Is a man with long hair unattractive ?

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It depends on a person's taste. Personally I far prefer short (for both genders), and I have never been interested in any long-haired guy.

I don't find long hair on a man "unattractive", especially if he has a free-spirited personality to match (musicians, philosophers, pacifists, etc). I know those are stereotypes, but long hair often epitomises men of that nature.

That being said, I also like men with short hair and I even find bald men very attractive.

I think cberg's hair is nice and it looks healthy. If he likes it, he should leave it and be proud.

Imagine if men were weighing in on whether women should have to cut their hair?

I can't manage my own hair when it gets too long. It starts sticking out. I go to the hairdresser once a month to get it cut (and colored, as I get a big patch of gray on top and begin looking like a Calico/tortoiseshell cat!) Long hair on both sexes looks tangled and unkempt.

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As a heterosexual male my opinion probably doesn't count for much, but to me, men with long hair and no facial hair tend to look effeminate. I think you have to have masculine features to pull off the long hair + no facial hair look well.

I will say though that long hair on women is a massive turn-on. The longer, the better.

I've never grown my own hair long. Just not something that interests me. Growing my beard long on the other hand was an aspiration I had long before I could grow any hair on my face at all.

I thought Rafael Nadal looked quite nice with shoulder length hair. I also like the clean-cut look of Denis Istomin as well.

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Some of us just like all things metal, for reasons most other people will hopefully never need to understand. All that's aesthetically pleasing & melodious just isn't all that therapeutic.

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seems to me that a fondness for harsh musics seems to be associated with a particular physiological type, high testosterone seems to relate a lot to it. there should be a study of it somewhere.

Perhaps for some people but I know lots of women who enjoy it as well.

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believe it or not, woman also have testosterone in them, albeit a lot less than many men. it seems a physiological type that are into harsh musics, from what I seem they all seem slender and athletic with sharp features, male or female. have not seen any metal fans built like me.

I have no opinion on the matter

The way something comes together with a person’s overall style and personality is what matters (harmony).

If there is no harmony in whatever, it looks fake and imposed like an affectation.

Eg Cberg looks cool bcuz u can see he is comfy and casual and it fits his overall personality from what I can tell, it is not jarring. As fashion ppl say ‘he works it’

Russell Brand’s looks fake and imposed like he is trying to create a certain ‘iconic’ image (idk if he is, it just doesn’t seem harmonious to me with the way he is)

Kurt Cobain’s looked harmonious it fit him you could tell he was at ease about how he looked and it fit (seemed genuine not imposed and ‘trying to make an impression’)

Depends on the person you're trying to attract. Most guys have short hair, so shorter hair is something women are more used to. I definitely feel having shorter hair would increase the amount of women a man would attract because he is conforming to a certain look. Lets face it, the people that are considered to be the most attractive are the ones that follow trends, there are exceptions of course. It is kind of a novelty to have long hair as a male, and most will end up cutting it shorter eventually. I've personally always preferred to keep my hair long. Right now, it is the longest I've ever had it, about mid chest length. Depending on the person, it could be a lot of work to take care of. I usually keep it up in a bun and when I take it down I have some decent natural curls that work well with my thick head of hair, so luckily it's low maintenance. There will always be people wanting you to conform to their standards, but who cares what they think, as long as you're happy with it.