We're not good enough

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The fact that the same people are asking the same questions about the same problems year after year after year tells me I'm not just speaking for myself here. I'm just the only one who acknowledges the hopelessness of the situation.

The title is a large serving of concentrated balderdash and twaddle. We are among the very best of civilisation. Do not be downcast - life will improve. Look for inspiration in what energises you.

The only balderdash and twaddle is you saying we're in any way BETTER than the general population.

I tell people all it means is that one friend has feelings for another friend, but that friend doesn't return their feelings and just wants to remain friends. Nobody listens. They immediately start crying about sexism and entitlement and how "guys like me" only want women for sex.

^ LMAO well it's an archipelago actually, but that's me in a shellnut.





i've been a mod here for over three years and haven't got a cent out of it, i don't think alex can afford to set up and manage a payroll especially considering how unpredictable our schedules are, and it would be difficult to determine how exactly we would be paid. the site just isn't big enough. it's not a huge part of my life, so it's not like i take a big hit from doing something like this without pay.

i met my GF in high school, she was a freshman, i was a senior. two year age difference. i remember some of the first interactions i ever had with her included her telling me i looked like a character from Off (video game) and me putting a kneaded eraser on her head and telling her she was "perfect". don't know what possessed me to do that. i invited her to the prom with a dorky drawing i made and the rest is, as they say, history. i currently work part time (soon to be full time, temporarily) at a tortilla warehouse making $14 an hour. not complaining.

thank you for asking.

@Kraftie, i am a college student, but am doing rather well financially, i live with my parents so my only real expenses are car related.



agree 500%. i think a lot less people would end up in the 'friendzone' if they were up front with their intentions from the start. often, being there isn't a permanent sentence, it's not unheard of to leave the friendzone. lots of people change what they see in a partner as they get older, it makes sense that you'd consider pursuing a romantic relationship with someone you already have gotten to know.

well i can't tell the future sly. but that's what i'm hoping.

There you go

Year retrog I should have tried the find s gf while in high school or college, isstewd of studying and getting good grades.

Why not do both? Kiprobalhato managed to to find the time to find a girlfriend in high school and date her through college I'm sure his grades didn't suffer in high school or college.