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14 Nov 2018, 11:03 pm

that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
Kitty, fwiw i've been going out and seriously trying to meet people since summer of '17, i only just recently met my bf! so it definitely took some time!

hang in there, and do what you need to to keep yourself happy :heart:

That just goes to show that if you persevere and stick to it you can achieve your goals.


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16 Nov 2018, 12:45 am

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At least your mind is open to it, Kitty.



Yet, before I change my mind again & I don’t want a man, I keep changing my mind, boyfriends are not an on & off switch.



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16 Nov 2018, 12:50 am

that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
Kitty, fwiw i've been going out and seriously trying to meet people since summer of '17, i only just recently met my bf! so it definitely took some time!

hang in there, and do what you need to to keep yourself happy :heart:


Going out to meet men is not for me, I cannot talk to people in public. I guess I need to go back on dating apps.



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16 Nov 2018, 6:57 am

Kitty4670 wrote:
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
Kitty, fwiw i've been going out and seriously trying to meet people since summer of '17, i only just recently met my bf! so it definitely took some time!

hang in there, and do what you need to to keep yourself happy :heart:


Going out to meet men is not for me, I cannot talk to people in public. I guess I need to go back on dating apps.


Do you mean you can't talk in public places, like cafes and bars? I get that. If I had to meet someone from a dating app I'd have to meet them in a park where we could sit and talk quietly. I've been in four relationships but never went out on a proper date with any of them, we just went for walks.



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17 Nov 2018, 2:36 am

lostproperty wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
Kitty, fwiw i've been going out and seriously trying to meet people since summer of '17, i only just recently met my bf! so it definitely took some time!

hang in there, and do what you need to to keep yourself happy :heart:


Going out to meet men is not for me, I cannot talk to people in public. I guess I need to go back on dating apps.


Do you mean you can't talk in public places, like cafes and bars? I get that. If I had to meet someone from a dating app I'd have to meet them in a park where we could sit and talk quietly. I've been in four relationships but never went out on a proper date with any of them, we just went for walks.


When I’m out in public, I can mostly be a quiet person, but when I was at the healthcare center, I was talking soooo much, I was without my cat, I got very very lonely. I was in one relationship, I met him at a workshop,we never dated, we went on group outings. My relationship with him lasted four months, he was cheating on me.