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19 Mar 2022, 11:56 pm

Would you marry you?

No deeper luv could be found in the entire universe.
Of course, I would. :heart: :mrgreen:



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20 Mar 2022, 12:04 am

i am just about the only one who groks me.



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20 Mar 2022, 1:36 am

I wouldn't even meet myself. And she wouldn't even meet me either.

Unless one of us is more active and the other more passive.


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20 Mar 2022, 1:49 am


I've lived in apartments
I've lived in a home
I've traveled in trailors
When I used to roam
But now in these places
You won't catch me dead,
'Cause I'm happy I live in a split level head
I do what I want to
No worries, no cares
If anyone bugs me
I'll climb level stairs
Way up to a level
Where astronauts bed
'Cause I'm happy I live in a split level head
In here time means nothing
I coulden't care less
I don't run for buses
And trains are a mess
There's no one to care for
I don't make a bed
'Cause I'm happy I live in a split level head
I like how I'm living
I'm nobody's slave
My head's above water
So don't make a wave
There's no door to lock
And no door to be fed
'Cause I'm happy I live in a split level head
So why should I move
When the neighborhood's right
No taxes to pay
And no landlord to fight
Now I call this living
Once more as I said
'Cause I'm happy I live in a split level head
Now you keep your old turf
Your hills and what's new
You sure coulden't have them
And live like I do
You think I have problems
But you do instead
'Cause I'm happy I live in a split level head
I live with two people
I like most of them
He likes most of me
And I like most of him
Their my alter egos
And to them I'm wed
'Cause I'm happy I live in a split level head
There's no simple status
In my neighborhood
It's that kind of thinking
That keeps it so good
I don't take the lead
But I like to be led
'Cause I'm happy I live in a split level head



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24 Mar 2022, 3:33 pm

Yes. Sometimes that's very ideal and exciting.

But, I've also enjoyed people who are fairly different. It just depends on how much you're willing to understand and accept each other.



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26 Mar 2022, 2:50 pm

I would like to have a relationship that acts as my advisor on knowledge that I lack and need.
It is acceptable if the relationship sometimes requires the help of a romantic relationship.
The other I would obviously totally ruin this kind of plan.The other party will feel the same dissatisfaction.

"marry"? No thank you. (or thank me?)


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26 Mar 2022, 4:58 pm

CarlM wrote:
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You mean your Buster Horrace is too small.
Google doesn't know your slang word and google is all knowing :lol:.

The important part is the initials. B H


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27 Mar 2022, 4:07 am

babybird wrote:
Or even date you?

What have you got to offer another human being in a relationship. I mean you can't be selfish in a relationship, it has to be a two way thing, surely.

I ask myself this and I can honestly say that at this moment in time I would not marry me. I'm too childish, I have empathy issues, I'm slightly on the NPD side as well and although I am aware of this I would not wish to become unwittingly abusive to someone.

I am in a really good LDR and it is great but as for anything more than that I'm just not ready yet.

Would you marry you?

I would marry myself if I was a woman



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28 Mar 2022, 1:14 pm

txfz1 wrote:
Interesting question, how could you say no? If you can't meet your own standards, why would you expect someone else to lower theirs' for you? Or the other extreme, why would you lower your standards or expectations? This is assuming everyone has the true reality of themselves which we know is a general fallacy. I would say yes, I would love to meet someone like me.

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Sometimes I just want to be alone and angry



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28 Mar 2022, 3:10 pm

if i had been able to marry early in life to somebody like myself, now i'd be a pretty GD happy old man.



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28 Mar 2022, 5:24 pm

No.

And I am married 6.5 years and before this I was married for 26 years.

There is a lot about me that is good, but I can be very frustrating without ever meaning to be.



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29 Mar 2022, 7:52 am

rse92 wrote:
There is a lot about me that is good, but I can be very frustrating without ever meaning to be.
Same here but in my experience most everyone can be very frustrating at times, at least for me to deal with. If the person I get frustrated by is a decent person who usually tries to be accommodating, I chalk the problem up to my many issues or the person just being human & going through something bad. That's a major reason why I think I'd be a good match for myself. Whenever one of us is being a pain, the other would just shrug their shoulders, roll their eyes, sigh, & try to guess what the other needs & if we cant provide it or cant figure it out, we'd just go do our own thing for a while & give em space. If you guys were to ask my mom if I'm easy to get along with, she'd say that I'm very demanding, argumentative, selfish, & angry & unstable, to name a few. But my current girlfriend would say that I'm very supportive, caring, try my best to please her, & am level headed & logical about things. You would think that my mom & Cass were describing different people. The reason why is because Cass tries to be accepting & tolerant of my issues & doesn't criticize me or put me down for not being independent & capable like others my age. I normally like & accept myself but I hate the person I become when I'm getting screwed over, put down, & am expected/demanded to meet other's expectations that I could never meet.


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