rse92 wrote:
There is a lot about me that is good, but I can be very frustrating without ever meaning to be.
Same here but in my experience most everyone can be very frustrating at times, at least for me to deal with. If the person I get frustrated by is a decent person who usually tries to be accommodating, I chalk the problem up to my many issues or the person just being human & going through something bad. That's a major reason why I think I'd be a good match for myself. Whenever one of us is being a pain, the other would just shrug their shoulders, roll their eyes, sigh, & try to guess what the other needs & if we cant provide it or cant figure it out, we'd just go do our own thing for a while & give em space. If you guys were to ask my mom if I'm easy to get along with, she'd say that I'm very demanding, argumentative, selfish, & angry & unstable, to name a few. But my current girlfriend would say that I'm very supportive, caring, try my best to please her, & am level headed & logical about things. You would think that my mom & Cass were describing different people. The reason why is because Cass tries to be accepting & tolerant of my issues & doesn't criticize me or put me down for not being independent & capable like others my age. I normally like & accept myself but I hate the person I become when I'm getting screwed over, put down, & am expected/demanded to meet other's expectations that I could never meet.