MarissaKay wrote:
I'm on the whole "fix yourself before getting into a serious relationship" camp now. I lived with my ex-fiance for a few months and depended on him for pretty much everything from financial stability to emotional stability. He abandoned me two months ago and I've been devastated ever since.
One thing I've seen that's kind of sad is that a lot of us don't feel whole unless we have a significant other in our lives. I'm working to get out of that mindset. Based on what my ex did to me, though (luring me out of our apartment while his family cleaned out his things in secret, then him calling my mother's phone to dump me), I don't know if I personally will ever be able to have a healthy relationship.
That’s horrible he did that to you. But surpose he couldn’t have just blocked you like most women do today. Seems he feared your reaction or just wanted to avoid the drama something it seems most people want today. Seems a lot of people don’t care about others emotions or take relationships serious but we are dealing with the me and I want it now generations. When it gets tough or borOmg such people bail.
I’d gladly provide emotional companionship to woman.
Best of luck to you. Sorry he did that. Though I disagree with the fix yourself first as no one is perfect or ever can be everyone has problems and faults. So you’ll never fix yourself in your life and thus always be single.
Hugs
Awww... Thank you! That's so nice of you!
05 Oct 2017, 10:15 am
