibility to provide the information so people can screen me out based on prejudice nor is my responsibility to educate people. Are you obligated to disclose all your sexual partners upfront for all the potentially interested parties? I'd say anyone who has spent any significant time around me wouldn't feel as if I am 'acting' with the intent to deceive, I would describe it as behaving or making an effort. How is that wrong?

Not everyone who considers ASD a dealbreaker is a bad person.

The woman in the article is but she does not represent all people who consider ASD a dealbreaker.

I'm sick of this 'Well clearly a judgemental a55hole like them isn't worth your time!'

People have their own indiviual preferences and dealbreakers.

That could be said to one of the nicest people you ever know if they happen to have a dealbreaker when you ask them out that means they don't want to date you.

"Clearly they are a judgemental, shallow a55hole for not giving me a chance!"

Guess what, it's the same thing 'nice guys' pull - She considers me a dealbreaker because she's not attracted to me?

Clearly she's the problem!

There are plenty of good people who are usually not judgemental by might be ignorant of what ASD is or have incorrect ideas of what it is.

There are people who are aware of what ASD is but consider it a dealbreaker still anyway.

I don't think somebody that isn't ignorant that considers it a 'dealbreaker' would make the mistake. What is the purpose other than to screen somebody out? It's not like herpes or having a kid because I might not want herpes or I might not want to be father to a child or deal with baby daddy drama, what ultimately is the damage in 'not disclosing' here?

nothing is more exhausting than having to pretend to be something one isn't or to pretend to not be what one naturally is.