He was definitely not for me
nick007
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These days, most pants for women are designed on the ASSumption that the only reason why a woman would ever want to wear pants is to show off her butt. Thus they tend to be extremely tight around the hips, which is uncomfortable for me. But I can't just get larger-size pants, or men's pants, because then they would be too loose around the waist.
Moreover, I want pants with pockets and belt loops, so I don't have to carry everything in my purse. That's also rare these days.
I also want pants made of some breathable fabric.
The above combination is almost IMPOSSIBLE to find. I hate clothes shopping!
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Problem is, at least for me, finding pants that FIT me comfortably is difficult.
These days, most pants for women are designed on the ASSumption that the only reason why a woman would ever want to wear pants is to show off her butt. Thus they tend to be extremely tight around the hips, which is uncomfortable for me. But I can't just get larger-size pants, or men's pants, because then they would be too loose around the waist.
Moreover, I want pants with pockets and belt loops, so I don't have to carry everything in my purse. That's also rare these days.
I also want pants made of some breathable fabric.
The above combination is almost IMPOSSIBLE to find. I hate clothes shopping!
As a 5’3 guy I always refit my new pants at the tailor.
Hi:
I only wear jeggings anymore and as for shopping at a mall, everything is too expensive. Unless it's at forever 21 or H&M
Anyway, yes, I did vent and there is a part of me who is still mad at him but there is a bigger part is for still being mad at myself. Also, seeing him brought back a lot of bad memories and experiences and I had to talk about it. It was also a really stressful situation.
The other reason why I was mad at him because I have never had a significant other myself and when it fell through it was rough.
Still, I knew that he was not interested in me and was an jerk. However, I let the whole "Wishful thinking," push the the truth on the back burner. I did not think about the compatibility factor after I had finally let him go and moved on with my life.
