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01 Jul 2020, 9:46 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
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speaking of "sausage fest," i walked into an overcrowded alcohol-serving establishment asking for directions one day when i was lost somewhere out in the country. after i exited, it dawned on my like falling rain, that there was not a single woman in there.


Was that your first time in a gay bar? :mrgreen:


:lol: I didn't even think of that



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01 Jul 2020, 11:19 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
speaking of "sausage fest," i walked into an overcrowded alcohol-serving establishment asking for directions one day when i was lost somewhere out in the country. after i exited, it dawned on my like falling rain, that there was not a single woman in there.


Was that your first time in a gay bar? :mrgreen:

i believe so. i was young and naiver then.



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01 Jul 2020, 11:23 pm

cyberdad wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
speaking of "sausage fest," i walked into an overcrowded alcohol-serving establishment asking for directions one day when i was lost somewhere out in the country. after i exited, it dawned on my like falling rain, that there was not a single woman in there.


Was that your first time in a gay bar? :mrgreen:


:lol: I didn't even think of that


Wait, you're not autistic? :P

I'm not sure I believe all this talk about being backwards, come on, what other country only had gay bars at the time? :mrgreen:


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01 Jul 2020, 11:24 pm

auntblabby wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
speaking of "sausage fest," i walked into an overcrowded alcohol-serving establishment asking for directions one day when i was lost somewhere out in the country. after i exited, it dawned on my like falling rain, that there was not a single woman in there.


Was that your first time in a gay bar? :mrgreen:

i believe so. i was young and naiver then.




Why did I immediately remember this? :mrgreen:


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01 Jul 2020, 11:28 pm

LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Pepe wrote:
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Maybe it would be interesting to know of what kind of nightclubs we are talking about.
There are some major differences.


cyberdad wrote:
So basically nightclubs here depend financially on males.


I don’t wanna know how many thousands of francs I would’ve saved if I let other men pay the alcohol I was drinking when going out. :lol:


You get better and better. <sigh> :heart:
:mrgreen:

Just flirting, here.
I like to flirt. :wink:


Oh well.. :roll: :heart:

<comfort>
You will find some,
I am totally convinced of that.
Not better,
But more than adequate. :wink: :mrgreen:


:huh:


I meant you will find "someone".
I was joking that no one is better than me.
I'm better than all the rest.

It *is* true,
But I am too modest to push the fact. :wink: <joke>

I dated Tina Turner for a while. <joke>
She wrote this song for me.
She was so very clingy. :roll:

She sang:
Quote:
You're simply the best, better than all the rest
Better than anyone, anyone I ever met
I'm stuck on your heart, I hang on every word you say
Tear us apart, baby, I would rather be dead


So, so clingy. :roll: :mrgreen:



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01 Jul 2020, 11:35 pm

cyberdad wrote:
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I am still convinced "Nightclubs" are "Meat Markets".
But I am merely speculating here because I have only seen people walk in and out of them and watched movie events.


Its funny because my experience of nightclubs in Australia from the late 1980s to the mid 1990s was that the women would come in groups (either girls night out or mixed group of men and women) and protect each other from single men. Never met a male who picked up in nightclubs but I am sure it happened.

My recollection is girls who got drunk in pubs/bars who went of with a guy they didn't know were called slappers. There were groups I was aware of (and occasionally mixed with) where girls would sleep men from clubs but they always seem to know these men (what I called Fubus). I think Australian girls weren't that adventurous those days to have one night stands with total strangers?

It's possible clubs changed in the 2000s and it became more of a meat market due to the influence of hip-hop culture?. Somebody younger might be able to answer that question.


Like I said,
I am only speculating since I never went to them.
I'll take your word for it. <shrug>
I don't consider that one time Goth experience was a nightclub situation.



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02 Jul 2020, 1:58 am

funeralxempire wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
speaking of "sausage fest," i walked into an overcrowded alcohol-serving establishment asking for directions one day when i was lost somewhere out in the country. after i exited, it dawned on my like falling rain, that there was not a single woman in there.


Was that your first time in a gay bar? :mrgreen:


:lol: I didn't even think of that


Wait, you're not autistic? :P

I'm not sure I believe all this talk about being backwards, come on, what other country only had gay bars at the time? :mrgreen:


I think gaybars are not a big thing in Australia



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02 Jul 2020, 2:03 am

Pepe wrote:
I don't consider that one time Goth experience was a nightclub situation.


Did you notice any vampire hunters while there?

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02 Jul 2020, 1:07 pm

Nightclubs want women more than they want men.

Think about it, why do men go to nightclubs? Sure they want to party, but they also want to meet girls and get laid. Nightclub owners know this, that's why they offer incentives for women to go to these clubs. They'll let women get in for free or they'll make it to where women pay less for drinks.

Because if women go to the clubs, then the men will follow them. If there are no women, then men will be less likely to come.



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02 Jul 2020, 6:48 pm

Pepe wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Pepe wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Pepe wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Maybe it would be interesting to know of what kind of nightclubs we are talking about.
There are some major differences.


cyberdad wrote:
So basically nightclubs here depend financially on males.


I don’t wanna know how many thousands of francs I would’ve saved if I let other men pay the alcohol I was drinking when going out. :lol:


You get better and better. <sigh> :heart:
:mrgreen:

Just flirting, here.
I like to flirt. :wink:


Oh well.. :roll: :heart:

<comfort>
You will find some,
I am totally convinced of that.
Not better,
But more than adequate. :wink: :mrgreen:


:huh:


I meant you will find "someone".
I was joking that no one is better than me.
I'm better than all the rest.

It *is* true,
But I am too modest to push the fact. :wink: <joke>

I dated Tina Turner for a while. <joke>
She wrote this song for me.
She was so very clingy. :roll:

She sang:
Quote:
You're simply the best, better than all the rest
Better than anyone, anyone I ever met
I'm stuck on your heart, I hang on every word you say
Tear us apart, baby, I would rather be dead


So, so clingy. :roll: :mrgreen:



:lol: Don't worry, I won't seduce you.

actually.. is that a subliminal message you're trying to send me? :scratch:

Btw, nice how you put <joke> to everything, otherwise we'd all believe you :roll:



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02 Jul 2020, 7:04 pm

Well folks let's the check the scoreboard
Pepe: 1
The rest of the males on WP: 0



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02 Jul 2020, 7:08 pm

That’s why I didn’t even try; no one can beat Pepe’s charm. :mrgreen:



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02 Jul 2020, 7:13 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
That’s why I didn’t even try; no one can beat Pepe’s charm. :mrgreen:


Well got to admit, he has a way with the ladies :mrgreen: