I have the weirdest date tomorrow.

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07 Apr 2017, 8:10 am

And what's wrong with odd? LOL

I'm an oddball, not an evenball.

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07 Apr 2017, 8:18 am

^ lol

:heart: you kraftie

'Fast' is an unusual verb to use in this context, but maybe it's a cultural thing.

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07 Apr 2017, 8:25 am

To fast = to abstain from food, or figuratively to abstain from something.

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07 Apr 2017, 8:34 am

Jews fast (abstain from food and drink) from sundown the day before Yom Kippur to sundown the next day.

Muslims, during Ramadan, fast from sunup to sundown.

sunup=dawn; sundown=dusk.

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14 Apr 2017, 12:30 pm

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I didn't know that verb. Seems quite a nutty decision, wh did she choose that?

She actually broked her 'fasting' the day after.

She's kinda bothering lately for asking me for reassurances and questioning for my feelings, I was clear that our feelings are imbalanced and I am not in love with her yet (we only met once!); but she keeps like "so you want me to stop now?".

She's going insane and I am not understanding her.

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14 Apr 2017, 12:57 pm

Aww, she wants you. Isn't that a compliment?

Why not relax the barriers a bit? I mean, what have you got to lose? Anyone who's distant is not worth it.

I think you need to relax, so far this seems normal. She really doesn't sound that bad to me.

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14 Apr 2017, 2:09 pm

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Aww,

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14 Apr 2017, 2:12 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

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Aww,

It was aimed at her, don't worry.

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14 Apr 2017, 4:38 pm

So do you want her to stop now?

Do you think you haven't fallen in love with her yet or you never will?

Would you want to keep dating her if she wasn't leaving the country?

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14 Apr 2017, 4:42 pm

I don't see the point to develop any feelings for her....

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16 Apr 2017, 9:00 am

smudge wrote:

Had sex togoether and it was probably a mistake (it was good but I regret it..).

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16 Apr 2017, 10:06 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Had sex togoether and it was probably a mistake (it was good but I regret it..).

Having sex together is better than having it apart.

The only question to ask is, did she see this mostly as casual sex or as something more? If it was casual for her, you need to get past your misgivings. Suppose you wanted to hook up with somebody in a casual way and they consented - would you want that person to regret it?

Perhaps you should ring her up and talk about how good the sex was. If she acts appreciative, it might make you feel better about it.

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16 Apr 2017, 12:52 pm

MaxE wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Had sex togoether and it was probably a mistake (it was good but I regret it..).

Having sex together is better than having it apart.

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The only question to ask is, did she see this mostly as casual sex or as something more? If it was casual for her, you need to get past your misgivings. Suppose you wanted to hook up with somebody in a casual way and they consented - would you want that person to regret it?

She says it's casual since she staying temporarily anyway, until she drinks, she spills stuff that show otherwise...

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16 Apr 2017, 6:24 pm

Was she hot?

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17 Apr 2017, 6:10 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:

Was she hot?

Your questions are so teen-like. lol

4 hour and half, non stop (of course with the foreplay things taking most of the time, i am not a sex stallion).

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17 Apr 2017, 6:31 am

Consider her feelings,not yourself.

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