I am sorry reading the posts between you two, which started with shocking but ended up kind of friendly really made me laugh (in a good way!) Nice to see people can be so civil to each other after a bit of vent.
Anyway, what was the oringinal post - some list - your list is not that demanding and of course you should stick with it. I am sure there are a lot of people like that out there - though as someone else pointed out, a lot would be taken. But it is a big world. Stick with your standards and keep looking! Good luck!